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I keep getting bullied (verbally) and I don't know what to do
I am a twelve year old girl from NZ. I keep getting bullied by this girl in my class, and her guy friend (NOT boyfriend)One of them is african, and one is mexican. They always call me really mean things, and sometimes shove me and other stuff like that. They walk the same way home as me so I have to suffer it for 20 mintues everyday.Telling a teacher won't help, as the bullies will do it anyway (already tried) and I can't tell any other adults because they just make the problem worse. Please help me!
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take self defense classes like karate stick up for yourself learn to defend yourself and make freinds with kids bigger than you to i believe you will see a diffrence
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Turn around and just say OI C*NTS! How about you just back the F**K off, I'm sick of you're shi*t!! Be confident in yourself..this bitch is only doing this because she has someone else to tag team with...Just laugh it off and say,sorry were you talking to me?! *couldn't care less*! lol
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Tell your parents. Make sure they know you get shoved by these kids. Do this, and if you don't feel like this helps, even though adults seem to make things worse, (because some of them do!!), there is probably one around who won't make it worse, who WILL help. The thing is, this is shit and you deserve to have it taken care of, so adults who screw around are one thing but there are adults who want to fulfill their duty and get rid of this sort of shit. lol so look out for an adult with kind eyes at your school or church or other lessons or sport practice or whatever and tell them, because there must be one adult where you live who cares about the welfare of children.
BTW, I would seriously advise you to try to walk another way- or stick around school for 10 minutes so that the bullies are already on their way. Seriously just go to the bathroom after school, do your hair, stare at the mirror whatever or hang with someone so that the bullies don't know where you are and just leave on their own (doubt they would wait for you for 10 or 15 minutes).
Don't want you to have to deal with this walk in the meantime while your telling your parents or whatever.
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Make sure your parents know and that teachers and other educators have done nothing for you. If someone shoves or throws a punch or kicks you go to the police and file an assault charge. They won't screw with you after that. Right now your parents can file harassment charges for the bullying and being stalked on the way home. Also applies to unwanted calls, online stuff.
You need to be assertive and defend yourself. Try fighting back. Even if you don't win they'll know that you aren't afraid or an easy target. You must tell adults as believe me not all of them will make it worse. If they go to the police that will stop it.
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You should tell your parents. If they speak to the school, they will take it more seriously, because the top rank of the school is much more afraid of what parents will do.
So tell your parents to speak to the school. The school will hopefully tell the bullies' parents. Every child will take their parents more seriously than a teacher. The chances are that the parents don't know that their children are bullies. So they will have a word with their kids and tell them to stop.
So definitely tell your parents! It may seem like a conversation you don't want to have, but it's really the only way to help it. Bullying is a terrible, terrible thing. It's really best to stop it as soon as possible before it gets worse, and before they start terrorising loads of other people, in childhood and adulthood.
Good luck!
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