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What should I do after being raped?
Im 13 and im suffering from rape since i was 9.I was bullied,raped,molested and threatened.I cried,cried and cried but no one hears my voice.I want to be like other children but i am not.I am a bad and dirty girl.I want to end my life and i will and i deserve it.Yesterday I was again raped.Is this why,I came in the world so that people use me like a disposiable toy.
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I know what you are going through is tough because I was molested when I was 5 years old by my dad and it's a terrible situation to be in but I assure you this is not your fault and you are not bad and you are not dirty you have just been treated like crap and this needs to stop now. please call 911 and if you are to scared to call the police then tell a trusted teacher or adult that will help you and they will call the police for you and this will stop . If you ever need anyone to talk to you can feel free to email me at savedwithgrace_12@yahoo.com and you can tell me . please call 911 or tell a trusted teacher or adult and remember God loves you and this is not what you came into this world for to be treated this way and it needs to be stopped . remember if you need someone to talk to about this I am here for you and I will reply to your email .
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You are a precious child of God.
What has been happening to you is not your fault.
You are beautiful and worth so much more than this.
By blaming yourself you are letting the abuser win.
Do not let them win. This is their fault, not yours.
You do need to call 911 though, and I hope you have already.
Don't do it in front of the person who is abusing you though, as that might lead to more problems.
I am a 911 dispatcher and I can assure you that the person who answers the phone when you call 911 will help you to the best of their ability.
Everything remains confidential so no one else (Other than the officers) will know any of the details. They will keep it a secret for you.
Everything will be okay. You are loved from me here in Texas. If you need anything just send me a message to my inbox. <3 Stay strong
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I am so, so sorry you have suffered as you have. N this is not the reason you were brought into this world. I am old enough to be your grandfather and I am going to offer you some advice and support to help you.
It sounds more like you are being molested, I can only guess by whom and it doesn't really matter who. What matters is that it has happened and it has to stop today.
The quickest way to stop this is to call 911 and tell the call taker what you have told us. The police will come to your house and protect you from whoever is doing this. You are a victim, no matter what your abuser may be telling you, you are the victim and the police will protect you. So call 911 now.
Have whatever clothes you were wearing at the time or the bed sheets, ready for them as they as they will want them. Hopefully they have not been laundered yet.
Once you have called the police and you are old enough to do so do not let anyone tell you different. I would like you to call another number to some people that can help you get past this.
The name of the organization I want you to call is RAINN. RAINN stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. They operate a hotline which is open 24/7 365. It works as follows: When a caller dials 1.800.656.HOPE, a computer notes the area code and first three digits of the caller's phone number. The call is then instantaneously connected to the nearest RAINN member center. If all counselors at that center are busy, the call is sent to the next closest center. The caller's phone number is not retained, so the call is anonymous and confidential unless the caller chooses to share personally-identifying information.
Everything you share with the counselors is confidential unless you tell them differently. They will help you find trained professional people to work with you. So that the horror of what happened to you is put behind you in a proper manor so that you may get on with your life.
What you have gone through is wrong, it has happened and you are a victim. You can't just ignore this and get on with your life or it will haunt you. With the proper help you can put it behind you. This is what RAINN and there crisis centers help you with. Finding the right help and if need be helping you report this crime.
Yes whoever has done this to you has committed a crime regardless of their age or relationship to you. It is crime they need to be punished for and that is why you must call the police.
Regardless of what he may have said to you; the police will take whatever you tell them very seriously and protect you and anyone else he may have threatened to make you comply. So call 911 then call RAINN.
Those who have hurt you will be punished. It starts with just one phone call. Be brave and make that call. Call 911
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I dont trust anyone......even not on myself.....
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Honestly, I think you need to tell someone.
Give me a call, I'll do my best to help you.
I am a girl, no worries.
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You NEED to tell someone who did it, how long they have done it for and have that person contact authorities for you to arrest that person. It doesn't matter if the molester is family or not they need help and you need to be free of it.
The best thing you can do is tell your teacher privately that you have been molested since you were 9-years-old and by the same person but your family hasn't done anything about it (from the sounds of your letter anyways) Mention the threats and bullying.
They will go to the authorities and make sure you are free of this crap. This is what they are trained to know how to do. Next, you do have a ton to live for but need counseling and support to understand this after such a hellish situation.
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