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What would happen if my me and my teacher had consensual sex?
I am so very deeply in love with my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is such a beautiful and perfect lady. She is 28 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time and one of my main fantasies of course is having sex with her. I am wondering, what would happen if me and her had consensual sex? Would she still get in trouble even though it was 100% consensual? What if I went in front of the judge and said that I wanted whatever she did to me and to not punish her. What would happen then? Seriously. I'd be willing to get on my knees in front of the judge and beg and cry not to punish her. This is all hypothetical don't worry it won't actually happen. ALso I hear they go easier on females than males in these kinds of cases
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The law is very strict on this matter. While you are at school she is bound by law to protect your interests as your parents would at home. In the eyes of the law as the teacher she would probably get suspended pending further investigation.
Also you have not mentioned if she likes you back, I understand with the law in place she cannot say either way until you leave school and are no longer under her care and responsibility.
You are not far from school leaving age, perhaps wait until your time at school is over before considering a sexual relationship with her?
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It doesn't matter if you beg, plead, cry nothing. Because one, you're her student. And even if it was consesual, its rape. You are a minor, she is an adult. Legally, you haev to be within 4 years apart for it to not be rape. So no mattter what right noew, its rape, and what you say to a judge ont metter at all.
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Everyone else has covered the legal aspects, so I'll just agree with them.
As for "going easier", I can tell you that they don't. Absolutely not. My parents lived next to a female teacher who had a long-term affair with an underage student. During the lead-up and during her trial, her character was mercilessly dissected. Embarrassingly public details came out about her body. She was vilified and made into a public object of disgust.
If you like your teacher, you won't put her in a position like this. If she's a halfway decent person, she won't be interested (it's highly unethical even if it was legal)
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She would be facing serious jail time and would loose her job. Doesn't matter if it was consensual or not, You are a minor and a student. As a teacher she has authority over you and teacher/student relationships are completely unacceptable. It is very possible you could also be put in a juvenile facility.
Your teacher would face rape charges, lewd acts upon a minor and many other things.
It is a serious crime and not acceptable
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I'm an aspiring Law student and I can tell you right off the title of this question that it does not matter if it is consensual as long as you are a minor. I can assure you that if you had sex with her she would go to jail. Regardless of the gender of the teacher the conviction will most likely be of the same gravity. It would cause you to go through a great deal of trouble. I advice you to keep it as just a dream and find someone your age. This is just a face I promise
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It's illegal and no moral. She would go to jail for sure and you would need psychiatric counseling to see how wrong this is and move on with your life.
There is ZERO consent involved here about this. You're still 16 and a child.
If 18-years-old you would be seen as an adult but aren't. And even still it would be wrong and a breach of every ethics associated with her profession.
It's okay to have this as a fantasy but it crosses the line big time if you actively try to bring it into existence which you haven't. Whether male or female if you do this with an underage student a judge won't look nicely on you. People can and do go to jail and bloody deserve it for having done this with kids. Too many high-profile cases to even mention.
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