Member Since: December 13, 2012
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Last Update: December 13, 2012
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Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f (link)
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anytime anyone forces you in a sexul manner like that i would say yes sounds like he is being selfish and not considering how you feel tell him you will never except that again it has to be mutal or we are done unless you decide to just leave him which sounds like that might be best sex is never suppose to be uncomfortable rember that
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I have been battling suicide for as long as i can remember. It started because i was being abused by my brother and i had parents who didnt help me or support me when i tried seeking help.
My only outlet was self harm and taking my friends left over valium.
Neither seem to help block it out anymore. I have no coping resources and ive always felt like i dont belong here, like im an alien. I have wanted to kill myself for a while but i always chicken out. How do i do this? (link)
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god loves you and wants you to live a long life go to a pastor of a church and have him read about sucided to you you need to love yourself and never worry about what anyone else says bad to you god brough you into this world and wants you to go to heaven where there is no drama there is no worries theres only peace thats what we look forward to when we live a life on earth so please beliee in him and read bible get advice from a pastor and believe only in god and pray to him for peace
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How do you do a warrant lookup on your boyfriend to see if he has been in trouble with the law or is wanted now? I caught him in a lie and now I want to do a background check on my boyfriend! Does that make me a bad paerson? (link)
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put his name in like the county he lives in like the county case.com or the courthouse it will show pass and recent cases
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Hello
I am in a very scary situation right now. And I'm just trying to reach out. I met this guy on mubi.com which is a social networking site for people who likes movies.
He seemed super cool and I really liked him at first but then slowly he started getting more weird. I found out he was doing drugs, and the more i distanced myself from him the crazier he started to act.
(I also need to mention that he is from the states and I live in Canada)
I stopped talking to him completely in January. I blocked him on all social networking sites. He would make new fake profiles and send me these scary crazy messages saying how much he was in love with me and that he was coming for me. That he was hearing voices telling him I was his soulmate and how we're gonna have a kid together and he just knows it. Despite me telling him over and over again to leave me alone and that I wasn't interested he kept on harrassing me.
He is a complete psycho. I think he might be psychiztophrenic.
On wednesday at 4:30 pm I recieved an e-mail from him saying that he had driven to vancouver from the newyork to come and surprise and they didn't allow him to enter (for reasons I don't know yet). He said he was gonna come to my house and surprise me. He asked me how I felt about that, and that he was gonna try again the next day.
It was one of the most surreal and scary moments of my life. Knowing he knows where i live and he was coming to 'surprise' me.
I was kind of paranoid that this would happen before it did because he had made a blog just for me. Directing everything at me. Sometimes threatening.
I e-mailed him back and said that I was calling the police.
I called the police and I went down to the station and filled out a police report and talked to the officer for 40 minutes.
I didn't have enough proof to make him understand how crazy he really was. I just took a copy of the e-mail he had sent me.
The officer said he would call them at the border to let them know whats going on. and he said he would e-mail him to hear 'his side of the story' which was kind of disheartening.
I went to stay at my aunt's that night because I was terrified. He kept on e-mailing me that night saying things like 'come on you fraidy cat, what am I gonna bite you?'
I was having severely anxiety that night and couldn't stop shaking. I e-mailed him again and told him that I wanted to nothing to do with him again and he emailed me back and said hat he was gonna go back and to tell the police officer to back off...
The next day I got a call from the border saying that he was there again with a new story. And they asked me if I wanted him there and that he had told them I was his gf and he was going to suprise me.
They said he's been flagged and he won't be allowed in again. Even if he tries to fly in he would get in trouble.
I told them about the drugs and said he might even be hiding drugs. They said there was something strange about his demeanor.
