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my brother-in law is molesting me


Question Posted Monday February 27 2012, 1:18 pm

Well I'm 11 and when I was 10 my brother-in-law lifted up my skirt and ever since he was asking me for naked pictures and he's tried kissing me and touching me he sent me sexual messages so I told my mom about them and I deleted the messages so I didn't have proof for the police I told my sister about him lifting up my skirt but she didn't believe me please help me I don't know what to do! Oh yes and he has a child and he's 32

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cupcake_89_23 answered Friday September 6 2013, 10:19 pm:
If I were you the next time he sends you texts like that I would keep it saved to my phone for evidence this is so wrong what he is doing . when he tried to kiss and touch you in your wrong paces and lifting up your skirt is child molestation . If it happens again you need to save the messages he sends you show them to your sister , mom and dad so they can report to the police so this doesn't happen again .

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freefalling1010 answered Thursday December 13 2012, 8:59 pm:
you need to ask if his child is getting molested to theres youre proof you need to report it

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NessaNicolee answered Saturday May 5 2012, 5:18 am:
Why would you delete them ? Well the only thing you could really do is try talking to him normal then see if he starts sexually talking to you. Only wit your parent permission, because then if you took your phone to them and showed them and they went to the police they would think it was you coming on to him, and not him coming onto you. But he may not if it came up to him about the subject he was molesting you.

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kungajinpa answered Sunday March 11 2012, 12:35 pm:
just be careful every moment!

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Xui answered Monday February 27 2012, 8:06 pm:
Report it


That is 100% wrong of what he is doing, This man is sick. Sweetie, If he ever sends you a text message or pictures PLEASE save it and go to Mom or Dad and tell them what happened so they can go to the police and have this dirty man arrested.

PLEASE report him! This man is a pedophile and a child molester and if he has a child imagine what he could be doing to them? :(

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soph0900 answered Monday February 27 2012, 2:18 pm:
If he sends you messages again, keep them as evidence and report him again! If youre only 11 and he's 32 this certainly counts as a sex offence and hes a peodophile. You must report it. Dont be afraid to Tell your Mom, and everyone and anyone who can help, Call a proper child advice line...(Id avoid that brotherinlaw from now on- dont talk to him if he's going to be like that.)

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