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Things have been bland for me lately. At my current age and location I'm unable to work, get a license, or attempt to get my GED. For the next six months I'll be sitting all day every day in my home as I've done for the last five years. Even when I'm of legal age, I'll have no means of getting a ride to a job, and my parents say they don't want me working. This means no saving up for anything; even college.
Besides that, there's also the problem of not having anything to do during the day. Every day it's eat, sleep, study or play games. I feel so sheltered and frustrated sometimes, but what can I do? I don't have friends to see, and going places takes money that we don't have. Times like this make me wish I was in public school, just to have somewhere to go, but then I remember I have no confidence.
What else is left to do when all I can do is lose count of the weeks I haven't been outside? (link)
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I'm not sure how old you are but I'm assuming you are a little younger. I know what you mean when you say you are feeling frustrated and it's because you are reaching an age when you want more freedom which is natural.
If you have are feeling bored at home then think of things that interest you and find some way that you can turn that into a hobby. I don't know if you are a religious person or not but if you are then maybe take the extra time to look more into the bible or something too if that is of any interest to you but if it does then jw.org is a good website to look into
Something I got into was gymnastics, just started teaching myself some simple things
If you like baking or cooking then be creative with different recipes
If you don't have much option other than being at home then there are really a lot of things you can give a try
If you go on pinterest then you can get a lot of ideas from there too
Hope that's somewhat helpful.
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My husband and I's one year anniversary is coming up in a few months, and so is a very close friend's wedding, her wedding date: our one year anniversary. I'm at a loss of what to do. My husband wouldn't be able to come with me to her wedding, and my friend would be extremely hurt if I didn't go. What makes the situation awkward is I knew when picking my wedding date that my friend would be getting married that same day. I had no choice however (my husband is military). I reassured and promised her since she got engaged that I would be there at her wedding. In fact, as soon as I got the wedding invite, I texted her and let her know I would be there and how excited I was. My husband always knew I'd be going, but I guess it just clicked for him I'd be missing or first anniversary. He's very upset, anniversaries are very important to him. I tried reasoning with him that we could celebrate another day, but he's not having it. What do I do? I will always pick my husband over anything, but shouldn't he be more understanding? Should I be present for the most important day of my close friend's life and hurt my husband? Or be there with my husband for our one year anniversary and risk losing my friend? (And I have very few true good friends) (link)
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Honestly, you should view your husband as also your best friend. This is your first anniversary with him and you can never get your first anniversary back. Try explaining it to your friend because this is also a very important day for you and the person you love. Missing your first anniversary isn't a good way to start your marriage and if you do it might end up always being an underlying problem between the two of you in your relationship. I don't think your husband is overreacting right now because what he is feeling is not just anger but also hurt because it's like you're choosing your friend over him. When you get married to someone it's not like you have to stop caring about other people in your lives but when you get married to someone then that person is suppose to take priority over your other friends and family
If your friend is a real friend then she will understand that.
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It so hard for me to talk about these questions to people in person, mainly because I'm worried everyone will think I'm crazy. I totally feel like I'm going completely nuts, but there's something I can't get my mind off of.
Does anyone here believe testimonies of people who claim to have been to Heaven or Hell? I didn't really in the past, but there are these two girls who claim to have been taken on by Jedus on tours of hell and came back to tell about it. They both say some of the same things, like that they saw Michael Jackson there and children who watched cartoons.
The thing is that these girls messages may actually come from satan, or they may be making their stories up for whatever reason. Regardless, they are causing people to have intense fear about their eternity. They're making salvation seem impossible.
Some of what they say seems extremely random. Like, "Oh, God doesn't like blondes, God doesn't like people who own Chihuahuas, God doesn't like people who drive Ford's." They don't actually say those things, but that's how bad it can seem. Like we're all unknowingly doing things that can get a person sent to Hell. Like no one can know that they're doing anything that will condemn them later. Like we're all doomed and God tries to make salvation as hard as possible.