I'm sorry this is so long but he emailed me again saying he was gonna go and that i should wouldn't 'he thought'
I came home today after staying at my aunt's since wednesday. Despite the officer and the border officer telling me he is flagged and wont be allowed in again I am still scared. I can't help it. My mind is getting the best of me. I live by myself and I am scared to go to sleep. I keep thinking what if he tried to come again and they let him in this time
I need advice on how to cope with this. It's one of the worst thinsg I've ever experienced in my life.
I really appreciate you taking the time to read this. (link)
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are those internet sites have a report number report him if hes in the states and you are in canda thats a long ways away i would just report him and even to authorties so they no to
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i just need your advice about a man that i have been with for about eight months now. he is a divorced man and he is about 15 years older than i, besides ha has a nine years son. i loved him a lot and i still do, but my parents didn't like him at all.
the problem is that he said that if i beak up with him he would hurt me and tell my father about every thing that happened between us.
please i really need your advice as soon as possible because i am really lost and cannot do anything right now.
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anyone who threatens to hurt or control you is not a true man rember that and if he did tell you dad i think he would only hurt herself cause of the age and do you want to be with a man with a son already and no that god loves you and will always help you if you just pray believe and ask him ask god to lead you where he thinks is best for you go to a pastor of a church everyhting is confidential
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i am 14 years old,female. my parents have been separted for 3 years, divorced for exactly 2. i didnt really realize that my dad was abusive towards me until a few months ago. he is a narcissist to the maxxxxxxxxx like no joke. he is very smart with numbers and facts and so he tries to twist EVRYTHING around and make it seem something differnt to benefit HIM. i went out to dinner with him to tell him how I feel not him, and all he kept talking was himself, me, me, me. and im sick of it. he uses self pity, manipulation, denial, lying, everything. i have 4 other syblings, my older sister doesnt even see my dad becasue she knows what a psycho he is. my little brother doesnt even "care" or so he says about havign a father right now becasue my dad hasnt seen or talked to him since fathers days. and that is what gets me most mad, i am a very protective sibling and im a straight shooter and have no problem with confronting people and so i was like wtf is going on? you dont feel like you should talk to him..like at all? but listen to this..he goes no im very hurt that HE (my little brother) hasnt texted me its very upsetting..im like are you fucking out of your mind? your the father like get ur shit together and be a father. and i told him the other day basically a fuck you that he doesnt care about anyone but himself and all he said was sorry you feel that way..like really? and i cant go back to seing him its such a toxicccccc relationship and i feel so much better not seeing him.BUT i was sooo stressed out because my dad being the narc that he is ALWAYS put me in the middle between me and my mom wanted me to pick sides and to go back and forth and its just such bullshit im so over him really. but over the 3 years i've lost frends, grades went down oyu name it, and this year of freshman year means a lot to me, and i want to do good, and i knew the first step was letting him go. i guess the hardest part was admitting that how i feel when i see him and when i dont, my feeling dont change, i still feel like i dint have a father. but i have to deal with that on my own and learn to accept it. so it's just affected me in (link)
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talk to a counselor and see what that counselor can do for you a counselor at school or a counselor at a doctors office i believe they will investigate and no no matter what that gods on youre side and he loves you and respects you and wants you to live a long life you can also go talk to a pastor of a church to see how he can help you to
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so im a freshman in high school.14/f. the high school and middle school are connected and most of my classes are in the opposite direction of my locker so i just cut through the middle school and it just so happens that i have a class in the middle school but obviously for freshman and up but thats just where the room is. and the teacher who's room it is i've had for 7th and 8th grade and he's a guy. he is just a dick. to make it short. he's pathetic and werid and and creepy i've always been a bitch to him becasue i hated him. but this year i really want to start off good and try to be nicer to people haha but yeah. and so he's werid like he's been doing this ever since i had him, for no reason he stands outside his class to just say hi to people. well i have to pass him like maybe 4x a day. so i just started being nice to him. but he's always been nice to me, but like in a creepy way. like he would only call me by my last name with Miss in front of it and call the other girls by their first. and im