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Website: Bella Thorne Official
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Location: Hollywood, FL
Occupation: Actress
Age: 14
Member Since: January 31, 2012
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Well I've been fainting lately and been feeling so sick! I think its because of the laxatives(I do modeling so I take it so I don't get fat)but I wanted to know can you faint from something that's really bothering you. My twin brother died from cancer and its really getting to me and someone has been sending my friend naked pictures of me and of me sleeping and I don't know how they got it so yeah that's what's bothering me just wanted to know could it be that also? (link)
Um, you do know you can die from taking laxatives if you're under age right?

Tell your mother right now to take you to the hospital. If you've been taking them for days, weeks, months, or even years, then it may be too late.

Best of luck,
Bella xoxo


25, f. It's getting to be cold over here. I'm stubborn, and running is my cure-all, and I usually run 2-4 miles at a time. I'm going to be running this winter.
The asthma calms down after a few cold jogs, but what drives me crazy is the way my nose runs like a faucet. THEN I have trouble breathing.
Is there any way that anyone knows to make it stop, or at least more manageable? (link)
I used to have the same problem. Unfortunately, there is really nothing you can do except sniffle a lot :)

Or if you put your head back, that can help. When my nose runs a lot, I usually just put a little bit of a paper towel in my nose and it helps! It sounds pretty weird, but it only matters if it helps :D

Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo


My boyfriend had when I moved in and recently she has started going into heat. She is a inside cat so were not sure if we want to have her fixed. But is there something we can do to help her through the transition from kitten to cat or will this always happen? Please help I haven't slept in a week and I feel so bad about it but can't seem to comfort her in any way. (link)
There's no need to feel bad :). It happens to every kitten eventually. She will be in heat for a total week, but if it goes longer then there is no need to fear. She'll be back to normal in no time!

Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo


Can a guy get pregnant from another guy (link)
Unless a man has feminine eggs, then no.


I Like This Boy Named George But I Don't Know What To Do. He Plays With Me And Acts Like He Likes Me And Flirts. But Sometimes He Doesn't Want To Talk To Me. Don't Get Me Wrong Were Best Friends. But I Got Expelled From School. He Offers To Carry Me, Hold Me, And Other Stuff. :) I Kiss Him On The Cheek He Kiss Me On The Cheek.. But I'm Not Sure Because Some Days He Acts Different. Plus He Always Tries To Flirt While I'm Around.His Little Sister Is Begging Me To Go Out With Him.. I Really Like Him. What Should I Do? Should I Tell Him? Should I Not Tell Him? Should I Ask Him Out? Please Reply To Makala. (link)
Ask him out!! It seems like he likes you. So.. What's stopping you? I'd just sit down with him and then just let nature go its course. Tell him you like him, he'll reply, you'll reply.. Y'know.

I hope everything goes well! Please inbox me what happens :)

Bella xoxo


hi:) ive been txting and hanging out with this boy and i cant figure out where we are in our relationship nd ive asked him before and he just said lets hangout some more an well see but our relationship has gotten a lot deeper now and i really like him a lot and i dont know what to think. if anyone has any advice to give its greatly apprciated...thanks :) (link)
Hi! Well, it sort of depends on when you asked him where you guys are. If it was just a few days ago, wait a little while. If it was a long time ago, ask him again.

If his answer is the same, tell him that you're confused and you need to know.

Good luck and take care! :)
Bella xoxo


I am 23 years old, but still living at home. I have been dating a guy for a few months that I absolutely adore. Only downfall is he has tattoos, not just a few but both arms completely covered (sleeves). I have no problem with this however my parents do. I haven't had him over to meet my parents simply because of that reason and they have already told me "he is not going to meet extended family, that's embarrassing to bring around them, he can't go on family vacations" etc... I am not asking them to accept or like the tattoos, that is their opinion. I'm just looking for some advice on how I can allow them to look beyond that and see them how i do, a respectful man who treats me right. Any advice please! (link)
Tell your parents that just because he has tattoos doesn't mean he's a bad person.

That's like judging a book by it's cover - and that isn't right at all. They should be happy for you! They should be happy that you found a guy that you really like. And all they're doing is putting you down.

