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they call me stupid
14/f ( SOOO SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I NEED THE HELP)
PLEASE AND THANKS
im known to be dumb like acting stupid but we all have our "dumb" moments. Anyways im not good at spanish at all and my "bestfriend" is and so is everyone else at my table in class. Anyways they always think of me as the stupid one and it doesnt bother me usually cause i know there joking. But now we are doing a project in spanish about honduras cultures and im like what do you want me to do? they are like nothing nadine im like fine then dont whine if you say you guys did all the work. Then i went to the library and i thought it would be cool to grab song information on honduras so i could at least be doing something and there like NO THEY WONT HELP YOU ITS PROBABLY A STUPID BOOK and then they got all the information using my book and then there like ok you can print out pictures and so will mike( kid working in our group ) im like why two people we have so much else to do? and there like because you wont do it im like what the heck i will do my own project give me my book and all the information and there all arguing blaming me and calling me stupid
i feel like EXTREMELY horrible//sad//and upset and there like supposed to be my friends and ive known this girl since 2nd grade! i mean thats so mean. i told them to stop calling me stupid but they wont take me seriously
How can i make them take me seriously im like crying. If only you know how this feels. NO ONE thinks im smart and everytime i try to prove them wrong it ends up going worse! and now i cant even find stupid pictures on honduras cultures/food//clothes/natural attractions and im starting to really believe im stupid!
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It's okay to feel the way you do. But as long as you know you're smart, it doesn't matter. I have some dumb moments too, so don't feel bad that no one takes you seriously. You're not really alone. My friends/family basically tell me not to talk cause I'm bound to make an idiot of myself when I speak. But I just deal because I know that nothing I say will change their minds. I mean, my usual solution to this would be to stop hanging out with them, but since you're doing a project together, finish the project. And then when the project is done, find some friends who will love you for you. Dumb moments & all. =)
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Well you dont sound stupid to me. I know exaclt how you feel, I swear, it must be one of the most aweful feelings ever.
What I think you should do is just tell them striaght up that you want some real work and PROMISE that you will come through.
Then do an awesome job and prove them all wrong, work extra hard.
Good Luck, I hope it all works out well for you.
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no one deserves to be treated like that. just tell your friends exactly how you feel. tell them how you are so hurt by what they are saying. get your point across. if they dont stop after you tell them your heart then they arent true friends and their oppinions dont matter. dont let it hurt you. you arent stupid. you just have to have self esteem and just blow off what they say.
hope i helped
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-love emily
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