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omg im 12 and think im pregnant
Ok so now I'm 12 and had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times and I had sex with two other guys and don't give me a lecture about that! Anyway I didn't get my period last month and I'm late this month and don't think I'm gonna get it. I've bEen feeling really sick lately and been having stomach cramps and been feeling tired. I've also had headaches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant? We didn't use a condom any of the times we had sex
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Why the hell would you go and have sex and NOT use a condom? You are 12... This right here shows me just how gullible your generation is now days.
I don't give two flying shots if you cry or can't handle lecture. Don't expect people to be nice and sweet on your own stupidity. You just ruined your childhood, You selfishly and carelessly bought a child into this world you CANNOT even care for.
Basically, It all comes down too a fact if truth that your judgement was completely moronic and I hope you learn a valuable lesson and SMARTEN the fuck up kiddo
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I don't like the answer I am about to give you, so I'm not sure you will like it. No, I'm not going to lecture you.
I hate to say this but the odds are you are pregnant. Worse being 12 years old you have no say in what happens once you parents find out. Sure there are way to hide this from them for a while but at some point you will have to tell them.
Whenever your parents find out they are in complete charge. The boy or boys you had sex with could be in legal trouble depending on their age. You could be forced to have an abortion or to give the child up for adoption.
The part of me that studied psychology says that there are reasons girls your age turn to sex. Whatever that reason may be things are about to get a whole lot worse for you. You may find the following website helpful in finding out the best way to tell your parents you are pregnant. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). It is the best that I found when I research looking for some type of online support you might get help from.
I would suggest that you talk to a trusted teacher and let them contact social services to have them help you tell your parents. I'm not concerned that you parents would physically harm you. I am concerned for the mental harm that could befall you.
Your parents, rightfully so, will freak when they learn you are pregnant, as the article I have referred you to points out. I believe it is best if you have another adult, someone you can trust to protect you and your interests, be with you when you tell your parents. That is why I am suggesting you tell a trusted teacher and ask for their help.
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Wow this is suddenly my favorite question.
(WARNING: I admit, I am about to be extremely rude to you. Don't read it if you aren't prepared for the truth. But please do read the last paragraph)
Now if I read correctly, you are 12 years old honey. Twelve! That's when I first got my period! January 21st, 2009. It might as well have been yesterday.
I hope so badly that you aren't pregnant. Only for the poor, poor baby that is MOST likely developing inside of you that has to go through life knowing his/her mother was fucking 12 years old when he/she was born, not for you. When I say I feel bad, I mean the baby, NOT you. The baby didn't do anything wrong. You did. Don't make the poor child suffer a horrible life.
Just like someone else said, basically you have no say in the fate of your baby. That may sound like nothing right now, but later you will feel horrible. Deal with it. You need to suck it up and take what is coming.
There is like a .00000000000000000001% chance of you NOT being pregnant. Why? Because you had sex WITHOUT a condom with MORE THAN 1 guy and yes, you better be scared. This will officially be something that you will be getting shit for for the rest of your life, no matter what you do, abortion (completely... Don't even get me started), or adoption (which will scar you emotionally, I will not sugarcoat this, especially not for you) or if you keep it (a constant reminder of your disgusting mistake). So don't be surprised at the names people will start calling you and trust me, they will find out.
Suffer your own consequences. Let this be an eye opener for you. Let this be like a near death experience. Pray to GOD that you aren't pregnant. Its so impossible, but whatever! Because if you are, you will hate yourself for the rest of your life. Even you, making this ultimately stupid and disgustingly wrong mistake, don't deserve that. Nobody deserves to have their childhood cut short because of a tiny little baby who didn't do anything wrong but to exist on this sad, sad, little planet. This made me cry, a baby having a baby...
Good luck with, well, EVERYTHING from now on...
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Just posting this question on here is going to get you alot of lectures from people anyway speaking as of your 12, a child having a baby, and clearly don't know enough about relationships, sex and contraception to be having sex in the first place. Odds are you are pregnant. I would get a test ASAP and find out for sure since you technically could be 2 months pregnant right now..
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You should be careful sleeping with boys.
I know how kids are now days but try to lay off sex and draw closer to God.
I think you might be pregnant.
If so you should keep the baby because we are no one to take a harmless baby life away only God can do that.
I am not judging but plz try to u understand where,I am coming from.
I hope you make better choices in life.
God bless
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Hi.. I known a girl that's been in the same problem as you but what you should do is tell your parents and ask them to go by a pregnacy test but pregnacy test's are mostly wrong so you should ask them to take you to a doctor . But if you dont want to do that then what you should do is by yourself a pregnacy test . If your having food cravings , headaches , if your vominting .then 9-10 you might be pregnant . so you need to hurry because if you are pregnant then tell them to get you an obortion . It's going to be time sooner or later.. Just Try.
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I totally agree with the other answer. Honey, you are too young to be having sex in the first place. But to not use a condom? And have sex with more than 1 guy?? I know this is not what you want to hear, but if you aren't pregnant then I recommend that you go back to enjoying your childhood.
It does sound like you are pregnant, though.
I recommend you tell your parents now that you might be, and then take a test. They will be angry, but hiding it isn't going to do you any good because they will find out eventually. Unfortunately, because you are so young, you have absolutely no say in the well being of your baby (if you are indeed pregnant). This means that if they want you abort you have to abort and if they want you to give it up for adoption. This is because you are not at the age of consent yet.
I know I did lecture you and I understand that you are probably very scared right now. I hope that I helped you though. Good luck!
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Yes, there is a definite chance you're pregnant. You're an idiot for not using a condom. You're too young to have sex, and yes, I'm going to give you a fucking lecture about it because I'm sick to death of children having babies. If you're going to have sex, do it with someone you love. ONE PERSON ONLY and use some form of contraception.
I hope you're not pregnant, but it really sounds like you are. You better be ready to make the toughest decision of your life, sweetheart, and you better make the right one for your baby's sake.
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