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so me and my bf were on a break and i was texting my guy friend about what i should do. I still really love him and i wanted to work things out. he looked through my phone and saw that i was talking to him and some other guy but they were just friendly conversations. it wasnt flirtatios at all. My ex got upset and broke up with me. He thinks that i was talking to these guys throug out our entire relationship. i wasnt. i really want to work things out with him. and he said we can start by being friends and work up from there. my question is how do i show him that i love him and that i want to work on us. (link)
You should not have any close guy friends. When you are in a relationship you have to giveup a lot of things to keep that relationships happy.
If that is what makes your boyfriend happy to not to have guy friends than don't have them.
He is jealous because he loves you and cares for you. Relationship works both ways. He has to sacrifice and so do you. You both have to do what keep eschother happy.
I hope my advise help you take good care


Okay, so my name is Allison &' I'm f/14. So, my guy friend James is 15 and we both really like each other. Except that I know that he really wants to have sex.... I want to know if its wrong that he fingers me &' we get a little more intimate. I honestly think that I love him &' I think he loves me too. (link)
Hi my name is irina and I am 25 ideally think you should not go any further with what you already done. When I was your age I did mistakes just like you and than a few years later when I got married I regretted because I became close to God and I see things crystal clear now.
I just wish someone would have given the same advice as I am about give now.
It's okay what ever you did so far but from now don't do anything sexual until you are sure this is the guy you are going to marry.
God is very protective over his children and he loves you very much he don't want just some guy touching you he only want your your husband to touch you like that cause that's how he created us.I hope you will take my advise And God opens your heart to see clearly.
Take care sweetheart.


hey, well when your ex tells you that your his first love, do u think he'll ever forget u?

or say that you've broken up around 2 months ago do you think he doesn't still think of me or anything?...

i just still aint moved on (link)
Dear you will never forget your first love it does not matter how much times will pass by trust me u will never forget you're first love so had up cause just like you hit still thinking about you too good luck


Hi I'm 27/f my agrophobia got very worse can you help me out with some tips to overcome this. It got really out of control....thx (link)
Hi I'm 27/f too and I have been suffering with the same thing too mine is out of control very bad to so I think we should definitely talk and help each other out...I usually keep my brain bizzy as possible at all the time so I don't even. Have time to think about it...well of course it will be with me always and sometimes even at home to I don't feel safe...we definitely should talk about it....


When you have no family, friends or people who you can talk to what do you do to cope?? I want to be dead, i want to say good bye to everything that I see every day. I have tried all sorts of meds and counseling and it does not help. All my life I have tried to make people happy and it is always thrown back into my face, so why try? (link)
You don't need no message no friends no body write now,what you need is God in your life he will heel your heart and lead those kind of people in your life who will,love you for you and keep you happy.
There is a reason I am writing you this massage today cause God loves and cares for you. I hope he will give you that happiness what he gave to me.
Take care


Ok so now I'm 12 and had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times and I had sex with two other guys and don't give me a lecture about that! Anyway I didn't get my period last month and I'm late this month and don't think I'm gonna get it. I've bEen feeling really sick lately and been having stomach cramps and been feeling tired. I've also had headaches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant? We didn't use a condom any of the times we had sex (link)
You should be careful sleeping with boys.
I know how kids are now days but try to lay off sex and draw closer to God.
I think you might be pregnant.
If so you should keep the baby because we are no one to take a harmless baby life away only God can do that.
I am not judging but plz try to u understand where,I am coming from.
I hope you make better choices in life.
God bless


Do you have skype? I am agoraphobic and am recently trying to get help for it. I want to talk to someone that has made steps with it. I think it would help me out so much. (link)
I don't have Skype but if you give me your number I would love to talk to you cause as my self I have it now very bad ones I'm struggling with this. So if you think it would help you any not than we can tell each other what we feel because no one really understand but only who's in it...so I willing to help


Alright so me and my boyfriend were in bed and one thing led to another i was giving him head and he came and i cant remeber if any was left on his... but then he put a condom on and we started to have sex and at first the condom like sliped off, but it didnt and he didnt cum inside me and i was on my period so im wondering if it sounds like i should be worried about getting pregnant ? (link)
I think the best for you is to go to get a blood test done and this way you will be sure good luck


About 4 years ago I cheated on a guy I know, it was wrong of me but ever since then I've been labled as a 'playa', and I have a boyfriend now for 2 years and people keep telling him I'm gonna cheat on him and just wait and see he'll get his heart broken, but that's the furthest thing from the truth I love him and would never want to hurt him, but what hurts me is that he never defends me, when people say these things he just laughs and takes it and when we fight he says 'yeah I should have listened to those people' is it wrong that he never defends me?
I'm 19 and he's 21 (link)
I think that if u would really loved him you would not cheat on him the second think is that you have To be
strong and try to defend your own. Self he's not gonna be there for you forever one day in life you have to learn to be strong and don't let people to get to your head if he laughs with theme he's no different than they are but abviesly you are cause you get hurt so I suggest show them that you're strong and free and you don't need no one to protect you cause you can take care of your self good luck all the best


hi im 14 and im physically a female but i want to be a male i like the clothes and everything with it in school i act and sometimes talk like a boy. my best friend when we are out of school refers to me as a boy
i need help i really do think im transgender???????????????
and how do i tell my parents?? (link)
Hi dear transgender I know. What you been going too cause as my self I dress up like a boy and even think like one but pls don't think about any surgery I use to think just like u belive me but you only 14 you have your whole iife ahead of you you don't know that that what you are until you let GOD in your heart just belive and he will guide you to the right path.....and don't worry about your parents you are them blood they will be with you either way...wish you all the best..




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