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I don't no I'f I'm having an orgasm
Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month and I'm A little more experienced then him .it takes him about an hour to cum wen were having sex but I can't cum at all .hes tryed eating me out before n I felt this feeling like I had to pee n my legs felt warm n kinda numb n then i started tossing n turning but i didnt make any noise because wen we started having sex the first time i had to be quiet n eversence ive been kinda quiet during sex but wen i tossed n turned I kinda made my boyfriend stop eating me out and my cutie (as my boyfriend calls it )kinda pulsated n then it kinda hurt toutching it ..did I cum ??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
First of all we need to find out why he's having a hard time reaching climax. Is he on any kind of medication new or old that could have sexual side-effects?
If this persists either way have him see an urologist who can check out the plumbing and find out if there is a medical reason for why he can't. It shouldn't ever take an hour. Something's not right there.
It sounds as though you reached climax as you involuntarily tossed and turned and felt certain sensations. Don't be worried about the warm or squishy feeling inside your vagina or the feeling like you have to urinate.
Usually if you feel that you'll urinate you also get an urge to push up and out afterward. This could lead to G-Spot orgasm. Just go with it as you won't pee yourself and even if you did it's no big deal. Stuff happens and you're both mature enough not to let it bother you.
The pulsating you feel is part of climax. Once you have the clitoris which is highly sensitive may become difficult to touch and hurt like you said temporarily. You're fine.
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It definitely sounds like it!
As time goes on, you'll figure out more and more what gets you there. Most of the time we don't orgasm from just penetration. Also, don't be fooled by your silence. Some ladies are loud, others are quiet. Just because women shriek like banshees in porn doesn't mean that you automatically should.
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