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'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant? (link)
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Depends what pill she took...was it a Plan B? Most likely she won't be pregnant if she took Plan B immediately. Next time when you want to finger a girl, make sure you wash your hands first and avoid her genitals if you touched yours first so you can avoid these pregnancy scares.
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I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do (link)
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Well it depends on how old you are. If you are in high school, just get social media and protect your privacy through the settings. Parents may be hesitant because they don't want creepers stealing your personal information. Always be careful with what you post on the internet and you will be fine.
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I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again? (link)
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I know you wanna give your all to the guy you love but sometimes, if you give everything, then later on, you won't really have anything else to give and spoiling them too much will make them less appreciative of the things you do. As for the next lucky guy in your future, just be there for him but don't give everything away, like spending on super expensive gifts....stuff like that. Hearts will be broken sometimes but ya know, life isn't perfect and it won't always go your way. You still need to remain strong on your morals and beliefs though because giving that up for a guy is affecting you more than it is affecting a guy. Be there for your next guy but have your own mind on things and independence.
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How can i make my girlfriend make sex with me (link)
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You can't force someone to have sex with you. You need to learn to respect her body and when she's willing to have sex with you, she will. If you are only in for the sex, I would say that the relationship isn't worth saving. You can mention the topic to her and she how she reacts, but remember, you still need to respect her body and ask for consent first. Use protection!
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I havnent been able to sleep very well for the past week, and when I do it's maybe 5 hours a night with me waking up every 45 minutes in that time span. What should I do to get some sleep? (link)
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Maybe you can try drinking a warm cup of milk at night before you go to bed. Normally that helps for me. You can try to tire yourself out more by reading right before you go to sleep or have physical exercise during the day. Just find something that can help you relax and be stress-free, or have a beditme ritual (like for me, cup of warm milk, read, turn on some peaceful music, and sleep). If this problem goes on for another week, I think you should see a doctor about it, but you are most likely just stressed out.
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ok, so thats me, the one with the girl hating my guts. I couldnt log into my account, so i had to reset amd i just used a quick account, but, the girl (L) will crumple up my notes when i send them to her, and shes been pissed now for about 4 months. And is anerexsia really that serious? She needs professional help? :0 (link)
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She's anorexic? Well from my experience, a girl's gotta eat or else she will be pissy and bitchy all day long. Anorexia is pretty serious because if you go about your life not eating, you can die. A body needs food for nutrients to keep the body functioning. Don't need professional help but some help and guidance is fine. Anyways, if she crumples up your notes when you send them to her all the time, I think you should consider not giving her your notes then. If she's so rude, it would be better if you just keep your distance and avoid trouble.
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I recently started school again (2 weeks ago)and i am feeling extremely tired. My teachers give us a lot of homework and we have many tests.I'm finding it hard to keep up and i'm not being able to concentrate enough, i'm very forgetful and yesterday i woke up with a pain in my right calf which is still there.I also feel like crying for no reason. I feel so trapped and overwhelmed i don't know what to do.
P.s I'm in the 8th grade and i live in India (link)
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It's normal to feel stressed over a heavy workload. Wait til you reach high school though, it gets worse so you might as well just suck it up now and endure the rigor of your education. If you have a hard time concentrating, give your brain some rest and just relax - fresh air, water, exercise/stretch, or whatever you need to do to relax. Also, learn to prioritize your work and set a work schedule for yourself. This will help you create more efficiency with homework, studying for tests, and your free time.
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how do i address him about this? do i ignore it and pretend it never happened? what was he thinking about me laying my head in his lap that turned him on? (link)
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My boyfriend gets a boner whenever he's around me and I notice that he tries to hide it sometimes. It's okay, it's normal and he's probably just thinking a little dirty with every physical touch you give him. For me, I like to mention it and joke around about it a little. If you guys are comfortable about it, it most likely won't do harm to mention it.