When one girl was giving her testimony, I thought to myself that if some of what she was saying was true, it didn't seem as if God could be the loving, gracious, and just God that some believe that he is. I know better than to believe that though. I know better than to think that he is a cruel God who likes to see people go to Hell and who makes salvation practically impossible.
I feel like God states everything you are and aren't supposed to do in the Bible, but some of these people say that you can get sent to Hell for things that the Bible doesn't mention and things that you'd never think of.
They claim that dying your hair, painting your nails, wearing makeup, and using perfume will keep you from having any hope of getting to Heaven, but my grandmother did all of these things and, at the risk of sounding crazier than I already do, I know she's in Heaven because she gives us this sign that she is and that she's watching us. I reject that these things will sent you to Hell.
The last reason I don't believe them is because their stories seem to contradict the Bible. For example, they say that they were taken to Hell and brought back to warn people, but doesn't the Bible say that if someone doesn't already believe, they still won't even if somebody comes back from the dead to tell them? Also, one girl sounds very high and mighty and says that God made her responsible for saving people, but isn't Jesus the only one who can save you?
There are plenty of other inconsistencies, but the majority of people seem to believe them. It seems like most people don't believe Colton Burpo, Alex Malarkey, or people like that, but they wholeheartedly believe these people. They say, "I don't see why any real Christian would feel the need to question this." Even though the Bible TELLS us to test these things. It's like people don't want to hear nice stories that give you hope,they only want to hear terrifying ones that make you feel hopeless.
I guess my question is am I right not to believe any of this? And also how do you KNOW you're going to Heaven?
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You are completely right not to believe them. You are totally right when you said that God sets out what is right and wrong in the bible because that is his way of communicating with us and he tells us these things because he WANTS us to be saved, if he didn't want us to be saved then Jesus would not have been sent down to die for our sins.
Remember when Jesus was on earth and the Pharisees were speaking contradictory and trying to mislead God's people? Jesus actually called them hypocrites
Now to answer your question about how to know whether or not you're going to heaven, I might have a different answer than majority of other christian faiths. I am a christian myself, but I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses.
I don't believe that everyone goes to heaven. The bible speaks of a "little flock" and the "great crowd" those who make up the little flock are known as the "anointed" and the bible speaks of a specific number that will go to heaven, in Revelation 14:1 it says "Then I saw, and look! the Lamb standing on Mount Zion, and with him 144,000 who have his name and the name of his Father written on their foreheads." But in Revelation 7:9 it mentions the great crowd "After this I saw, and look! a great crowd, which no man was able to number, out of all nations and tribes and peoples and tongues, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, dressed in white robes; and there were palm branches in their hands."
Of course the next question is if the great crowd doesn't go to heaven then where do they go? Well God's original purpose for the earth was for perfect humans to reside forever upon it. As we know from what happened with Adam and Eve that is not the case today. However, god still plans on restoring the earth back to a perfect paradise earth and even though we might be imperfect now, we will become perfect humans in the near future and we will be able to live forever in an earthly paradise without sickness and death (Revelation 21:4) (Isaiah 45:18)
The bible also shows that god promises a "resurrection of the righteous and the unrighteous"
We have all lost someone we loved and cared about in death and it's a really hard thing to deal with, i lost my grandmother a few years ago and you'll never stop missing them but in John 5:28,29 shows us the hope for those who have passed away it says "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, and those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment."
So we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again on earth. We'll be able to welcome them back and never have to worry about saying goodbye to them again
I'm sorry for my answer being so long but I hope i was able to answer your question and be of some help.
Also if you ever have the time you should check out jw.org it's a great website for those who believe and have a love for god and want to keep learning more about him.
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Hello, there. I am a freshman in high school. I am still quite young, but my religious beliefs have been bothering me lately. I have had severe anxiety my whole life; I'd always pray to God, hoping he would help my anxiety decrease, so I would be at ease. However, that has never happened. As time went on, I've lost my faith in God.
To be completely honest, I have not read a bible (It is severely confusing to me), nor been to church. I know very little about christianity, yet I label myself as one. Or I used to...
