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How does a person stop thinking of killing themselves?


Question Posted Tuesday October 2 2012, 10:00 pm

When you have no family, friends or people who you can talk to what do you do to cope?? I want to be dead, i want to say good bye to everything that I see every day. I have tried all sorts of meds and counseling and it does not help. All my life I have tried to make people happy and it is always thrown back into my face, so why try?

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freefalling1010 answered Thursday December 13 2012, 9:25 pm:
stop making other people happy and work on youre happiness i to wanted to kill myself at one time and i started talking to god and god started blessing me believe me he will help you just ask him start reading the bible go to church god wants you to live a happy life a long life he brought you into this world and he truely loves you go talk to a pastor of a church believe me you will look at things diffrently good luck god bless you always

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kathy27 answered Sunday October 14 2012, 9:49 pm:
You don't need no message no friends no body write now,what you need is God in your life he will heel your heart and lead those kind of people in your life who will,love you for you and keep you happy.
There is a reason I am writing you this massage today cause God loves and cares for you. I hope he will give you that happiness what he gave to me.
Take care

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BellaThorne answered Wednesday October 3 2012, 8:22 am:
People who want to go suicidal end up not because they think of the good things in life. If you can't think of any, then you aren't thinking hard enough because there HAS to be at least one great moment in your life.

And if you're gone, people WILL miss you. There are people out there that love you, but you just don't see/notice them. You DO have friends, but you don't see/notice them. I don't know what you mean by you have no family, but there has to be at least one family member (Even if you don't know them). And if you find him/her, talk to them about this.

Good luck.

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rainhorse68 answered Wednesday October 3 2012, 4:41 am:
Glad to hear you've recognised the danger and are using practical measures to keep some sort of control over things. During sessions did anyone raise the 'self-esteem' issue? Your last sentence rings of it to me. A big off-shoot of low self-esteem is that you constantly sacrifce the little you have in attempt to win the approval & esteem of others. Try to start liking yourself a bit more and worry a little less about pleasing others maybe? It's important to be kind of course, but striking a balance is essential. We're not really cut out to 'shoulder the sins of the world' as it were. If you're strictly secular like me, just know that it can't be done. If you're religious, it's a divine task, not a mortal one. Any help?

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