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i like a guy who likes sluts?
ok so.. im 14 , girl with light brown hair, light blue eyes, average weight, i wear glasses, people say i have a beautiful smile....i smile alot... i like this guy (14) .we have been friends for 2 years or so now we just see eachother in school. nothing has happened between us. i have started to like him A LOT but the problem is he is a total man whore and loves sluts,he also smokes. i dont really know if he likes me, but i always see him looking at me while we are in class and he is always teasing me in a fun way, my friends say he likes me but i dont know. i dont think he would ever like a girl with glasses..... does he like me too, and if so should i go out with him even though he likes sluts and smokes?
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If he's into slutty girls and he likes to smoke then definately no! Dont date someone like that! If you guys are good friends then you really should tell him to stop smoking because you dont want to be around that kind of influence. You could do alot better and you sound pretty =) If you think he wont like you because you have glasses that is so stupid! Looks dont matter! Its the person in side that counts! Ugh! Dont be his friend even if you think he would judge you like that and telling him that he's a man whore if you think of him like that and wtf if you think of him as a man whore then why do you wanna date him? WTF
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No defiantly not. If you want a good boyfriend find someone else. If he doesn't like your glasses then he stupid, it doesn't change your personality a bit. Smoking is sooo horrible and bad habit. He will try to convince you to do it and you will because you like him. If you go out with him people might be calling you a slut and you might become one (not saying you will!) because he might want you to change for him. If you can convince him to stop smoking then he might seriously like you then you can ask him out,but think how ugly he will look after all that smoking.
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My advice is to steer clear of him. I don't think that he would be someone who would truly care about you for you. If you want to date him, you would have to tell him, you are not like the other girls and you don't like smoking. Let him know your limits.
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Here a nice little warning:DON'T DATE HIM!!!!!!!
Like the other person said you heading down the wrong path. I have seen first place the same thing happens and both bad and good relationships. You will start picking things up from him with out thinking. That's why you can't be friends with the wrong people.He has bad thing that would not be good to stat doing. Stop talking to him. stop joking with him just stop! I don't mean be rude to him. But he the wrong gut to date. Start looking at other guys.
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It sad to think that for a sec you would even think about dating a guy like him. You should go for more then him.
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A 14 year old who is already a smoker is a disgusting boy who is headed down a bad path. At this rate, he will probably impregnate a girl before he turns 18. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS!! You seem like a beautiful, sweet girl, and there IS a guy out there that is better than him for you!! And, no matter what, DO NOT START SMOKING!!!!! It is a dirty habit, a waste of money, and you're setting yourself up for health problems & gonna stunt and mess up your teenage years development!
Many fish in the sea, find a better one:) xx
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You are not a slut sweets, but if this guy is a woman eater, you should proceed carefully. But most important.... Don't chase him!!! If you do, he will dangle your ass by a thread until you'll do anything for him. If he likes you enough, he'll come to you.
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Before I answer your question, I'd like to advise you in adjusting your speech immediately. Eradicate the word "slut" from your vocab. Now. Shaming girls for their sexual choices isn't cool. Who are you to decide who deserves respect and who doesn't based on their sexual experiences? Lose the judgmental tone.
Think about the way he acts when he's teasing you. Is it flirtatious? Or his it how he might joke around with a group of guy friends? If he only acts this way with you, there's a good chance he might like you. You shouldn't care if he likes girls who are more experienced than you or not. As for smoking, that really is your choice. I find that smoking makes no difference to me. However, my dad is a smoker, and it has irritated my mom for years. That's just a personal preference. If you really like him, I suggest you at least give it a shot. If you later decide he's just not the guy for you or you can't date a smoker, that's completely OK.
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