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He is trying to force sex on me. Should I leave him?
27f from south africa I'm a christian lady and recently I met this guy in church and we been hanging out so now he tells me he likes and wants me to be his gf but I told him that since we are christians ther wil be no sexual activity in the relationship.now the problem is each time I go to his house he wants to start touching me he even tried to force him self on me and wen I threaten to end the relationship he tells me that he loves me .should I leave him or what?coz having sex befor marriage gose against ma beleaves
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If you are a believer then you know that what he wants you to do is wrong. If you put God first then you know what you have to do.
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It may sound like a difficult thing to do but yes you should leave him. No one should do that and if he really cares about you he won't force you to do something your not comfortable with and should respect your decision. You always want to put God first.
I am also a Christian, I am a Jehovah's Witness so I agree completely with you about not having sex before marriage.
Talk to him about it and tell him that you are serious but my opinion is that you should end it.
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I think you should end the relationship if he doesn't respect your boundaries. It's important for a man to understand that a woman wants to uphold to her virtues and he should respect that. If he loves you, he can wait. Try to limit your relationship if he continues. Stop going over to his house unless there are others with you two. Go out outside of home and give time to get to know each other a little better and if marriage becomes something the both of you want, then pursue the relationship. There shouldn't be any pressure. He needs to give you time. Maybe get more involved with him in church functions and read some scripture together. The stronger faith you both have, the easier it'll be to live your lives according to the bible. Pray about it to God. If you have a good relationship with the lord, you'll get the strength and guidance that you need. I wish you luck.
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