If I were you, I'd sit down and have a talk with them. Tell them all the stuff I told you!

Good luck :)
Bella xoxo


i need help trying to find a talent for the 5th grade talent show and the winner gets a slow snow queen and king dance so can u please help me. p.s my name is aviona and im 10
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Hi Aviona!

I know how it feels having to look for something to do at a talent show. Well, what do you love to do? If you love to sing and/or dance, then do that. If you don't, well try to give it a shot. I hated acting, dancing, and singing but now I love doing it! Actually, I have careers in them.

If you still don't know what to do, try playing an instument. Violin, for example. Or a flute, piano, ect.

You can do many things at talent shows, you just haven't found them yet. Good luck and I hope you win! :)

Bella xoxo


I think I might be close to getting my period but I don't know. I have joint pain, my first headache, weakness, being irritable, bellyache. Are these signed of a period and how many days before it happens. Thanks. (link)
Cramps is a big sign of starting your period. But all the things you listed are included in that too. I think you'll start really soon.


Good luck!
Bella xoxo


is 11 and a half to young to kiss but that being all no nothing else at all maybe making out or what ever but like no sex, fingering etc (link)
Yes. 11 and a half is still a little young to kiss.

But if you really want to, JUST A KISS, then go for it. Just don't "let things accidently happen". I think people should start kissing at the age of 13 or 14.


hi im a female in middle school so my bff has this really hot bf i have told her he is so sexy me ad him are good friends we hang out and stuff but nothing ever more i am kinda jealous what should i do i have another problem to i get scared in relationships and i bak out a wat shud i do because its really annoying breaking up with people again and again
thx (link)
Well if you told your bestie how you feel, then that's pretty much it.

And it's likely they'll break up soon. Every story has its ending. Once they do break up, make your move! If she was really a bestie, she won't mind.

But there's one thing you CANNOT do: DO NOT BREAK THEM UP!! Many girls do this because they're jealous of their best friend being with the guy she likes.. Then it ruins their friendship!

So just wait until their story comes to an end. Then talk about you getting with him.

Good luck!
Bella xoxo


I am 16 years old girl and my boyfriend is almost 19, we are both not virgins but yet it is our first time together. I want to get pregnant but he wants to use a condom. Is there a way for me to get pregnant even though he is gonna wear a condom?
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Come on, you're 16! I don't think this guy is the person you want to have a baby with. And you're 16 - TEEN. Wait until you're older and with the right person.


I just what to say thank you so much
im am going to try that tomorrow
love Georgia xxoo
Ps if you don't remember I'm the one about beth conniee and allyssa (link)
I'm so happy I helped! :) Good luck with everything. If you need any more advice, just send me a message!!

Bella xoxo


My name is Kenna and I want to become famous. I can act sing and dance but I can't get famous. How did you become famous. Please help me on this. I will read any length of advice that you have, I just want to become famous. Thank you so much and have a nice day. (link)
Hi Kenna!
So if you think you can act, sing, and dance, then LET people know that. This is how I got noticed:

Singing: I did talent shows and all that stuff. I didn't get really famous for singing until my acting and dancing got noticed.

Dancing: Before Shake It Up, I didn't dance at all. My coreographer pretty much taught me!

Acting: I loved to do plays and stuff, so I decided to tell my mom that I want to get into acting. I got into an acting agency, and they found me casting calls - Like Shake It Up!

Good luck, Kenna. Don't let anyone stop you from living your dreams! :)

Bella xoxo


19/f
New York
First of all thank you for taking the time to read this. I almost vision myself being famous. I want to use the money I'm famous with and help other unfortunate people. I just feel in life all I want to do is help people, i'm not so sure a school counselor is going to cut it. I can't really sing well, and I have never taken dance lessons but I obviously can dance. I don't know if this is just a hopeless dream of mine, but for some reason I just see myself famous. It's just I don't know what for. NOT to boast, but i'm small (4'11") and I have a unique cute face. But you don't become famous for being cute and having a great personality do you? I am popular around my towns, just not NICKI MINAJ or like DRAKE. I live in New York so I wonder if Webster Hall would have any opportunites for me. If anyone has any ideas or anything i'd be sure willing to read a lot. (link)
You actually have to be GOOD at something to be famous..

