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what should i do I don't want to loose my boyfriend
My boyfriend (24) and I(19) have been dating for over a year I am in college and his a banker... When I was in high school I stole someone's money because I was soo broke I had just lost both parents at that time and I had nothing, I was caught and made to apologise and return the money... Well every thing ended that was about six years ago... Now I am in this relationship and my boyfriend comes back from work really pissed, he came straight to my house and sat me down asking me questions about what happened 6yrs ago, I told him everything but he didn't say a word to me he just left my house, its been 3days and he hasn't called or replied my text messages I love my boyfriend so much and I don't want to loose him. What should I do.
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You lost your parents at a very young age for this you have my condolences.
You were 13 when this incident happened, a young adult maybe, still a child in most peoples eyes especially in the eyes of the law and the courts. You gave the money back and apologized. I believe this was fair given the circumstances.
If your boyfriend, who at 24, is truly an adult at this time, is holding this event against you; he is being quite shallow. Givin the world of things you could have done to rebel for the hurt you were feeling you did none of them. What you did was what you felt you needed to do to survive. Of course I don't know the full circumstances of the time but still regardless it is understandable and mild considering what you could have done.
My reaction to what your boyfriends reaction to this news, old news at that, is to shun you then you don't need him and you can do better. You're 19 and as my mother always told me'"Their are plenty of fish in the sea". My advice let him go and bait your hook and go fishing again. The next guy you find will most like be a better guy than this one is.
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im sorry for your loss but the money you probably stole was his or his parents but the best part is that you gave the money back and you said sorry about it and he maybe remembers now about it and hes probably thinking that you will do it again but im really sorry about the loss :)
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You should tell him you were just 13 &' you lost both of your parents and your mind wasn't right at the time. He should understand, I have friends that do worse. It was a mistake, and the money was returned. Im not really sure why that would have made him mad, unless it was a lot of money ? Fact of the matter is you returned it !
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