Anyway, I feel like there is always going to be a small part of me that will believe in God. But I don't know if it's because I'm scared not to (Due to my anxiety). I WANT to 100% believe in God, and I feel like I do, but I have my doubts. Sometimes I just feel like someone could've wrote the bible or something. I want to be fully convinced. I'm scared of the devil though and I'm scared he'll kill me in my sleep or something... (link)
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Personally, I'm a religious person myself and i read the bible so i completely understand where your coming from because a lot of it can be confusing to understand. Also, i think it's great that you believe in god.
God does listen to your prayers because he is the "hearer of prayer" and Proverbs 15:29 states "the prayer of the righteous one he hears"
To answer your question about how think that just anyone could have wrote the bible, men did write the bible, it was the apostles of Jesus who wrote different books of the bible centuries ago, however the bible was inspired by God so these men were inspired by God to write the bible. Therefore it is God's words recorded in the bible, not their own (2 Timothy 3:16)
There is a website that i visit frequently that i have found to always satisfy my spiritual questions and it's jw.org you should check it out, it might prove to be of some help to you
Feel free to inbox me any other questions you may have and I'll do my best to answer them. I hope you find the website helpful :)
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i am 15 years old and i have a bf we have been together for 9 month and some days we havent been seeing each for a while but it seem like the less were together the futher were moving apart what should i do (link)
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I think you need to sit down and talk with your bf. Ask him what's going on and if he feels anything has changed between the two of you. Sometimes we can read more into a situation than what is actually there so there's a chance where there's nothing wrong. But on the other hand, there is also a good chance that you're right about feeling like the two of you r moving apart. You are only 15 and going to meet a lot of different people in your life whether it be a bf, friends and even family sometimes, people grow and move apart from each other. Just so that you are prepared for anything, those are all possibilities. However for now just worry about getting some time to talk to your bf one on one and in person, not through text, and find out what's going on between the two of you and express how you're feeling too.
Hope that helps :)
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Ok, so here is a strange question for you: I asked my brother what he most wanted for his birthday and he said just that: "A bolt carrier group would be nice." Now here is the problem: I don't know what that is. Yes, I searched it on google, yes I found a picture in image search, and no, even looking at it I have no idea in the world where you would buy one or what exactly it is. Anyone know what I should do? (link)
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Honestly I'm not entirely sure what it is either but I did some research of my own and some places you could get them is a rifle shop apparently but I think your best bet is to go on eBay.
Sorry if I couldn't be of much help and hope all works out :)
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This is a serious question. Please only answer if you can truly give input. I have alway been very religious. My family is Catholic and I was raised Catholic. I was baptized as a baby, had my first communion, did confirmation, etc. Somewhere along the lines, I strayed. I always believed in God and continued to love Jesus. But, I was living my life my way. When I started college, around my first and second year, I was working full time and going to school. With all this extra money, I did not invest into a savings account, move out, or even help out with bills. i did something absolutely terrible. All I would do was talk to psychics and get involved in spells and witchcraft. One of the worse parts about all of this is that my mother supported me. This isn't her fault and I am in no way saying it is. But, it just made things worse because she would help me find spell-casters and all this nonsense. She took me to this one guy that owned a feng-shui shop (i apologize for the spelling). He claimed he knew spells and magic and was psychic. He told me that he needed to put a spell one me and had to touch me down there. I thought he meant with my clothes on. He asked me to close my eyes and put his hands inside my pants. Then, he told me that for the spell to work, I needed to come to his store and masturbate in the back room. I felt so dirty. I knew right, then, and there, that all I had been doing with these people was WRONG and NOT with the Lord. I prayed so hard. I feel so guilty. This has been by far one of the worse sins I have ever committed. I feel so absolutely guilty about it. This was a couple of years ago. I am about to graduate college now and I have made a complete turn around in following my Christian faith. I read the Bible. I pray to God daily. I seek the Lord and understand that to follow Him, one must be disciplined in some way. We are only human, and to try to remotely resemble God, we must have some sort of discipline over our actions.
