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how to get over him


Question Posted Friday April 13 2012, 4:01 pm

me and him have been together for a month.but i have like him for 6 months..we text everyday till one day he decided to ask me out. the day he asked me out he helped me in a problem i had (crascar)and hewasso nice, he got out of work and he came to where i was in a taxi i was so happy to see him. after that i introducedhim to my parents as my bf it was the first time i had done that. we were soo happy together but recently wegot in an argument. now hes diferent wedont talk :'( and today was our 1month together and he didnt even remember.all he said was awwww <3 when i texted him telling him that it was 1 month with him..he didnt even call nothing :'( he didnt evencame to visit me. the problem is that i know he doesnt love me anymore. he doesnt say it nomore and i tell him all he says is me too..nothing else </3 my heart is broken. and hes flirting with all these girls on fb. oh and our relationship is a secret :( since hes the ex of my bff :( i think karma got me... for being a bad friend..rite now my heart is broken. and i really dont know how to get over him. i know ill be stupid saying this but i felthe was the one..im 15 and hes 18
it hurts me alot because i had spend nights with him together we slept together :( now i fell that allof that is gone..ijust need something to getover him...i cry everyday and im abotu to start drinking again :'(im destroyed :( but idk wat to do :/ im really broken...HELP ME PLEASE!! :'(
idont wanna break up with him..but how can i make him fall inlove with me again..we dont talk and we cant find a conversation..
PLEASE HELP :'(


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maly answered Friday April 13 2012, 10:42 pm:
Well first don't go back to drinking, never turn to something that can harm you. Second, before you decide to get over him try having a conversation about this with him face to face and through having that conversation you'll be able to tell whether or not the relationship is done.
If it is done however, it will be difficult to get over him but take this time to talk to someone close about it and let your feelings out because if you keep your feelings bottled up inside you'll only feel worse, and if you just need to vent it doesn't matter if u know the person as long as you just let out your emotions and sometimes talking to someone you don't really know very well can be easier to do
But one of the best things to do to get over it would be to talk about it
And if you ever need anyone to vent to you can vent to me if you ever want to, I always check my inbox
I hope I helped you and that you will be ok just remember to think positive even if it seems hard to and always talk to get your feelings out
I hope all the best for you :)

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