we are in a relationship since 4 years and his mom is doubting now that we have some sex relationship as well.he got scolded for it and i am really guilty,i'm feeling that everything is happening because of me.i just wana kill myself:'(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SabrinaNaddie answered Sunday October 14 2012, 12:39 pm: If that is the problem , then do the intecourse after your marriage . I don't think that's wrong at all , in fact better . The thing is past is past. Your man got scolded by his mum and everything happens for a reason . Maybe both of you are still too young for this but hey , i don't know the real issue over there . Anyway , don't keep on blaming yourself for the wrongdoings . Be able to extract positive things from the negative events , then you'll be able to think wisely . If you keep on judging things based on your feelings , then what kind of goodness will be the outcome ? No matter how bad things go , always think by the head . Head over heart and when it comes to parents , sometimes what they do to their children is never wrong at all , they just don't want their loved ones to be bad and you too , are not bad . Apologize if you think that is the best way , i mean honesty in the best policy . Otherwise , if you are too shy , then do good deeds to everyone . That works for me . Learn from mistakes , and change . Nobody is ever perfect in this world and hun , keep your head up . Don't feel bad too much , it might affect you badly in the future so just think positive ! That is one of the best remedies to every single problem . You still have your pride . Respect yourself and don't commit bad things with your guy :) [ SabrinaNaddie's advice column | Ask SabrinaNaddie A Question ]
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