As a result of reading the Bible, I have a complete new view of life itself and of my faith. I would consider myself more of a Christian then necessarily being part of a denomination. I am seriously starting to question the Catholic Church. I don't understand why I have to confess my sins to a priest. I don't understand why only a priest could bless water, bless a person, or turn the host in the body of Christ. Is he a magician? He's a sinner, just like I am! Why does he get those special "powers?" The Bible says that you are to call no other man Father (except your biological father). They seem to treat the pope as if he's God, himself. The Bible explicitly says that Jesus is our only mediator to God, the Father. Why then, do we pray to Saints? It just all hit me. I have really considered converting to another Christian denomination, like maybe Episcopalian.
My cousin has chosen me to be the godmother of her daughter, who will be baptized soon (into the Catholic Church). I can't just tell her no. Catholics also believe that if you don't get married through their Church, you are not truly married, so you are living in sin by "acting" like a married couple. This is the only thing that really scares me about leaving the Church. Can anyone offer me some advice?
Last question. I know that this is a lot of information... but, masturbation feels REALLY wrong. Pleasuring myself does not make me feel very good about myself afterward, although I have never believed it to be a sin. I always thought that we were created as sexual beings, and this was just a way to release sexual tension. It's something natural, like going to the bathroom or eating. But, it feels absolutely wrong. The Bible does not mention it at all. So, it's very much a topic to pray upon and decide if it's wrong to you. But, it feels very wrong. It feels even more wrong then sex. Now, I do have another thing to ask about sex. When I met my boyfriend, we were close friends for a while. I was head over heels for him already :). I prayed SO hard that God would help our relationship grow because I loved him. And he did. My boyfriend is also a follower of Christ. But, like anybody else, we've let our physical desires get the best of us. I know that I want him to the person I look at as I'm walking down that aisle. I think the best way to head in that direction is delay sexual intercourse till marriage. I want to talk to him about not having sex without sounding creepy. I want to sound like a respectable lady, not creepy, you get me? Something along the lines of "I've always wanted to wait... maybe we should." I just need someone to word it properly for me.
So, to recap:
1) converting to a Christian denomination, but, becoming a godmother and getting married through the Catholic Church?
2) talking to my boyfriend about waiting till marriage to have sex?
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First of all by your concerns and how you thought everything through is great. It shows maturity. It's awesome that you are a god-fearing person and are religious because there aren't many people who actually care now a days. I for one am religious myself. You're reading the bible which is good and your realizing that there are some things that is being taught by priests that don't seem to be in harmony with what the bible has to say. I can tell you care about creating a relationship with God and if you contact local Jehovah's Witnesses in your area they can answer any questions you have and will help show you how to come to your own thoughts and options on things found in the bible.
Also I am a Jehovah's Witness, we are students of the bible and we carry through what Jesus commanded us to do which is to go "preaching to all the nations"
Jehovah's Witness try to help all those they can to understand the bible and it's message
So even if you want to ask me any questions I'll be happy to help and will do my best to answer them.
Also you're right about masturbation. Although many do it it is not scriptural and isn't something that God agrees with.
God is loving and forgives all those who are truly relented and it's clear that you ate which is a very good thing.
With your boyfriend just tell him how you feel and if he loves you and is also God-fearing then he will be understanding about it. After all waiting until married will plead God because he does not agree with premarital sex
Remember to pray to God for guidance and strength and he will help you.
I hope I helped
P.S if you ever want to make your prayers even more personal then try addressing God by is name (Psalms 83:18 it shows that God's name is Jehovah)
And like I said if you even have further questions about God and the Bible then inbox me and let me know and if it's easier for you too then I'll give you my number, whatever is more convenient for you I'm flexible.
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So ive been off and on with this boy for 3 years. We have had to overcome a lot of obstacles but i really love him and he says he feels the same way.
Right now hes in a halfway house seeking treatment but has been clean for 3 months. Weve been long distance for about a year and a half now but have had one longer break up of about 4 months. Hes 21 and im 20.
