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I need An SOS help because i want to kill my self


Question Posted Sunday June 3 2012, 9:42 pm

I know what you think oh how stupid she want to kill het self... But if you where in my place you would have done it long befor now...
I can't say the country but let's say I am from country (A) but I grow up in country (B)... I had a lot of dreams and I worked hard so hard studied up all night to go to the best universty... But the country(a) and (b) got in a war so country (b) took my father and we don't know where they put him and my mom left me my bro and my sis to go out and try to help... but she did not for 4 years but after 4 years we meet my mom onther country that is (c) we stayed there for 1 year and then came to other country that is Sweden and we asked for help here but they said no you can't stay here go back to country (b) now my mom is about to go crazy and I am not Going to school also my sister and we don't know what to do if we go back to any of the countrys we will get killed like my dad... I don't know what to do all I am thinking about is killing my self... Pls help... You don't have to tell me a way out but keep me alive till I get a way out...:'(


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da1N0nlyfriend answered Friday June 8 2012, 4:44 am:
well i don't know what to say but i can imagine that you feel very hopeless but sometimes life gives challenges that we don't even understand at all or even make you feel like all this is unfair but you sound like you are a very strong person and with wonderful dreams don't let all this bring you down because there is far more even more worst things than this. please don't kill yourself you wont do well it might make it worse. there's Probability so many people out there that wish they weren't dying either because of some kind of disease of some kind or something like that.i just hope you realize life is a gift. i wish you the best of the best please don't kill yourself (:

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askjane answered Thursday June 7 2012, 1:15 am:
I feel really bad on what's happening to you and i'm really sorry that you had to go through all this. the best advice i could give you is to pray and be strong. life is a very precious thing and sometimes it's the only thing we want to take away from us because of the problems we encounter. But you have to remember that suicide is never the best way to solve a problem. you should always stand strong and show your problem that your not afraid to fight it and that you'll get through it. and it's best if you and your family stay with each other until the very end no matter what happens. stick together and solve your problems together. don't commit suicide it will just only make matters worst.

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alexisgirlie answered Tuesday June 5 2012, 12:12 am:
I'm really sorry that you are going through so much pain. Always remember that you are really brave, and you are going to fight this. It's good that you want to stay alive. That shows that you can see beneath the pain. Believe me, you are going to be happy again, if you give it the chance. I was suicidal a few months ago, the main reason, was also because of terrible war and strife, and I felt so bereaved. I cried myself to sleep every night, on the pictures of those who had been killed. Then I took a turn for worse, and I told my friend that I was going to kill myself on the weekend. I've been through so much, but today, I'm really happy, even though I'm bipolar. I wrote lots of songs when I was sad, and now my songs are becoming awesome hits. Try to write down your feelings. The awful pain, stark despair, the longing for a normal and happy life, and everything else you feel. It really really helps, and keeps you alive. If you can't write songs, try keeping a diary. You were born with the strength to survive this, and the world cannot afford to lose you, because you are so unique and special, and irreplaceable. You cannot deal with this alone though, so seek out help. You won't believe how much better your life will be. Do things that make you happy, and remember that you light up this world. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon :)

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lorrosehow answered Monday June 4 2012, 3:53 pm:
Hun I am so sorry about your dad but killing yourself isn't the solution. I thought about it once but I realized how selfish it is, I won't tell you off or anything but keep strong. Think of the people that will miss you and even if there isn't a lot think about that one person. You have to help your family out here, you mom is probably going through a really tough time so you have to forgive her! You know you are loved even of you don't feel like it. You might be battling but keep strong! I wish I was there to give you a big hug!!!! Luv u stay strong xoxo

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adviceman49 answered Monday June 4 2012, 1:02 pm:
I think I know what countries your talking about. You can't just enter a country and just stay there you need to apply for asylum. You do this by going to their department of immigration. It helps if you hire a lawyer from thaat country, in this case Swede, who knows the immigration laws. You should be allowed to stay while your request wroks its way through the system. In the mean time you can also contact other countried through tier embassies and ask to immigrate to that country while you are sking sweden for asylum.

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Mkmnm answered Monday June 4 2012, 8:59 am:
I have an emai..... It's mercykidane@yahoo.com

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Grazia answered Monday June 4 2012, 5:43 am:
!! Do you have links on a social networking site or something? Skype etc? xxx

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