not even his student and he still does it. and he has stared at my butt and and body and like thats sooooo different if a like 30 something year old guy is creepily staring at you and not a tenager. but so i have it 1st period i have a class in his classroom but with a differnt teacher. but he still stays out side. so ANYWAY my friend gave me a peice of gum at the end of class, and i was waiting for my other friend so we could go to biology and we were the only two kids or girls in the room besides my hs teacher and the crepy teacher. so my middle school teacher goes, uhm you better spit that out. I said-nahh im ok, he’s like spit it out. and im like we can chew gum in the high school (which we can!) and so by this time my friend walks out i guess thinking i was right behind her. and i start to follow her out the door. and the teacher blocks the door with his body. it was only him in the room and my hs teacher who was on the computer so he didnt see. (thank god he was there....) i try to go around him he blocks me again. and im like fuckin 5 ft 1in or something and hes like really tall like more than average. so the second time i try to go around, i had my backpack on both shoulders and he pulls/drags me to the garabge can and makes me spit it out. it happened so fast, all i could think was wtf? you fucking werido get the fuck off dont touch me. but all i said was im going to be late for class but he didnt care. then i told my friends in biology and they said that its considered abuse. is that true? im just totally curious..i have no idea. thanks for the advice. (link)
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i would hope he wouldnt do anything towards you cause that wouldnt be smart on his end just avoid him and if he says anything out of the way tell him you will report him
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I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and he has always been controlling. I am at the point were i cant take him telling me what i can and cannot do. I have told people about him and all of them have said get out now he is going to become abusive. I believe them because there have been times where he gets so angry that he is about to punch me but ends up not doing it. I am so sick of all the pointless pain. I am trying to get out now but he keeps saying i will change i cant live without you. I can't get out someone help. Please :( (link)
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let me ask you this are you proud of youre boyfreind can you honestly say he makes you feel special respectful i dont think so respect yourself and make that decession for him
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When you have no family, friends or people who you can talk to what do you do to cope?? I want to be dead, i want to say good bye to everything that I see every day. I have tried all sorts of meds and counseling and it does not help. All my life I have tried to make people happy and it is always thrown back into my face, so why try? (link)
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stop making other people happy and work on youre happiness i to wanted to kill myself at one time and i started talking to god and god started blessing me believe me he will help you just ask him start reading the bible go to church god wants you to live a happy life a long life he brought you into this world and he truely loves you go talk to a pastor of a church believe me you will look at things diffrently good luck god bless you always
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Alright, here is the deal, I am 17 going on 18. I am a single, female senior in High School. I decided to have sex when I was 16, I was peer pressured into it, and after that I told myself I would never do it again. Well, teenage hormones started pumping, so I called a friend, we hooked up twice. Then I ended up getting a boyfriend not to long afterwards, and about 3ish weeks into our relationship, I slept with him, well My Aunt and Uncle found out about this encounter, and I never told them, I didn't want to tell them, anyway, my uncle disowned me and every chance he gets he calls me a slut, and told me I don't deserve to live anymore. He doesn't want me around his children anymore because I am a "stupid cunt" IDK what to do ): I need help.... He won't let me move out until I am 18 and that's in 7 months, I don't think I can handle this verbal abuse... (link)
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none deserves to be called names no matter what he needs to get over hiself you just need to make adult discussions not discussions that will cause you problems later in life
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Hello,
I m 23 n my g.f is 19 N we r both virgin, from D day we met i always tried to force her to hv sex wit me i even fingered on hr pussy. But in fact she did punch me on my face twice. She nvr allows me 2 hv sex wit her. but i cnt ressist my desire 2 hv sex wit hr any longer. sud i stop dating hr? But i love hr like hell too.. does she loves me? (link)
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you should never force anyone to have sex if shes not ready find out why talk it through and if you guys cant come to some kind or soultion than just move on
