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How do i tell him im not intrested in the nicest way possible?
Okay so this guy is really showing he is intrested in me. He walks me to classes and is always telling me that im preety and stuff like that.. Im a 15year old girl and Honestly i dont want a boyfriend. Im not into the whole relationship thing.To tell you the truth it kind of scares me.. I like being single. Dont get me wrong, this guy is actually super nice and a gentleman but i dont want him to be anything more than a friend. How do i tell him im not intrested in the nicest way possible? Im a person who doesn't like hurting others so i really need help on how to tell him that im not the person that likes all that Relationship stuff. Im too young for that. Please help thanks (:
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I believe the best way to tell him is to take advantage of your age. Which is to tell him that at the present time you feel you are not ready to have a steady relationship with anyone. That you concentrations at this time are on other things such as school work and after school activities. You just don't have time for a relation ship know. If he wants to be just friends that's fine but anything more is out of the question as you do not date.
That's the truth as I read what you say. You are not alone in how you feel. There are many girls your age who feel the same way. These girls like you feel they are to young for a relationship and all the groping and fighting off the physical advances young boys make. Many these girls also have life plans and dating just isn't in the plan at this time. There is nothing wrong with this and no one should think anything different of you because of this.
I admire your maturity for knowing what you are capable of and staying away from those situations you are not ready for. Stay with these principals as they will always keep you safe.
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DefinedEyes has a point. When you tell him, he'll be upset for awhile but it's the best thing to do.
If he is really interested in you, he should understand. Just tell him the nicest way as you can.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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There really isn't a nice way of doing this, you just do it. It'll hurt him either way and things might be awkward for a while but the best way to do it is nicely. These situations are really complicated because it's awkward and uncomfortable,I would just sit him down and maybe say "Hey, I don't want you to get the wrong idea or anything but I really just want to be friends"
He might be upset for a bit,but just give him time.
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