My name is Emily. My friends usually turn to me for advice. So I decided to start one of these. I am a christian and base my beliefs off of God.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 13
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14/f ( SOOO SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I NEED THE HELP)
PLEASE AND THANKS
im known to be dumb like acting stupid but we all have our "dumb" moments. Anyways im not good at spanish at all and my "bestfriend" is and so is everyone else at my table in class. Anyways they always think of me as the stupid one and it doesnt bother me usually cause i know there joking. But now we are doing a project in spanish about honduras cultures and im like what do you want me to do? they are like nothing nadine im like fine then dont whine if you say you guys did all the work. Then i went to the library and i thought it would be cool to grab song information on honduras so i could at least be doing something and there like NO THEY WONT HELP YOU ITS PROBABLY A STUPID BOOK and then they got all the information using my book and then there like ok you can print out pictures and so will mike( kid working in our group ) im like why two people we have so much else to do? and there like because you wont do it im like what the heck i will do my own project give me my book and all the information and there all arguing blaming me and calling me stupid
i feel like EXTREMELY horrible//sad//and upset and there like supposed to be my friends and ive known this girl since 2nd grade! i mean thats so mean. i told them to stop calling me stupid but they wont take me seriously
How can i make them take me seriously im like crying. If only you know how this feels. NO ONE thinks im smart and everytime i try to prove them wrong it ends up going worse! and now i cant even find stupid pictures on honduras cultures/food//clothes/natural attractions and im starting to really believe im stupid!
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no one deserves to be treated like that. just tell your friends exactly how you feel. tell them how you are so hurt by what they are saying. get your point across. if they dont stop after you tell them your heart then they arent true friends and their oppinions dont matter. dont let it hurt you. you arent stupid. you just have to have self esteem and just blow off what they say.
hope i helped
message back if you have anymore questions
-love emily
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lately i've been so confused and alone. i've tried everything, and i've even started to think that i'm depressed, but i can't think of a way to talk to my parents or friends about it because i've been known to be the "good" one who's life doesn't suck and that my life is the best. But no one knows how hard it is, to keep up an image, to always be happy and care. it's difficult, there are times i wish that i came from a family that had more difficutlies... because since my life has been decient with no big issues, whenever some small argument starts up i get hurt so bad and i know that it's such a little thing but my body gets all worked up about it. i don't know what to do about it, i can't tell my parents because they expect me to be everything and a bag of chips plus they'd be ubber dissapointed. i'm so lost and confused and i don't know who to talk to. What could i do? (link)
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If you believe in a god, turn to him. I've always found that to be most helpful. If you need to talk to someone... talk to a friend you just met who doesnt know about you well. I always do that. I feel like they are less likely to judge and that even if they do judge me i wont be as hurt as it by what a close friend felt about what i had to say. Close friends are always willing to listen to. Brothers and sisters as well.
Try journaling! I love my diary. If i have a secret thats bothering me but i'd never tell, i tell my journal. It doesnt talk back yet i feel like all my problems are solved... Or try turning it into a skit or a song if your an artistic person. Draw it or express it somehow.
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well i have a boyfriend. and hes reallly clingy and i dont like him that much anymore. hes so sweet but idk. i just dont know how to dump him bc i would feel so bad and bc he has a class with me and it would be awkward. whatt do i do (link)
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It sounds like you see him more as a friend. Sweet guys are perfect for guy friends so you can go to them with all your problems without having to worry about them being too attached. Tell him you feel like he is a friend and don't want to keep dating him if you don't feel the same way... things might be awkward when you first break up. they usually are. but i promise if he is a sweet guy like you said, yall will be friends again in no time... and then you get to be single and free to flirt with other boys! that's always my favorite part. Panokio after he gets his strings taken off.
hope i helped! send another if your still in trouble. or I.M. me.
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