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i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, i can only see myself with him, but he is very aggressive, and he knows he has anger issues, but wont do anything about it, he has stopped me wearing make up, stopped me talking to friends or going out, even with my own family, he tells me im not good enough for him thats why he has to look at other girls and if i argue back , he grabs hold of my, either my neck or wrists and screams in my face, chucks me about or just punches me, the thing is he is very sstocky, im 5ft7 and i do kickboxing, so for a girl i thought i could handle myself, but he is 5ft10 and literally tripple my size, he overpowers me so much.hes not always like it though, he often cries and tells me he is going to change,but i doubt this will happen at all, he is nice when im on "the right side of him", he takes me to the cinema, for meals etc and buys me things, we spend cute weekends away together, but despite that , if i step out of line, he goes mad, puts the blame on to me, says its my fault, and the sad part about it is im actually starting to believe that its my fault why we argue. ive been warned about him , and ive been with him nearly a year.i cant find the strength to leave him, cos he always rings or texts etc if i go to leave him. what can i do? i love him so much, but i just want him to realise he cant take his anger out on me, maybe to get anger management? (link)
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he either gets help or find someone who will respect you so you dont have to worry about doing kickboxing moves on him
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My name is amber. I am 16 years old. I live im a trailer with both my mom and dad, my 10 year old bother, my nana stays with us because she is sick, and my uncle walter lives with us, and my uncle alex is just staying with us although he has his own apartment. Alex doesnt even need to be here. Alex is always butting his nose is answering for my parents every time i ask my parents a question. I have absolutly no privacy with either of my parents. Not only that but my dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me. He calls me a bitch and a whore all the time. He also calls me a reject. and says " no wonder why nobody likes you". He also has stop saying "i love you" to me. I feel like i have no one. No one wants me and im just a random person that doesnt belong. what should i do? (link)
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report him to child protective services
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Ok this is a long question i'm sorry but this is how lost I am right now, i'm asking a question on the internet.. my friend.. she lives a state away from me, and her mom is pretty much evil and hates her, she made her stay with this 19 year old guy last night and he did stuff to her and i know he sexually assaulted her, shes 15, she told her mom and her mom said, well since you had so much fun, you get to go back there next week for longer, her mom wants this guy to do this! what can i do? i'm a male and i'm 16 (link)
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call child protective services have them investigated
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I have been on here before about this sort of question but its a little different this time. I have a step son who lives with my in laws. They raised him because my husband got a girl pregnant at 17. His mother was wanting another child so she told them that she would take guardianship of him so she could have her insurance cover him they agreed. For years he has wanted him back she absolutely refuses. My step son has a lot of problems so right now we are okay with him being there KIND OF. I think he is being abused emotionally.
- Their house is disgusting. They don't clean anything except the living room. My father in law sleeps in another room. My mother in law and step son sleep on the couches.
- He drinks soda 24/7. He ONLY eats junk food, chicken nuggets, pizza, popcorn, green beans. nothing else at all.
- He gets in trouble for fighting at school.
- He plays basketball and is constantly shoving the other kids
Now he is crying all the time over everything. My father in law screams until he is blue in the face about every little thing if he goes to get a drink during practice which he does every few minutes he says get your ass out there now. if he talk back instead of time out they scream at him
if he throws a fit in the store they get him what he wants.
It doesn't seem bad but it is like this 24/7 not just when he misbehaves its all day all the time misbehaving. I have to keep my son away from him because he emotionally and physically was abusing him. if we get together they have to stay away from each other. my son thinks hes being nice but he has Aspergers Syndrome.
What to do??? (link)
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i would say if you are wanting to get away from them report them protective services they will investigate it
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I was raped by an ex that I still work with. Is there a way to tell someone so we can be separated but not be drug through a nasty confrontation with any of the people over me? I can't work with how it is now. I just want to be away from him, not have to tell everybody what happend.
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do the authorietes no get a order of protection if youre employer dosent do anything about it
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I want to kill myself...I've been getting bullied since middle school & my family hates me?
