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I am so very deeply in love with my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is such a beautiful and perfect lady. She is 28 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time and one of my main fantasies of course is having sex with her. I am wondering, what would happen if me and her had consensual sex? Would she still get in trouble even though it was 100% consensual? What if I went in front of the judge and said that I wanted whatever she did to me and to not punish her. What would happen then? Seriously. I'd be willing to get on my knees in front of the judge and beg and cry not to punish her. This is all hypothetical don't worry it won't actually happen. ALso I hear they go easier on females than males in these kinds of cases (link)
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It doesn't matter if you beg, plead, cry nothing. Because one, you're her student. And even if it was consesual, its rape. You are a minor, she is an adult. Legally, you haev to be within 4 years apart for it to not be rape. So no mattter what right noe\w, its rape, and what you say to a judge ont metter at all.
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I'm 16 years old and I had lost my virginity on December 22, 2012 and we had did it with a condem then when he was fin to come he took it off and pulled out when he came and after that I exprience bleeding from my vargina and I thought when he pop my cherry I bleed for three days then it stop and I'm scared that my period didn't come since I had sex and I'M read about early pregnant sydtom and I haven't exprience any of that but I'm having small cramps but not bleeding could I be pregnant I'm just scared of being a mother right now. (link)
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So...um..Hun, you should NOT be a mother. You're very right on that one. Let me give you some reasons why.
#1. You CAN'T spell at all.
#2. Your grammer is horrid.
#3. Think of helping your child with homework not to be a bitc but your child wouldnt know shit.
You say your 16, yet I have never met a 16 year old that has the reading/writing comprehension of a kindergartner. Sorry, but it's true. First things first. GET A PREGNANCY TEST, that is if you can read it. (:
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Im 13 and im suffering from rape since i was 9.I was bullied,raped,molested and threatened.I cried,cried and cried but no one hears my voice.I want to be like other children but i am not.I am a bad and dirty girl.I want to end my life and i will and i deserve it.Yesterday I was again raped.Is this why,I came in the world so that people use me like a disposiable toy. (link)
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Honestly, I think you need to tell someone.
Give me a call, I'll do my best to help you.
I am a girl, no worries.
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i want to suiside. plz help me what is the correct way to suiside myself without pain
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you are fucking stupid. suicide is not the way out, and you are not doing anything but hurting yourself and your loved ones,get help. Like go to the ER and tell them you wanna die
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i no longer want to live life but have a beautiful family i love. also court in a couple months people trying to stand over me n my fmily have people coming too my house trying to kick the door down have ran out of anyone i could call a friend as they all owe me money court most likely lookin at a jail term am thinkin i would be doin myself and others a favor byjus calling it a day n necking my self there are so many different fucked up situations going on jus cant deal with it!!! wat do i do? jus call it a day to have fucked up rollercoaster ride leading nowhere good for me or my family but minus me my family would be free of alot of these issues. (link)
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You really think you're helping your family by offing yourself over some bullshit problems that will be over soon? Like, im not trying to be rude/make it worse. but killing yyourself, is not taking anyones problems away but your own. your family will be traumatized, and if anything get worse. all you'd be doing is being selfish. Realize that you need to do what you need to do to get somewhere in life.
best of luck
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Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f (link)
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This IS rape. I actually had the same expirenece when i was younger. If you were not comfortable, and you said no, its rape. point blank. Also, forcible sexual assult. Punishment may vary state to state. Regardless, he will serve time for it.
report it, you dont deserve to be treated like dirt.
--Zoe(:
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HI. im 13 and i have been in love with this guy 4 like 4 years.This is the first year i finally had the guts to talk to him. At first i thought he did like me! but when i asked him and his friends asked him he said he only sees me as a friend, and now its definet he doesnt like me. I want to get over him. i have exams and more important things to worry about. please help. (link)
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Hey there,
I dont mean to sound like a total bitch, but hun, you are 13 years old like you said, and you have been in "love" with some boy for 4 years? That would make you 9 when it started. I dont think this is love like you claim. You're to young to even know what love is, this is a simple school girl crush. you will think your in love alot threw your years, so realize this, and move on.
