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I am 13 years old. I have a friend that is 27 years old. In a month or less I will be moving to California . My friend is supposed to be moving with us. BUT a few days ago he had told me he's good at making out and I should try it with him. And I'm like huh ? And then he told me how he liked me and stuff. But my mom had just asked 3 days before, if Dustin (the friend) was weird or if he made me feel uncomfortable,etc. (basically if he was a pervert). And I'm like no , because I didn't know yet and she's like okay . Because he claims to be gay also BTW. And he has this crappy job with crappy people and lives in a small crappy hotel too. And IDK if I should tell my mom 'cause I would be the reason his life sucks and I don't think I'm in the place to take away dreams just to feel more comfortable. Help me! Should I tell or not?
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Hey!
Sweetie, it is a little weird that he said that to you. He's a lot older and he knows he can make you feel guilty, he knows what he's capable of just by his long experience of living. Trust me, you would SO not be the reason his life sucked. A 13 year old girl can't be one to blamed for a 27 year old's life. And by you asking us if you should tell your mom or not .. I think you just made up your mind. Because if you didn't feel the need or want to tell her, you wouldn't care at all about what he said and wouldnt be over-thinking it as much. It wouldn't be bothering you as much as it is. So that alone says, follow your instincts and tell your mother. You'll be glad you did and won't regret it.
Good luck =)
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hi i want to say that i talk fast and unclearly any advice would be great and i get nervous when i go outside of my house i dont know what to do ? (link)
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Hey,
I had the same problem with talking fast. I still do. My drama teacher used to go insaneee on me because he was frustrated at how fast I talked, Haha. Anyways, all you literally have to do, is talk slower. It might sound robotic to you, but it's actually pretty normal. So like pick up a book/Magazine and start reading it out loud, very slowly. Keep doing it until you get used to it. It takes a lot of time and patience. And as for speaking unclearly, just do "Tongue Twisters" They're really good for prononciation. Just type "A list of Tongue twisters" on Google and you'll have so many. Try saying the words very clearly and use clear diction. It takes time and patience but you can do it. For my acting class I can turn my slower voice on,and when Im on the phone to my friends, I can talk fast. You'll be able to switch it on and off like whenever you want once you're able to do it. Don't get nervous, the best thing to do is take a deep breath, take your time saying things, remember that you're not in a rush and no one's rushing you! So just breeze through your words and fake it til' you make it!
Good luck
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I am only 17(female) and there's this boy I've been talking to for about 3 weeks now and we talk and text non stop. He texts me goodmorning and everything. He makes an effort to come see me, he always compliments me. He said that he enjoys talking to me because I know how to keep a conversation going. He says all these positive things to me, he even told my
friend how much he really likes me. But a situation occurred recently, we were suppose to go to the movies around 9, mind you it was his graduation day. He texts me like "are the plans still on for the night?" I responded yes but how are we going to meet up? His response was, "I will ask my mother if I can borrow her car. " I'm like ok, text me back later to tell me what she says. He's like ok, around 7 I texts his phone asking if we were still going. He tells me that he couldn't get the car. So I'm thinking like, when was he going to text me and tell me this. But I kept cool because guys aren't usually good at communicating. Too make the long story short, we ended up not going & come to find out he had a graduation cookout & didn't invite. Maybe he was hiding something. The next day he did not text me, that's not like him. So of course I knew something wasn't right, so I ended up texting him first, sending him a long message stating that I was very disappointed in him and how I knew he had a cookout but didn't want to invite me. So he replied back apologizing but of course it was a lame excuse. I accepted his apology , although it was lame. But I'm still confuse, do he still want to talk to me? Is he guilty for what he did? Should I back off and give him some space? I need answers. (link)
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Hey,
I SO don't blame you for being confused. I would be. But yeah I totally understand that you're confused, annoyed and even a little paranoid that he's hiding something. I'd be the same, but if I were you, I'd leave it at that. I'd send him a message about how I feel and about how he didn't invite you..(which you already did). Now you've done your part. You've done the best you could do to get answers, you accepted his excuse and approved his apology. What more could he want? You've done ALL the right things, and if he's still acting weird that that's his issue within himself he's gonna have to deal with. What more could you possibly do,right? Basically what I'm saying is that you have to play it cool. Its like the number 1 Girl Rule! Act like nothings bothering you, it's no biggie! And that will make him wanna text you and talk to you. The more you play it cool, the more he'll feel like an idiot for doing what he did. Give the guy some space and some time, so don't text him or anything until he talks to you first. Good luck =)
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hi im a 16 year old girl:) & after im done shaving my armpits, my armpits always itch for awhile, they itch soo much that when i get in the shower i have to put REALLY REALLY hot water on them! what can i do that will stop making them itch and annoy me! (link)
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Hey,
That always happens to some people, nothing to worry about! What I say you do, it just let your hair grow out a little bit, and instead of shaving, get it waxed or just buy wax strips yourself and do it. It really helps. Or after you shave add some moisturizer on your underarms, because usually underarms are really itchy after shaving because they're extremely dry without you even knowing it!
So try that =)
Good luck!
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So I broke up with my boyfriend of over 1 1/2 years because he was not paying enough attention to me and we had been arguing a lot lately. I also don't like the way he is so narrow minded. Well I broke up with him over skipe and I could tell he was upset, he argued with me than as well. The he wanted me to come to his family memorial party. I said won't that be akward and he said no, if we were still going to be friends that I needed to come. So I went and afterward he text me yelling about how I ignored him the entire time at the party. I calmed him down by the next day. I didn't talk to him until 4 days had passed and I texted him. He said it was perfect timing because he was on his break at work, there was just some small talk and that was it. I was his first love, and I'm wondering if inside he wants me back and would be willing to work at it?
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Hey,
Sorry about the break up, but it seems like it was the best thing to do. From what I read, it seems like he is a little controlling by making you go to the memorial party, then yelling at you for ignoring him and stuff. I think you need to give him some time to grow and work on himself. Its what's good for him. And as for wanting you back, only you can truly tell. I sure hope so! I think he does, because of how much the break up has affected him. I think if you really want to know, just talk to him about it and tell him you'll only get back with him if he starts paying more attention to you and stuff, so then he knows exactly why you broke it off with him and knows what he needs to do to get you back and then if he does anything about, you'll know if he's willing to work at it. Hope it all works out for you =)
Good luck!
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