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Why isn't he texting and calling anymore?
I am only 17(female) and there's this boy I've been talking to for about 3 weeks now and we talk and text non stop. He texts me goodmorning and everything. He makes an effort to come see me, he always compliments me. He said that he enjoys talking to me because I know how to keep a conversation going. He says all these positive things to me, he even told my
friend how much he really likes me. But a situation occurred recently, we were suppose to go to the movies around 9, mind you it was his graduation day. He texts me like "are the plans still on for the night?" I responded yes but how are we going to meet up? His response was, "I will ask my mother if I can borrow her car. " I'm like ok, text me back later to tell me what she says. He's like ok, around 7 I texts his phone asking if we were still going. He tells me that he couldn't get the car. So I'm thinking like, when was he going to text me and tell me this. But I kept cool because guys aren't usually good at communicating. Too make the long story short, we ended up not going & come to find out he had a graduation cookout & didn't invite. Maybe he was hiding something. The next day he did not text me, that's not like him. So of course I knew something wasn't right, so I ended up texting him first, sending him a long message stating that I was very disappointed in him and how I knew he had a cookout but didn't want to invite me. So he replied back apologizing but of course it was a lame excuse. I accepted his apology , although it was lame. But I'm still confuse, do he still want to talk to me? Is he guilty for what he did? Should I back off and give him some space? I need answers.
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Hey,
I SO don't blame you for being confused. I would be. But yeah I totally understand that you're confused, annoyed and even a little paranoid that he's hiding something. I'd be the same, but if I were you, I'd leave it at that. I'd send him a message about how I feel and about how he didn't invite you..(which you already did). Now you've done your part. You've done the best you could do to get answers, you accepted his excuse and approved his apology. What more could he want? You've done ALL the right things, and if he's still acting weird that that's his issue within himself he's gonna have to deal with. What more could you possibly do,right? Basically what I'm saying is that you have to play it cool. Its like the number 1 Girl Rule! Act like nothings bothering you, it's no biggie! And that will make him wanna text you and talk to you. The more you play it cool, the more he'll feel like an idiot for doing what he did. Give the guy some space and some time, so don't text him or anything until he talks to you first. Good luck =)
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