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So I really like this guy, and I think he's flirting back - but he's so intentional to everyone, so i don't know if he's really flirting or just acting like he always does to girls.
he's 22.
i'm 20.
here's the queston: what are some body language signs i can look for to see if he is flirting? / interested or whatever! thanks (link)
Ok what body language does he use, touching hand is definatly a good sign, putting his arm around you, staring, always finding a reason to see you, tickling you. If he does any of that then he is probably crushing, guys can be shy and can get scared and also a lot of guys like a girl with enough confidence to ask first. What's the worst he can do, say no and if he doesn't want to his loss right? You never know it could lead to something else ;p


My man and I are trying to get pregnant. I started my cycle on April 23rd and it generally runs 28-30 days. We had sex on May 3rd-6th. So I Still haven't had my period and it's more than 30 days. I tested on day 30 and I just test yesterday but both have shown up negative.

I have had back pain and headaches, bloating and cramps that have been way more intense than normal. I have felt slightly nauseous a few times and my sense of smell is inhuman.

Could I be pregnant if the tests have both been negative? I know stressing about it can delay a period, that's happened to me before, but I haven't had symptoms before. What's the latest a pregnancy test can show up as positive?

Any input helps! (link)
You might be pregnant, get some different brands of tests ;)


I know what you think oh how stupid she want to kill het self... But if you where in my place you would have done it long befor now...
I can't say the country but let's say I am from country (A) but I grow up in country (B)... I had a lot of dreams and I worked hard so hard studied up all night to go to the best universty... But the country(a) and (b) got in a war so country (b) took my father and we don't know where they put him and my mom left me my bro and my sis to go out and try to help... but she did not for 4 years but after 4 years we meet my mom onther country that is (c) we stayed there for 1 year and then came to other country that is Sweden and we asked for help here but they said no you can't stay here go back to country (b) now my mom is about to go crazy and I am not Going to school also my sister and we don't know what to do if we go back to any of the countrys we will get killed like my dad... I don't know what to do all I am thinking about is killing my self... Pls help... You don't have to tell me a way out but keep me alive till I get a way out...:'( (link)
Hun I am so sorry about your dad but killing yourself isn't the solution. I thought about it once but I realized how selfish it is, I won't tell you off or anything but keep strong. Think of the people that will miss you and even if there isn't a lot think about that one person. You have to help your family out here, you mom is probably going through a really tough time so you have to forgive her! You know you are loved even of you don't feel like it. You might be battling but keep strong! I wish I was there to give you a big hug!!!! Luv u stay strong xoxo


Chris and I met on May 11th. We met on match.com. Our first date was a movie night at his house. We clicked instantly. We've spent every single day together since then, with the exception of one day that I drove out of state. He lives in a quaint little apartment in a nice part of the state with two cats.
I guess it started with our multiple trips to the beach. We'd go to the beach, part ways to go to our own home, shower, and reconvein. He asked one day why I didn't bring over my shower stuff and shower there. I forgot my shampoo and conditioner there that night.
I told him the next day, I'd come by and pick it up, but he told me not to worry about it. As time went on, he encouraged me to keep more stuff there like snacks, makeup, and a toothbrush. The other day, we went to Bed Bath and Beyond to go shopping for things that he wanted my input on to make his apartment more of a home.
Yesterday, he gave me a set of keys for his apartment. It came as a complete shock. He has class from 6-10, an hour away from here, so he told me I could go over whenever, get some homework done, and relax.
I am not moving here with him. I am going to be a senior in college and have a dorm on campus. I'm sure that once I have the freedom of living at school, and not under my parents roof, I will be sleeping at his place and vice versa. I do not want to fully move in, and he knows but doesn't quite comprehend why.

