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is it ok if i...he......she.....=/
hey well hopefully this isint so confusing...
mmm ok well i like this one guy and im thinking that i might give up hopes on him you know..well theres this other guy miguel who ive been known&he iz trying to go out with me but then my friend kindah has a crush on him...i mean were not like omg best friends or anything shes just a girl in my 5th period class whom i talk to whenever i see her but we dont hang out or anything...well anyways i told her about the guy liking me so she wouldnt get her hopes up for nothing but the thing is that she says its ok and that i should go for it but i still feel kind of messed up if i do decide to go with him `yadameaniiez?! she says it kool if i go for it&dat she will get over it but something compared to that happened with me and one of my closest friends&my ex who i really really liked...would it be the same thing?? because if shes going to feel as fucked up as i felt i dont want to put her through that yu know!!
*ugh* plz tell me what should i do??
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If you like him, and she gave you the go ahead, that should be kept as a sign to go for it. If she's hurt, yeah, you'll feel bad, but it'd be her fault for telling you a lie. Basically, just go for it if you like him.
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Firstly, I have to say it's really nice that you have so much compassion towards her feeling even though you don't know her all that well and by what you have experienced in your past. It's not something I see often and is always a nice thing to see. :]
She may actually be sincere in what she said and that it doesn't matter to her at all and that she would get over it.
You could try and talk to her about it. I think that may be the best option here short of going byy what she said and just going for this other guy. In talking to her you could tell her your fear and how it's not something you want happening to her so you want to be sure she's okay with it.
Good luck.
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hey if i were you this is what i would do, i would maybe ask miguel if he's sure that he likes you and not this other girl. If he says that he likes you and this isn't just like a fling then i would go for it... think about it if you didn't go out with him i dont think that would change how he feels about this other girl so either way she doesnt get to be with miguel unless he is the type of person who likes to jump around alot and date alot of different girls and in this case i would stay away..hope i helped!
-katie
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