Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f
ODonLOVE answered Monday May 28 2012, 4:51 pm: Report this RIGHT NOW. That is considered sexual assault. You do NOT deserve to be treated that way, and it is wrong on a number of for him to have done that. I know it may feel like it would be betrayal to turn him in, but is it really worth the pain of being loyal to someone who Assaulted YOU? Depending on the state you live in that may also be considered rape. No matter what, report it. [ ODonLOVE's advice column | Ask ODonLOVE A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday April 13 2012, 11:42 pm: It is sexual assault but it depends on where you live to be able to consider it rape. You could always google it or talk to a police office. You can ask to speak to a female if it would make you feel more comfortable. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
Bubble2Gum answered Friday April 13 2012, 4:18 pm: This IS rape. I actually had the same expirenece when i was younger. If you were not comfortable, and you said no, its rape. point blank. Also, forcible sexual assult. Punishment may vary state to state. Regardless, he will serve time for it.
report it, you dont deserve to be treated like dirt.
--Zoe(: [ Bubble2Gum's advice column | Ask Bubble2Gum A Question ]
Razhie answered Wednesday April 11 2012, 12:58 pm: It may or may not be rape under the laws of your area. It is sexual assault, everywhere.
It is also a deal breaker. You should end the relationship.
I agree with adviceman, you should also tell your parents and the police, so this behavoir can be addressed appropriately and it can be made perfectly clear to him that he must never do something like this again.
But first, get yourself away from him. He has lost all rights to be anywhere near you. End the relationship, do not contact him. Keep yourself safe, and away. Don't try to explain it to him, or make peace with him. Tell your friends and family what has happened, so they can help you stay safe and away from him. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Wednesday April 11 2012, 11:37 am: If what has happened to you is rape or not is a decision the police would have to make. If it is Rape, it is rape in a lesser degree than forcible rape or forcible sodomy which is what oral sex is considered.
What has happened is you have been sexually assaulted in a major degree. No mater how old your boyfriend is this should be reported to your parents and the police. Why? Simply if he did this with you this time; what will happen next time he wants sex and will it be with you or some other girl? Will he force you or another girl to have intercourse with him next time? How much will you or she be hurt by him to get what he wants? If he is allowed to get away with this type of a sexual assault he will escalate his assaults in the future. This unfortunately has been proven statistically by a number of researchers.
By reporting him to the police you may also be helping him correct his behavior now while it is still correctable. If he is a juvenile, someone under 18, the courts look to correct not punish.
It is most important for yourself and his future victims, that you tell your parents as soon as you read this. Then call the police and report him.
I would also like you to call an organization called RAINN. The name stands for; Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. You have suffered a traumatic attack for which you need help to deal with. This organization operates a 24/7 365 day hotline to help victims of Rape, abuse and Incest. They will help you find people in your home town to help you deal with what has happened. Their number is: 1-800-656-HOPE. Please call them. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
maly answered Wednesday April 11 2012, 10:56 am: I don't know if it's considered rap or not but I really suggest you think about leaving him because if you stay he'll think you'll just take it and it will get worse and more aggressive and you don't want to end up emotionally and phisically scared or end up badly hurt or worse
Just be careful and think about the option of leaving him [ maly's advice column | Ask maly A Question ]
vikkikimberly answered Wednesday April 11 2012, 9:17 am: Dear Questioner,
This may not be considered rape, Im not quite sure there.
But at the VERY LEAST it is DEFINATELY sexual assault. Which is just as bad as rape.
This is an offence.
Leave him before he becomes more aggressive, because he'll go further next time!
vikkikimberly [ vikkikimberly's advice column | Ask vikkikimberly A Question ]
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