I act, sing, and dance.


I am 14 and have been watching a lot of The Disney Channel. But everytime Jessie staring Debby Ryan, Shake it up staring Bella Thorne and Zendya and reruns of Wizards of waverly place staring selena homes come on I get sexually aroused to the point of masturbation. Is thus a sign that I am a lesbian. I have pics of Bella in a bikini I masturbate to every night. She is my ultimate crush. (link)
Well thank you.. xD
Well, stating "crush" that means you are. There's no need to be ashamed!! Be yourself :)

Bella xoxo


I have just been feeling depressed for a while now. I have no friends,just only the co-workers I work with. I really don't talk to my family like that anymore. I just go thru the same routine everyday. I feel like no one is there for me. I have struggle to keep myself together for the last past three years. I graduated High School about 3 years ago. I lost all my best friends. Arguements,lies happen after high school. So, No more friends. I don't want to go to school or work. No one ever texts or calls me unless it's family members wanting someone or asking something. I just don't know what to do. I never make plans because i'm always alone. I never been on a date. I'm have been single my whole life. I'm only 21 years old. I'm gay. I gotten sick with the shingles about 6 months ago. Because of stress and it was really bad. Cause of work,ex-friends,lonely,didn't feel like i belong,hiding about beening gay(which i am still). I need someone to talk to. I hate this feeling. I sit at home or ride around before i go home everyday or go to the park and just think and cry all the time. I dreamed about me dying in a car accident all the time and wondering what would my family do with out me. I just don't know who i am anymore. I need answers and help.It's not the world's business to know what i'm going thru and to know that i'm gay. Not,my families either because i will get disown.:/ My family is so christian. Now, It hurts. Having to lie to them about everything and can't be my own self. Advice please?
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I think you should go to a doctor, too. You shouldn't have to deal with this sort of depression. You should live a happy life! If I were you, I'd take depression medication. It'd also make you feel more confident with yourself and make you want to make friends.

Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo


Hi I'm Georgia/12/Australia
Lately my best friend beth has been hanging out with these other girls allyssa and connie.
Usually me and beth do everything together and now she's ignoring me and excluding me and the other day i just burst into tears.She;s really hurting me and she has been doing this for a while what do i do? (link)
Hi Georgia!
Unfortunately, this happens. But it won't stop unless you tell Beth how you feel. I know you probably don't want to, but it'll make things better.

Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo


Hi Bella
i love your show ! and on the show you and Rocky are bfs , maybe you could help me with this ...
Soo ive had this friend since like 1st grade and shes really quiet and i like hanging out with her because i can tell her all my secrets and i know she wont tell any one ..soo i hung out with her all through elementary but then middle school came and i was getting tired of being with like shy person all the time soo i made a new friend and she was like super crazy and funny ! but not as trusting as my old friiend ....Soo now high school comes and me and my crazy friend get sent to different schools ...the first day i see my old friend and i start talking to her and catching up on old stuff she basically knows my whole life ! but in a class theres this other girl who ive know from elementary school but i didnt really talk to her because i thought she was such a girly girl ...but at the end of last year and this year we started talking and shes awesome were soo alike ! andi told my shy friend about how much i love my new friend but she doesnt really like her cuz if you think about it their personalities are so different one is to ``girly for the other ` and soo now my shy friend gets mad because i talk to my new friend because me and cynthia ..always have something to talk about ... i want to hang out with her but i dont want to lose a friend who i really trust ..but we can never hang out all three of us ?`hope its not too confusing ! thanks (link)
Hi! Thanks for the support on Shake It Up. It means a lot :)

Well, I'd try to make it work with all of you guys to hang out. It wouldn't hurt to try to be friends. And if it doesn't work out, i'd probably hang out with your friend from elementary. She seems really trusting. She can be shy, but she's a good friend and you knew her longer. Besides, she also knows like your whole life!

Your friend that's funny.. Well, i'm sure she'd be hurt that you can't hang out with her as much, but i'm sure she has a bunch of other cool friends too.

I hope I helped :) Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo


who create problem in my life (link)
Well it depends on what the problem is. Usually, the person having the problem caused the problem. Everything happens for a reason.

Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo




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