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my bf says he will kill himself if I leave him
me 16 bf 18
everytime my boyfriend lets me down or makes me sad he says that he is not worthy of being with me..he also says that since he cannot stop loving me the only way out is killing himself..he never wants to cause my depression or make me cry but he does..I really love him and sometimes I get extremely scared because I really don't know what he is capable of doing..I am afraid that if I don't feel the same way in the future I will be forced to stay with him because of this..what should I do? :(
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He is controlling you to stay with him. He probably wont kill himself if you leave him but I would tell him parents or ask a police officer what you should do. He is hurting you mentually by controling you in the long run you are going to loss confidence in yourself.
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So basically in other words he is threatening to killing to himself if you leave? Yes, I said threatening....
Let someone know what is doing and break up with him. That is manipulation and it is not healthy to be in a relationship where someone is putting stress like that on you. It's emotional abuse, He is using the whole killing himself as a way to get you to stay with him.
Nobody can ever make you be in a relationship you are not happy in. Your "boyfriend" cannot force you to be in the relationship and he needs to seek some professional help. He does not own you and what he is doing is controlling and manipulating you. Yes, You should leave him and you should cut contact with him. The guy doesn't deserve you as a girlfriend he does not deserve you as a friend. Toughen up and leave his ass you deserve better. Staying in the relationship with someone like that is going to drain you trust me, I was in a relationship with someone who was a manipulative ass and it not only drained me mentally and emotionally it drained me physically. I left, It was the best damn thing I could of ever done for myself.
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You need to tell a Parent or School Counselor or Teacher about this, and then break up with him. You, at 16, do not have the ability to help this boy. He needs professional help. Do not let him make his problems your problems. The very best thing that you can do for him is to break up with him, so that he is forced to get help. BUT you need to tell someone( as stated above)about this, so that they can help decide if his family needs to be alerted to his condition and to make it known that you are scared for him-and you.
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