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how do i get a boyfriend when i havent met anyone who is lik
im bi and i want a boyfriend! but no one knows it and the people who are gay at my school im not attracted to at all! im not into femine guys im mre into guys who are stright but arent because thats how iam and i feel that i wouldnt be able to relate with someone diffrent! and i really wnat someone????
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There are probably a lot more bisexual or gay guys at your school than you realise - particularly as guys who aren't so flamboyant might not attract as much attention.
If you feel afraid you wouldn't be able to relate to someone different than you, I think you might want to consider checking that out. Not that you have to date one of the guys you talk about, but maybe see what you've got in common, and if you feel any attraction.
If you still feel you want a more 'butch' kind of guy, then you may have to keep your eyes, ears, and heart open. It might be worth seeing if local high schools or universities have bi/gay social groups, which will allow you to meet a wider range of people.
It can be difficult to find a same-sex partner - all the normal issues of trying to find someone you like, but complicated by wondering who else might be bi/gay. Be patient, try to speak to new people, and perhaps see what else is available in your local area.
I wish you the best.
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I guess all you can do is wait for the right guy. I mean i am bi and when i told the guys it just made them want me more beacuase guys are attracted to that but uts ok it just takes time hope i helped :D
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