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I'm Male, 19 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 16 months. We're both virgins. Lately, since I started working, I've had the temptation to just go out and cheat. I'm always super horny and fantasizing about doing stuff with other girls. I love my girlfriend and I feel super guilty for wanting to cheat. We never really do anything besides kiss. I don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want, and I don't pressure her. But she'll do stuff that hints that she wants to do something, then doesn't do it. Like sometimes we'll be sitting and she'll grab me and/or stroke me for a few seconds then stop. Sometimes she'll put my hand on her crotch so I could rub, but we never go any further. I work at a busy place in nyc, so I'm always seeing and meeting nice attractive girls. I always fantasize on my train commute too. Like everyday. Sometimes I even wonder about calling an escort, but I don't want to mess up. (link)
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Your girlfriend sounds nervous about taking the relationship to the next level, which is perfectly normal since she is inexperienced. It's good that you respect her space. It's also normal for you to be horny because of your biological needs but it would be wrong to cheat on her.
If you want to sleep around with girls, then I suggest you talk to her about it and if she's not willing to get physical with you, it would be best to break up. If you are willing to commit to her and care for her despite not getting physical, then stay with her and respect what she wants. Relationships aren't always about the physical stuff - there are still other things to do as a couple.
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I'm a freshman , and I've been searching online for good colleges and i just need someone who attended or have seen CUNY : Brooklyn College to tell me is it good or bad ? , and does it have Computer Science ?
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Freshman in high school? Glad you're starting early then! Anyways, I'm not attending that school but I did visit the school while I was in New York. Yes, it is a good school, but I personally didn't really feel like it was the school for me. Go and visit the school for yourself because everyone has a different opinion. Yes the college has computer science. You can google the school and find out more about the programs they have to offer. Generally, the majors they provide are listed under the "Academics" tab so go check it out.
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Give your best college advice (link)
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Try to enjoy every moment of it, whether good or bad because you will never get to experience something like this ever again. Meet new people and make friends with people who you want to have lifelong relationships with. Keep your balance with academics and partying. Create or join a study group so studying will be less boring. Save money. But remember to try to have fun.
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so long story short, i liked this guy from 6th grade till around early this year (im now in 9th grade) and i got over really quickly because a month before i got over him and found out what an ass he was, i started getting these feelings from this other guy. and let's just say he was the main reason why i got over the other guy so quickly. and eventually my feelings for him started to grow and grow and he found out that i like him and he was really sweet about it until a month later when he told my best friend that he would never ever date me... which really broke me because i went through a lot those 2 months. anyways, after he told my best friend that everything changed... he would get closer to me like be around me but not talk to me and he would stare at me A LOT. as in a lot i mean whenever i see him in the halls and he sees me, he stares and doesn't break eye contact... it's as if he doesn't care if i know that he's staring. whenever i'm at lunch or something, my friends would keep on telling me that he's staring or glancing at me. but we haven't spoken since may because he decided to say "hi" to me in the hallway a few days after he said he'd never ever date me. so how can i ignore him? whenever he does get around me or somehow is near me, i get pissed and frustrated but at the same time im jumping around and my heart is beating extremely fast. i've tried to get over him multiple times but whenever he stares at me... i just go back and i can't help it. he is kinda friends with 2 of my friends and his little group is associated with mine but i'm not really 'friends' with them or him. plus the only way i realty stop liking someone is by having a new interest in other guys and i just don't like any other guy at my school... like school ends monday (and you're prob like yay now you wont have to face him anymore) but i'm going to miss him and being around him in the summer. and what if i still like him next year? i tend to get attached to someone easily and once i am, it's for awhile... (i've had a bit history with this guy too. i liked him back in 6th grade before the other guy and he kinda found out i liked him back then from someone and yeah he confronted me about it and yeah... he was a douche when i liked him but when i stopped liking him and liked the other guy, he was nice to me and we became friends and we had nicknames and ugh but then after 6th grade we drifted but we'd occasionally say hi and all but that stopped in may...) i just really have no idea how to get over him. im literally going to think about him all summer and mope about him (link)
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You're still young so you shouldn't be too worried about dating relationships right now. But if you wanna keep your mind off him, just focus on yourself. Work on improving yourself, whether it is your attitude or your interests, etc. Just do anything to keep yourself busy and go out and hang with friends who make you happy.
Since you're in high school, you should seriously just focus on your academics and extracurriculars because then, you will be less worried about having boyfriends.
