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Its about me being forceful to hr(G.F).
Hello,
I m 23 n my g.f is 19 N we r both virgin, from D day we met i always tried to force her to hv sex wit me i even fingered on hr pussy. But in fact she did punch me on my face twice. She nvr allows me 2 hv sex wit her. but i cnt ressist my desire 2 hv sex wit hr any longer. sud i stop dating hr? But i love hr like hell too.. does she loves me?
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you should never force anyone to have sex if shes not ready find out why talk it through and if you guys cant come to some kind or soultion than just move on
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I must be getting old since we seem to be getting this question more and more often. Since when is it okay to force a girl to have sex with you? Have they changed the RAPE LAWS?
Yes I said RAPE. The definition of rape is when you force a girl to have sex with you. Even fingering her pussy is consider rape if you do so after she has said no or has said stop and you continue. You're 23 years old, you should know this. Not only could you be committing a low grade felony if you are doing things after she has said no or stop. You are by what you have written sexually harassing her. This is also a felony.
I really question your love for this girl. It seems to me you are more lustful than in love with her. The fact that she has not filed a complaint against you says that she is either madly in love with yo or not knowing of the laws. Or just to embarrassed to do so.
You need to:
1) Stop trying to force her to have sex with you.
2) Apologize to her for harassing her.
3) If you cannot love her unless she has sex with you. Find away to leave her without making it sound like you are doing so because she will not have sex with you as this too is a form of sexual harassment. As in essence you are saying sleep with me or I'm out of here. That is sexual intimidation.
You also need to reexamine what is the right way to love a women and woe her into having sex with you. You cannot and never, ever should you attempt to force a women to have sex with you. Doing so will only eventually land you in jail and for ever have you registering as a sexual offender when you are released from jail.
You have been very luck. The next time you may not be.
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You do not EVER force a girl to have sex with you. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. That's her right to say no. If you don't like it, either dump her or get the hell over it. If she hasn't dumped you yet, even though you've been badgering her to fuck you, then she obviously loves you. But if she's still a virgin, then you need to come to terms with the fact that she is nervous as hell to lose her virginity. A lot of girls are; we're not like men. We're not willing and ready at any time of the day to pop our cherry. Give her the time she needs and STOP PUSHING IT for god's sake.
So, my advice is to either wait for her to be ready (like a man should) or dump her, (like a boy would). Its your choice.
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