My question: As a girl who is VERY new to Chris' life, and already has a key to his place, what are my boundaries? He says he wants to see me everyday and whatnot, but I don't want to impede. Everytime we try to talk about it, he just says he wants me here whenever I want to be here. I don't know how to work with that. (link)
Well, I can see why you would be confused but i wouldn't sweat it. if you want to go over there and chill it is ok but if you are there constantly he might be a little annoyed (just a guess) dont wreck the place, dont leave it messy, and let him know you are not totally ready to move in but you still like seeing him everyday. wait till you like him a little bit more. Leave him spome gifts sometimes. Hope this helped!


ok so.. im 14 , girl with light brown hair, light blue eyes, average weight, i wear glasses, people say i have a beautiful smile....i smile alot... i like this guy (14) .we have been friends for 2 years or so now we just see eachother in school. nothing has happened between us. i have started to like him A LOT but the problem is he is a total man whore and loves sluts,he also smokes. i dont really know if he likes me, but i always see him looking at me while we are in class and he is always teasing me in a fun way, my friends say he likes me but i dont know. i dont think he would ever like a girl with glasses..... does he like me too, and if so should i go out with him even though he likes sluts and smokes?
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No defiantly not. If you want a good boyfriend find someone else. If he doesn't like your glasses then he stupid, it doesn't change your personality a bit. Smoking is sooo horrible and bad habit. He will try to convince you to do it and you will because you like him. If you go out with him people might be calling you a slut and you might become one (not saying you will!) because he might want you to change for him. If you can convince him to stop smoking then he might seriously like you then you can ask him out,but think how ugly he will look after all that smoking.


Okay people,
I'm being serious when I ask this and no hateful comments because I'm really wondering.


Is it real? It's it beginning?
I mean, I know this sounds silly, but everytime I get on facebook someone is talking about it;

and than the guy from Miami that ate someones face and was only killed by a shot in the head; is that a start?

I know he was messed up on some type of salt; but still?


I'm curious to know. I never believed it until my friend showed me all these news clips saying it's about to begin.


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I promise, there is nothing to worry about it. That guy was either really sick, high on drugs or both. Nothing is going on and if you are worried about 2012 in December, thats not going to happen. The mayans calendar didn't end in 2012, they found a longer longer longer calendar and the Mayans didnt have leap year so it is passed 2012 to them. So you have nothing to worry about! Hope i helped :)


Okay, so when I was almost 17 I lost my virginity to a guy who was 22 at the time, he cheated on me, so I decided to quit trying to be with him, even though I cared for him a lot. We didn't speak to each other for a year. He sent me a message on facebook one day & we have been together for a little over a year now. When we first got back together I was the happiest I had ever been. We have lived together for 9 months, might I add, but the last 3 months things feel really different. I'm 18, almost 19 now, and he is 24. It kind of feels like the tables have turned. Like he's crazy over me now & idk how I feel anymore. I know that I love him with all of my heart & every time we fight and we break up I just can't let him leave & he doesn't want to leave either. I always think to myself, how could I ever be this close to someone again. But I just feel like I'm not happy anymore. I'm still young & I want to enjoy being out with my friends & stuff, but he says we never spend time together & WE live together. I'm always mean to him anymore & every little thing seems to get on my nerves. Why do I feel like this? Has anyone been in my position before? I honestly don't know how I feel. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to keep feeling this way. Like, I don't even want to have sex anymore & I use to all the time. I also feel like he has changed too! He used to always want to get out & do things, but now all he wants to do is stay home. Ya know, it's okay to stay home sometimes, but he has to understand that when he's at work, I stay here all day. We have talked about things & I've told him how I feel so many times & he thinks that after we talk, then the next day everything should be okay, but it's not. I still feel the same way. I just really need an outsiders point of view. Thanks guys! (link)
Well, I would be very upset and unless it was a VERY sincere apology i wouldn't forgive him. To cheat on a girl once would probably have hurt so much, just think if he is really worth it if he put you through crap. Is he going to do it again? Give it a try, just be cautious. Hope this helped




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