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Getting over a guy
HI. im 13 and i have been in love with this guy 4 like 4 years.This is the first year i finally had the guts to talk to him. At first i thought he did like me! but when i asked him and his friends asked him he said he only sees me as a friend, and now its definet he doesnt like me. I want to get over him. i have exams and more important things to worry about. please help.
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You're 13, you shouldnt be affect by this kind of stuff yet. I know you probably hear it alot, but once you get older, you will understand, I am 100 per cent sure of it.
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Well firstly its great that you want to get over this guy.
I bet theres been times in school where he's walked past and completely blanked you right?
You need to try and write down a list of things that he has done to you that hurt you, and everytime you think of him, read the list. Eventually, you'll know the list off by heart, and you'll see him in a different light.
However, if there havn't really been anytimes when he's hurt you, then think of this:
He hurt you how he told you he didn't like you. He hurt you how he told his friends he didn't like you. And he hurt you enough so that you had to come on here and actually ask for help.
You're only thirteen, there will be probobly numerous guys out there that would love to have you're attention, and feel the same way back.
Good luck-and inbox me if you need more help :)
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Hey there,
I dont mean to sound like a total bitch, but hun, you are 13 years old like you said, and you have been in "love" with some boy for 4 years? That would make you 9 when it started. I dont think this is love like you claim. You're to young to even know what love is, this is a simple school girl crush. you will think your in love alot threw your years, so realize this, and move on.
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