I really want to kill myself. I'm always depressed because I get picked on at school & my family members treat me like I'm a piece of crap. they think I'm a weirdo because I'm quiet & they tell me I don't have any friends, but if I told them I was getting picked on in school they probally wouldn't care or believe me. My family always fusses at me & talks about me like I'm worthless, they don't understand me & I don't want to talk to them because they never will understand.They say a lot of things to hurt my feelings & then I go to school & get picked on by kids because of the way I look. I have been being picked on since the 6th grade. If they found out that I cry in my room they probally wouldn't care or think I'm serious. I'probablyslapped before by a kid just because they didn't like me. I'm tired of being picked on at school & my family always putting me down. I'm not a ad kid. I make good grades, but I hate my life...When I get depressed I just go in my room and cry because if I talk to family about it they probally won't care. I don't even want to talk to anyone I just want to kill myself. I don't have a gun so I think the best way is to just use a knife. (link)
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go to youre school counselor and stay string within yourself and youre thoughts none is worht taking youre life for god loves you for who you are and wants to see you suceed in life you need to be strong wihtin yourself and speak out how you feel
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Well I'm 11 and when I was 10 my brother-in-law lifted up my skirt and ever since he was asking me for naked pictures and he's tried kissing me and touching me he sent me sexual messages so I told my mom about them and I deleted the messages so I didn't have proof for the police I told my sister about him lifting up my skirt but she didn't believe me please help me I don't know what to do! Oh yes and he has a child and he's 32 (link)
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you need to ask if his child is getting molested to theres youre proof you need to report it
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If a person was that was close to you, really evil to you would you care if they died?
My aunt died 3 years ago and I didn't get upset when she died. Am I wrong? She died from some heart problems. My aunt was very evil to the people in our family. She stole money from a lot of them and did drugs with her boyfriend. They had a daughter together and continued to do drugs, just not around her. My grandmother was always in denial about them doing drugs until their daughter got taken away and they admitted it. My aunt also stole money from my grandmothers account somehow forging checks for over a year and she admitted. They used the money for drugs. They also begged for money from my grandma and she'd give them money for food, but they were most likely using it for drugs. My grandmother had to pay their rent every month and feed them, the only reason why my grandmother and most of my family dealt with her is because she had a daughter. My cousin who is my aunt's daughter didn't know that her parents were smoking crack and she Still doesn't know. My aunt used to say very evil things and do evil things. She cared about nothing but drugs and her boyfriend. She used her own daughter to beg for money from family members for food, they even came over our house begging for dinner because they spent all their money on drugs.My aunt was turning my cousin into an evil person just like her and her bad habits was rubbing off on my cousin. She used her own daughter to beg for money from family. My aunt left my grandmother broke every month from stealing and begging for money. Ever since my cousin got taken away and her bigger sister got custody she has had a better life, she goes to a better school and she's a very smart and good girl. My aunt is dead now and my cousin's father has cancer. I just didn't feel bad when my aunt died, but I feel bad for my cousin because she loved her mom and sometimes she still cries about her mom being dead. I also feel bad for my grandmother cause she lost her daughter. But things have been better since she died and I just didn't cry when she died. Am I wrong? (link)
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its ok to have what feelings you have as long as you dont voice it to people who di care about her just pray for her and pray for peace from it
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I am a twelve year old girl from NZ. I keep getting bullied by this girl in my class, and her guy friend (NOT boyfriend)One of them is african, and one is mexican. They always call me really mean things, and sometimes shove me and other stuff like that. They walk the same way home as me so I have to suffer it for 20 mintues everyday.Telling a teacher won't help, as the bullies will do it anyway (already tried) and I can't tell any other adults because they just make the problem worse. Please help me! (link)
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take self defense classes like karate stick up for yourself learn to defend yourself and make freinds with kids bigger than you to i believe you will see a diffrence
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