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Okay so I'm fourteen female and one of my best friends is a girl and she's fifteen but we're both gonna be sophomores. Our other best friend Thomas is gonna be a junior guy. Just background stuff. ANyway, I just recently got dumped by this major douche bag who would always go around saying stuff like we "fucked every night" and lame things liek that. Well granted we did go far... but we never had sex... anyway me and my girl bff wanaa play a trick on thomas so were gonna pretend like we DID have sex and that I got preggers. It may sound lame, but trust me, if you know the situation and past conversations and all this other stuff, this is gonna be hilarious. So we already havee something that'll make this perfect. Becuase thomas and i are so close we talk about almost everything including periods (hahaha) anyway so I mentioned that I didn't have my period last month and thomas was like "oh, wierd" so we already have the perfect set up. Now the girl and I are wondering how to pull this off... Like how can we make this believeable? Itll be a quick joke, once we get him to believe us we'll tell him we're kidding. I don't care if yo think this is dumb, I guess you gotta be in my place. Thank you!! (link)
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Well, let me start by this is soo---o immature, and fucked up. I think you doing this it just show's you're an utter bitch, and this'll do nothing but sincerally fuck you over. I hope he drops you as a friend.
P.s.
Im only a few years older and this is messed, and will give you the WORST rep.
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hiw do u stretch to make your toe touches higher? (link)
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Hey (:
Im a cheerleader, and i fond just stretching your legs for about 20 minutes. It works. My toe touch is bomb (:
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My best friend Lyndsey committed suicide back in Novemeber, and it still feels as though it was just yesterday I was hanging out with her laughing and smiling. I can't get over it. Every day the memory that she's gone hurts the same, it never gets any less. She kept me going when I wanted to give up, and then she gave up.. I want to follow her too but I can't put my family thro that. But I need her. I've tried everything to ease the pain of her death, but nothing seems to work. I feel as though I lost my soulmate.. I was truly in love with her. If she hadn't been with someone at the time, we would've been together. And that's alot to say because I am straight.. but with her it was totally different. I don't know what I can do to stop the pain from coming upon me full force every single day. Anyone have any ideas? Please let me know! Thanks (link)
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How you hanging in, hun? I know exactly how you feel, and i also understand that pain is hard to be delt with. To be honest i have been threw this many times, i had a friend that commited suicide while i was with him. We where having fun laughing, smiling, and being just normal teens. He gave me hug said he loved me and that he had to go to the bathroom, i said ok. Then i heard a big BOOM, and i walked in and he was lying on the floor dead;.He shot himself. I was and am still emotionaly scarred. I want to tell you the pain goes away fast, but to be honest i have to say it doesn't. The pain will ease in time, i know your hurt, and probably really confused. But it was her un happyness. Im sorry that this has happened, But i promise it will all get easier in time. If you need to talk email me. k? roziesinlove@hotmail.com or text me. 1-801-7924798
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I'm cindy Im 16 years old i fell in love with ruben he told me he loved me and that he would wait fore me sins I still need to finish high school I'm in 9 grade and he's 12 grade and hes 18 years old but today he told me that he would not wait for me cuz we wonte get to see each other that much what do I do he told me he dos not love me anymore (link)
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Comiong from a girl who's been there, I honestly think he is not worth your tears, hun. If a guy wants to let you go because you wont get to see eachother much. it's his loss, not your's, that just mean that he wasn't THE one. Witch mean's mister right is out there, and you WILL find him (:. SO dont stress this guy, not only was he to old for you, he wasnt devoted. He probably did love you, but wasnt IN love with you,if you know what i mean. But don't worry hun, life goes on.
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After a facial piercing heals, are you able to take it out for 8-10 hours a day, or do you have to leave it in almost constantly to keep it from closing? If you can do this, how long does it take for a piercing to get to the point where you can take it out for 8 hours at a time? If it is different for different piercings, answer for a "Monroe" please. Thank you very much in advance! (link)
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Well i have 27 piecings lol.