So he came up to visit last weekend and i was a little skeptical about it. We werent officially dating or anything and were basically gonna get back together when he felt he could handle a relationahip. Well he came and visited and it was amazing. No fighting, got along great, and were mostly smiling. Although the first night he got here i talked to him and basically told him i wanted a happy HEALTHY relationship and if he didnt think he could give it to me then we shouldnt be together. He said there was no way he could lose me and was gonna try and work harder. My whole problem with this relationship is i never hear from him...he never calls. Barely responds to texts. I know hes bad about phones...but this is oong distance.. and im feeling underappreciated. :/ he has a whole new life now and i feel like i know nothing about it because he never calls to check in.
My question is what do you guys think of this situation? I love him ALOT and thats why ive been so loyal these difficult times. But i really was serious when i said i wanted something healthy and happy. He hasnt called and he left monday. Tuesday he sent me an i love you but that was it..can he ever show me what i need? Cause talkin to him doesnt seem to get my point across. But if its something that will pass cause of the recovery process i dont mind being a little patient cause the idea of losing him hurts :/ but i dont wanna be waiting aroubd for nothing...please any advice would be greatly appreciated. Im really depressed :( (link)
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Well because you really love him you want to be 110% sure he does too. Im thinking you should probably wait it out just a little longer and see what happens since you do t know if it is past of the recovery process or not and that kind of stuff takes time. But do not wait too long because you said you want a happy healthy relationship and if you aren't getting that then you need to show him that you were serious about it and maybe once he figures you are adamant wanting a healthy relationship he might work even harder to try and give you that
But for now wait it out just a little longer and tell him how you feel because communication is key to happy and healthy.
I hope I helped and I'm here if you ever have to talk
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These people suck here' I can't say what I want here''!!! Just to die die diiiiiiiiiieeeee!!!!!!!!!!'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'!!,,,,,,
You think I'm crazy ..igoi
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I agree with Carriebeca, there's something you want to say but you feel like no one is listening
You feel like you want to die but trust me that's just a permanent solution to a temporary problem
My inbox is open if you have to say anything I'm always willing to listen
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27f from south africa I'm a christian lady and recently I met this guy in church and we been hanging out so now he tells me he likes and wants me to be his gf but I told him that since we are christians ther wil be no sexual activity in the relationship.now the problem is each time I go to his house he wants to start touching me he even tried to force him self on me and wen I threaten to end the relationship he tells me that he loves me .should I leave him or what?coz having sex befor marriage gose against ma beleaves (link)
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It may sound like a difficult thing to do but yes you should leave him. No one should do that and if he really cares about you he won't force you to do something your not comfortable with and should respect your decision. You always want to put God first.
I am also a Christian, I am a Jehovah's Witness so I agree completely with you about not having sex before marriage.
Talk to him about it and tell him that you are serious but my opinion is that you should end it.
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My boyfriend called on Friday night. I thought, "Cool, he wants to see me." He really just wanted to use my computer to order motorcycle parts, and he left right after he was done ordering them. But before he left he asked if I'd like to do a club bicycle ride with him the next day (Saturday). But there's no way I could because that club consists of hardcore bicycle racers who go really fast, and I'm not fast enough. So he went without me ... and I'm okay with that.
Late that afternoon after his ride, he called me. I thought "Cool, he wants so see me." He really just wanted to use my computer to order more motorcycle parts. He came over, used it, and then had to leave right after because he had a meeting. The meeting gets over at 8:30, but he said he was tired and was going to go straight home after to go to bed. But he did ask me if I'd like to have dinner on Sunday night and said he could come over at around 5:00 and I can cook him anything I want. Huh? He invites me to dinner but dinner consists of me cooking at my house?
When his kids come to visit him, he woos them and does all the things they like to do: Rollerskating, ice skating, movies. All the things I would like to do, too. But when it comes to me, it seems like his attitude is, "We do it my way and if you don't like it, tough."
I tried to talk to him about the way I'm feeling about the way I'm being treated, but he rolled his eyes and says, "Not this again."
Am I being to sensitive and picky? What should I do?
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To be honest I don't think he appreciates you because if that's how you feel and if he cared about your feelings than he would listen and not just roll his eyes. And if he invites you to have dinner at YOUR house and YOU do the cooking than his attitude needs to change because that's not right, no one has the right to do that to anybody. You are definatly not being too sensitive.