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I was on Instagram and came across a comment. It read:
"If you stop reading this your going to die. I am teresa fidalgo if you don't repost this on 20 photos I will sleep with you forever. This girl ignored an her mom died 29 days later and its true. You can search me on google". I posted that on 20 photos because I was so scared. I still am. I'm so scared and I don't know why. I searched the girl's name and saw a picture and immediently clicked out. I didn't read the story because I was so frightened... What should I do?? Is this normal? Please oh please help me. (link)
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Ignore and delete the comment because that's just spam. I used to get those messages in chain mails when I was younger and I believed those messages because I thought it was real. And then I realized I was being dumb and I started ignoring these messages and honestly, I'm still fine today.
Just ignore, someone is just out there to scare you but these things are fake.
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I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
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Nobody can make you happy, except you. You need to create your own happiness. Go out there and life your life and do what you want to do. Stop living with your elder sister. Can you financially support yourself? If you answer yes, move out. Seriously, you need to stop living under restricting circumstances. You don't deserve to end your life because life is a beautiful gift, and you should use your life with potential. You are 23, an adult; you need to learn to find your own independence because your mom can't take care of you forever. But please, do not kill yourself. It's not worth it. It may end your pain, but it will create pain for your loved ones. It may be hard to believe, but just trust me on this. Get a job if you don't already have one, move out and find a nice home for yourself, do what you like to do to keep yourself happy, live life!
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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It's just a threat so he can get more from you, but honestly, you shouldn't have sent nudes in the first place. The social networking life is pretty dangerous if you are releasing anything personal to people, especially since once you send it, you can never get it back. You could ignore him, in hope that he will leave you alone.
Does he know you in real life? Because if he doesn't know you in real life, idk how he would have contact with your friends.
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i just joined my sports team and we started our workouts for the summer three days ago and we have only had 3 practices, my coach just sent out the emails saying i made the team but i was thinking about it and i really dont want to play... i really respect my coach and dont know how to tell her that i just dont want to play because i know i would bring the team down because i am just not good nor will i enjoy it. if you had any advice on how to tell her, if i should email or have a face to face convo, or just what i should say it would really help out thanks! (link)
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Well if you made the team, then you must be pretty good and I suggest you just stay on the team. If you don't want to be on the team, then you should just be straight up about it but you need a good reason to back out, otherwise, there was no point in you trying out for the team in the first place. You should just say that you have other committed priorities over the summer. Email should be good enough. But honestly, I don't think you should quit a team just because you don't think you're good enough to bring the team to victory. You made the team, there's a reason you made the team and you should be happy :)
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So what can it possibly mean that my ex keeps checking each and every snapchat story update I have? (link)
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That doesn't mean anything...you did post your snaps on your story so it's meant for people to look at so why not?
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In about September or October, I had my first period. Ever since, I've had my period every other month. I can't remember the last time my period was. I'm a virgin, but for some reason I feel like i'm pregnant. It's weird. But is it abnormal to get your period every other month? (link)
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Since you're just getting started with your period, this is totally normally. Your body and hormones are adjusting to the changes that are developing so it's fine to have irregular periods.
I know the feeling of pregnancy, but don't worry about it too much. Thinking about it too much will make your brain fool itself into thinking your body is pregnant. For me, my period doesn't come every month but rather every three months...at first I was really freaked out but I learned about my cycle later on.
Be sure to mark on the calendar when your period starts and stops; that way you know how often your period will come.
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Is it possible to get a rental car with 100$ in NYC? (link)
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Yeah, I guess you could, but it really depends on how long you will be staying in NYC. Normally, rentals cost about $20-$30 a day. I suggest you google the prices and if you find a cheap price, reserve the price so when you arrive at the car rental place, things will be a lot easier because rental prices change frequently. Check out Thrifty, Payless, or some other companies. The two companies I listed generally have reasonably affordable prices and they provide newer cars so it should be reliable.
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What are the best places you have found to shop for clothes online? I don't really know which sites to trust. I mean, do you only buy from places that you have near you so you can go in if your order is messed up, or can you buy from stores that aren't in your area and still do ok? (link)
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You should check out Nordstrom because their styles of clothing is always up to date and there's free shipping. If you don't like the clothes you ordered from online, just ship it back, FOR FREE! Or you can go to their retail store department too. A lot of people like shopping on the site because of its convenience.
Also check out ASOS. They have tons of clothing to choose from and shopping on that site can be endless because of their great amount of unique, stylish clothing selections.
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