And with monroes, you have to leave them in for about 2 months before taking them out days at a time, because they tend to heal faster then most. (:
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do you get pregnant if your condom breaks but you didnt cum alot. (link)
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Yes, deary. You will get pregnate, becasue although you didnt cum much, there is a very high possibility that you will get pregante.
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so me and my gf have been going out for a year yesterday. we had celebrated our one year. we have had sex alot. but she dosent seem to cum or have an orgasim, she says that she feels like shes about to but it just dosent happen. i need to know what to do...my cusin told me that its just cause she lacks muscle mass in her vignia , is there a way to gain muscle mass? (link)
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Okay well, honestly, it has nothing too do with mustle muss. It's just that she doesn't get enough plessure in the sex you guy's are having, try adding something new into your guy's intercorse...Like eat her out but put somthing on her and like lick it off not only will it get her moaning, it will get her too cum because of the tecture. Hope i helped :) let me know :)
Love alway's,
Bubble2Gum
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if a guy has semen on his fingers, then fingers a girl , can she get pregnent ? (link)
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Yes the semen with travel from your vagina with was place there from the finger and go to the eggs making u prego!!!!!!
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I feel like I am the only teenager (18) who has not had sex yet, or even go pass first base. I don't believe in sex after marriage, but i think its sad how teenagers (15,16, etc) have sex so young. And people say because it's fun, but I feel that losing your viriginity is much more then just having sex you know? But why do people have sex at such a young age or if they are not even that far in a relationship (like 4 months). I'm just curious, about people's personal experiences. Regrets no regrets etc and why they lost their viriginity at such a young age. (link)
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Yeah i see what you mean. I mean hey i lost my verginity at the age of 14 wich was only 5 years ago. So im only a year older than you. I wouldn't worry if you do what i did than you will regret it. i mean there are so many things that could happen you could get a transmited thing or you could get pregnat even if you are protected. so please dont worry about your doing the right thing.
Love always,
Bubble2Gum
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im bi and i want a boyfriend! but no one knows it and the people who are gay at my school im not attracted to at all! im not into femine guys im mre into guys who are stright but arent because thats how iam and i feel that i wouldnt be able to relate with someone diffrent! and i really wnat someone???? (link)
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I guess all you can do is wait for the right guy. I mean i am bi and when i told the guys it just made them want me more beacuase guys are attracted to that but uts ok it just takes time hope i helped :D
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well me and this one girl, have known each other for about 3 years or so. and we've went out, lasted pretty long. but then we get in a fight or somethin, or her parents get involved and we break up. but i still love her. but... she got a new boyfriend and is suppose to love him and got over me. well the other day i found a neckless i had bought her but never gave to her, so i just gave it to her the next day. so i gave it to her, she said she loved it, wore it all day. and we're kinda talkin now. but i wanna know how i get her back, or do i just need to move on.
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Hey,
Okay well it sounds like you really loved her. And she really loved you. But i guess that since she moved on she might be with this guy for a while. And i mean this is young love you will have many different girlfriends threw out your life and she is just one you will find someone who you will love so much more and be with for so much longer. i hope i helped in some way. Comment me back and tell how it goes.
Love always,
Bubble2GUm
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ok i want to masturbate ive tried it before but it didnt give me pleasure for a very long time and i dont have anything that vibrates what should i use? please help (link)
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Okay well 1st off guy or girl ? If your a girl then use a shower head like turn it on and point it twords your vagina. If your a guy then get a sock and and you put penis in it and act as if your having sex.
hope i helped.
love always,
Bubble2Gum
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i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.
nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly. (link)
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How ya hanging in ?? I know how you feel because all though im only in seventh grade, i was molested as i a child up to about two months ago.
And i know how it feel's when you think back to what happened its scary and you think it it'll happen agian but you really need to tell someone becuase if you dont , no one will be able to do anything about and you also wont feel as scared if you tell someone. And trust me you dont wanna die because think how much you have to live for. ALOT! but anyways i hope i helped comment back on how you like this advice.
Love always,
Bubble2Gum
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