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me and him have been together for a month.but i have like him for 6 months..we text everyday till one day he decided to ask me out. the day he asked me out he helped me in a problem i had (crascar)and hewasso nice, he got out of work and he came to where i was in a taxi i was so happy to see him. after that i introducedhim to my parents as my bf it was the first time i had done that. we were soo happy together but recently wegot in an argument. now hes diferent wedont talk :'( and today was our 1month together and he didnt even remember.all he said was awwww (link)
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Well first don't go back to drinking, never turn to something that can harm you. Second, before you decide to get over him try having a conversation about this with him face to face and through having that conversation you'll be able to tell whether or not the relationship is done.
If it is done however, it will be difficult to get over him but take this time to talk to someone close about it and let your feelings out because if you keep your feelings bottled up inside you'll only feel worse, and if you just need to vent it doesn't matter if u know the person as long as you just let out your emotions and sometimes talking to someone you don't really know very well can be easier to do
But one of the best things to do to get over it would be to talk about it
And if you ever need anyone to vent to you can vent to me if you ever want to, I always check my inbox
I hope I helped you and that you will be ok just remember to think positive even if it seems hard to and always talk to get your feelings out
I hope all the best for you :)
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I am 25 yrs old and I came from Mexico 10years ago on a visa. My visa expired and I was aware that I could be removed from the country anytime. I met this guy at school and we fell in love right away. everything happen so fast, he stayed at my apmnt once and never left. He loved that I was very independent and a hard worker. He had trouble with the law and he was trying to finish his 4 year probation. Sooner than later I realized he had an anger problem, but I still loved him so much. We fought multiple times were he would loose control and break everything he could. He knew about my situation with immigration and begged me to marry him so I was not on deportation risk anymore. I married him without anyone knowing about it. couple months later I was pregnant. It was shocking to me bec I am in this country alone. Even though his family liked me, they did not like what was happening. Everything started getting bad after that, our fights started getting physical and he hurted me many times being pregnant, he threatened to deport me many times as well. after one big fight he left and never came back. I was so afraid that he would take my baby and try to deport me.He said he was just not ready to be a father. I had an abortion a week after he left and he was not even there for me for that. I asked for help and everyone told me that the best thing to do was to file for a protection order so he could not deport me, and I did. His family hated me bec they said I knew he could get in big trouble after his past. We stayed away from each other for months. I was so hurt, bec after time I still loved him. I saw him again at school and he cried and begged me to forgive him. I started to fix my paperwork through domestic violence, if I removed that protection order they would not longer help me out and I would have to leave the country. I explained that to him and he agreed to see me anyway. His family went nuts when the heard we were together again, especially with him being so close to finish probation and having a protection order. we didn't care and still seeing each other. I was still very angry that he left me, we were fighting all the time, there was nothing good about that relationship besides knowing that we passionate loved each other. couple days ago we got into a fight at school, he started yelling at me in the middle of the parking lot and someone called police. Having a protection order they arrested him and took him to jail and there was nothing I could do about it. His family hates me even more now. His mother called me to tell me the piece of trash I was. I paid a lot of money for him to get out of jail. They are begging me to remove the protection order and blame all on me so he doesn't go to prison. If I do so, my papers won't go through and I might be deported. We knew we were fighting all the time, but nobody understand how much we love each other. I know we are toxic and we hurt each other when we are together but we are miserable when we don't have each other. He is devastated that he might go to prison for violation of probation, and I could not go to bed if I knew that I sent the man that I love the most to jail. I know he was physical when we lived together, but I forgave him and all I want is this nightmare to be over. Everyone says to forget about him and find someone else, that nothing would ever work out, especially with him being so close to his family. What should I do? (link)
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I really think you should forget about him, even though it seems hard to do but love is blind, you can eventually get over it and no one deserves to be treated like that and if his family doesn't really like you then it's no win. If he was a good guy that treated you properly I would tell you that you should try and make it work but he's being a jerk and NO girl wants it deserves that so it might be time you say goodbye before you get really badly hurt or worse
I hope I helped
