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My dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me.
My name is amber. I am 16 years old. I live im a trailer with both my mom and dad, my 10 year old bother, my nana stays with us because she is sick, and my uncle walter lives with us, and my uncle alex is just staying with us although he has his own apartment. Alex doesnt even need to be here. Alex is always butting his nose is answering for my parents every time i ask my parents a question. I have absolutly no privacy with either of my parents. Not only that but my dad has became Extremely Verbaly Abbusive to me. He calls me a bitch and a whore all the time. He also calls me a reject. and says " no wonder why nobody likes you". He also has stop saying "i love you" to me. I feel like i have no one. No one wants me and im just a random person that doesnt belong. what should i do?
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no one ever to exist is in any way worthless, and you certainly are not in anyway any of those things.Even if you think you are, hes just exagerating.your dad loves you and is probably frustrated withall those people hes living with.privacys hard to find espicially with the internet and shcool.your not alone, my dad is like this too. he calls me cutter emo ugly zombie goth freak outcast athiest friendless, and i try top let it bounce off, but no matter who says it, its gonna hurt.bounce bach show them that yous are th smart girl you are by not letting this bug you.find your comfort be it an activity or someone to talk to,any thing helps, but not drugs thats a cusion that will only make this worse.
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You know what... I wanna.give you the textbook advice
..like "its not that bad" " you'll make it through" and let God be your rock"... but you know as well as I do... that no one saves us from feeling the we feel... and no saves us from others treating us bad... there indeed is a reason why we go through the things we do... most of the time its our own damn fault... but sometimes.... its other people.... your 16 now... time to start investing your time elsewhere... preferably into a "job"... its not my favorite recommendation... but change will not get to your Dad without some type of revleation... and even if he does get one... he has to accept and implement it... This may be tough to bear... but hopefully for a moment... you need to put.yourself in a position (emotionally and financially) to support yourself away ftom "under his roof".... children only escape their parents by becoming adults....which takes on many forms... nonetheless the sentiments is accurate... Im sorry the love you once had is lost... try to talk to him. if that a closed door? start thinking and implementing why that sunlight still lingers through your window.... only you can really know what you can handle... Hope yhis help
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