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Broke up with my boyfriend, now what?
So I broke up with my boyfriend of over 1 1/2 years because he was not paying enough attention to me and we had been arguing a lot lately. I also don't like the way he is so narrow minded. Well I broke up with him over skipe and I could tell he was upset, he argued with me than as well. The he wanted me to come to his family memorial party. I said won't that be akward and he said no, if we were still going to be friends that I needed to come. So I went and afterward he text me yelling about how I ignored him the entire time at the party. I calmed him down by the next day. I didn't talk to him until 4 days had passed and I texted him. He said it was perfect timing because he was on his break at work, there was just some small talk and that was it. I was his first love, and I'm wondering if inside he wants me back and would be willing to work at it?
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I think maybe you just need to clear your mind first of what you really want to happen. if you really want to break up with him or if you want to give him a second chance. And when you do, you should tell him how you feel and what you want to happen. anyway if you really don't wanna be with him anymore it's alright to still be friends, and to talk to him. just try not to be bitter about your past with him.
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You need more time. He does seem like he is trying too hard and telling you what to do. If he thinks yelling at you is going to get you back, he's wrong. He needs to learn that. Give it time for awhile and if you guys do decide to get back together, make sure he knows the reasons why and make sure there is no arguing. You deserve to be happy and he shouldn't be trying to control you and he should be giving you attention. You guys would have to work together. Give this lots of time and lots of thought. Good luck!
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Hey,
Sorry about the break up, but it seems like it was the best thing to do. From what I read, it seems like he is a little controlling by making you go to the memorial party, then yelling at you for ignoring him and stuff. I think you need to give him some time to grow and work on himself. Its what's good for him. And as for wanting you back, only you can truly tell. I sure hope so! I think he does, because of how much the break up has affected him. I think if you really want to know, just talk to him about it and tell him you'll only get back with him if he starts paying more attention to you and stuff, so then he knows exactly why you broke it off with him and knows what he needs to do to get you back and then if he does anything about, you'll know if he's willing to work at it. Hope it all works out for you =)
Good luck!
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