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Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f (link)
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I don't know if it's considered rap or not but I really suggest you think about leaving him because if you stay he'll think you'll just take it and it will get worse and more aggressive and you don't want to end up emotionally and phisically scared or end up badly hurt or worse
Just be careful and think about the option of leaving him
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k , im 12 turning 13 in may and very skinny like weirdly skinny i've always hated my body i could never be like the other kids and wear shorts or anything or i would be bullied and called chicken legs and or etc anyways i've been thinking of suicid lately because i've recently moved to a new school because cause i've had anxiety at my old school and skipped over 30 days anyways i have barely made any friends im very depressed he but i told my mom i really wanted to move so i dont wanna tell her i havent really been making friends but other then that i like the school and also i havent gotten my period yet and like everyone i know whos my age has and i wanna get it cause i have a sister and shea 10 and been devolping fast and already has bigger boobs then me -_-' and i think (shes gonna get her period before mine. and theirs alot more that i hate about my like right now but dont wanna keep going on already wrote to much ( sorry about any typo's to lazy to proof read ) (link)
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It's not worth your time to listen to what other people say trust me I'm in grade 10 and there are a lot of good people to be friends with you just have to make an effort to find them. There are also lots of people who live for making everyone's life miserable but the only way to "win" against them to show you don't care and that you are comfortable with being your self. Belive me those mean kids never go anywhere in life. You should also really think twice about suicide because even though it seems like life will never get better it will I guarantee you just have to wait it out, everyone goes throught a time in their life where they don't feel alive or they feel depressed I know this first hand because I went through these feeling when my grandmother died but after awhile stuff happened and things started to get better. (if you want go to www.jw.org and look at some of the 'young people ask' questions there's lots if good answers about different situations)
Now about your period don't worry about it, it's different for every girl my mom got hers at 10 and her best friend got it at 19 just enjoy the pace that you are developing at and trust me you aren't missing out on much a period is just a pain to deal with so enjoy life without one while you can
I hope this helped
You can ask me any questions at anytime
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Hey, 18/f
Okay so basically I'm just wondering is it necessary to tell your boyfriend EVERYTHING?
We have been together for two and a half years and he knows pretty much everything about me as do I him.
But there is one particular incident in my past that I don't feel comfortable discussing with anyone. I don't want him to think differently of me telling him about it just isn't an option.
He asked me before had I any secrets and I just said no then he said If I had then all of this is for nothing.
It's not like I'm lying to him or anything there are just certain things I like to keep private. Surely that's allowed?
I asked my mum and even she says she has stuff my dad doesn't know about.
Does this make me a bad person?It's literally just this one thing.
Any advice appreciated thank you in advance. (link)
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No not at all, you don't have to tell him unless you want to. He should understand that too because he probably has something about his past he doesn't want to tell you or ever talk about
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Ok so yesterday, me and my boyfriend hung out in town. We have only been dating for about 2 weeks. Im 13/f and he's 14. We hug and occasionally kiss (mouth closed) and so we were cuddling and he kissed me and I kissed him back and he tried to make out with me but a few days ago I told him I wasnt ready. We were walking together last night and while he was walking me home, he stopped beside the abandon bowling alley and I went over and asked what he was doing and he said it was warming against the wall of the building. We stood there and out of no where, he said "I know you havent made out with anyone before but just do what I do" I said ok and so we started making out. Apparently Im good at it. He was pulling me closer and had his hands on my butt. I didnt know what to do. Is that a signal for something? He says that someday he wants to marry me. Adice? Opinions? (link)
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I think you should go with your gut feeling, never do anything your not comfortable with and if he really loves you he'll understand and won't push you. However be careful because if you've only been dating him for 2 weeks then you don't want to give him all you've got because he might dump you once he got what he wanted which happens to a lot of girls. H seems like a really nice and sweet guy but also seems like he can easily manipulate a situation because he sounds like he was planning on making out with you that night even before he stood by the abandoned bowling alley and if he had his hands on your butt then it seems like he would be willing to have sex with you as well.
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