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Question Posted Wednesday January 2 2013, 1:06 pm

So ive been meeting this lad for nearly a year nw. I really like him and ive asked him to go out with me but he says no because he isnt a happy person and doesnt want to hurt me. Ive tried to stop meeting him but I cant. What should I do?

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ieatjello answered Sunday January 6 2013, 3:43 am:
You can't force someone to like you, that's for sure. If you can't, maybe you should keep trying to talk it out with him and maybe that'll break the ice.
I know it's kind of hard to let go of people, but this can be Plan B. If it truly doesn't work out, I honestly suggest you move on to someone who's more suitable for you.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday January 3 2013, 12:17 pm:
I know that you like him but you can't force him to go out with you. Give him some time and maybe he'll come around, but for now you have to do what's best for him, and ultimately you, and leave him alone. He old you straight up that he doesn't want to be with you because he's an unhappy person.. All you can do is be there for him, tell him you'll wait for him (if you want to) for a little bit but not forever, that you could make him happy, but that you'll let him be until (if) he ever comes around to the idea of being with you.
Hope I helped ! Good luck, xxo

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