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We made out..
Ok so yesterday, me and my boyfriend hung out in town. We have only been dating for about 2 weeks. Im 13/f and he's 14. We hug and occasionally kiss (mouth closed) and so we were cuddling and he kissed me and I kissed him back and he tried to make out with me but a few days ago I told him I wasnt ready. We were walking together last night and while he was walking me home, he stopped beside the abandon bowling alley and I went over and asked what he was doing and he said it was warming against the wall of the building. We stood there and out of no where, he said "I know you havent made out with anyone before but just do what I do" I said ok and so we started making out. Apparently Im good at it. He was pulling me closer and had his hands on my butt. I didnt know what to do. Is that a signal for something? He says that someday he wants to marry me. Adice? Opinions?
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Hey, I'm fourteen/f and I recently dumped a guy who sounds quite similar to your boyfriend. We made out on the first day of dating, which is sooo unlike me, but he asked me and I felt dumb saying no. We made out a lot for the three weeks we dated, and he even talked me into giving him a handjob and he felt me up and all that, and I truly regret it. I dumped him because I didn't want to be in a relationship like that; he was using me- and I sensed it was just a matter of time before he dumped me. The guy you're dating sounds like he really just wants you for sex and kissing, and if you feel uncomfortable with the relationship, END IT. Trust me. Before you guys end up going too far like my ex and I did. If you don't like the feeling of what you're doing and you don't want to do that stuff, you don't have to. If your boyfriend is a good boyfriend, he will understand that you may be uncomfortable with making out and all that. If he gets angry that you don't want to do that stuff or keeps pressuring you to do stuff with him that he knows you don't want to do, you should dump him. Good luck, hope everything works out!!!
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Don't do anything beyond that... It is really easy to get swept away. You are so young and I know this is said a lot, but you cannot get back what you give away. Innocence is only had once. And you are too young to know what the future holds. Someday you will find, when you're a little more grown up, a man. And things like the choices you've made will impact you're relationship in a potentially very negative way. Be careful and don't play with fire. You cant take your choices back
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I think you should go with your gut feeling, never do anything your not comfortable with and if he really loves you he'll understand and won't push you. However be careful because if you've only been dating him for 2 weeks then you don't want to give him all you've got because he might dump you once he got what he wanted which happens to a lot of girls. H seems like a really nice and sweet guy but also seems like he can easily manipulate a situation because he sounds like he was planning on making out with you that night even before he stood by the abandoned bowling alley and if he had his hands on your butt then it seems like he would be willing to have sex with you as well.
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