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how to commit suicide when youre scared of it


Question Posted Friday May 11 2012, 4:09 am

I have been battling suicide for as long as i can remember. It started because i was being abused by my brother and i had parents who didnt help me or support me when i tried seeking help.
My only outlet was self harm and taking my friends left over valium.
Neither seem to help block it out anymore. I have no coping resources and ive always felt like i dont belong here, like im an alien. I have wanted to kill myself for a while but i always chicken out. How do i do this?

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freefalling1010 answered Thursday December 13 2012, 9:51 pm:
god loves you and wants you to live a long life go to a pastor of a church and have him read about sucided to you you need to love yourself and never worry about what anyone else says bad to you god brough you into this world and wants you to go to heaven where there is no drama there is no worries theres only peace thats what we look forward to when we live a life on earth so please beliee in him and read bible get advice from a pastor and believe only in god and pray to him for peace

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alexisgirlie answered Monday May 14 2012, 10:01 pm:
I can totally understand what you're going through. I too have battled suicide for over a year, and was hospitalized twice and put on suicide watch 4 times. Today, only thanks to the tremendous help I've received, I'm doing much better. I'm still very depressed but I know that my life will turn out all right, because I'm willing to give it a chance. I highly recommend seeing a professional and making new friends to get you out of your predicament. I admire you for reaching this point without suicide, but no one can deal with these unbearable emotions alone. You deserve to be taken care of, and hopefully with the right treatment, you'll be a new person, with a new lease on life! Whenever you feel awful, write your feelings down, and remember how strong you are! Right now you're not alive, and life is the solution, not suicide. Think about all your dreams. Give them a chance to come true, because they will! Take care of yourself, and give yourself love, not cuts. You deserve the best life you can have, and no one has the right to abuse you. Good luck!

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dottie4 answered Monday May 14 2012, 5:50 pm:
No one here is going to give you advice on how to kill yourself. You need to seek therapy. Tell an adult you trust how you feel.
1-800-273-TALK (8255) Call this too, it's the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. You can message me anytime you need too.
You may fee like nobody cares, but I guarantee you that you probably have more people that care about you than you think.
You need to get a handle on these feelings. Please don't kill yourself...

xoxo,
dottie4

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NowYouKnow answered Saturday May 12 2012, 4:06 pm:
You should never, EVER kill yourself. I know everybody tells you that you have so much to live for and you just don't want to believe them, but your life is definetly worth living. You are an important person and need to live out your life. Besides, suicide is really just the coward's way out.

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lolalufonda222 answered Friday May 11 2012, 6:41 pm:
please dont kill yourself. you are so young and your life is just beggining. i know everything seems horrible now and doesnt seem like it will get better but i promise it will. please go through hard times so they can get stronger. i know it seems hard to beleuive but everything happens for a reasons and for all you know everything could turn around and your life can become completely different. whatever problems you have right now are not going to be in your life forever, youll have so many oportunities for things to get better and i promise you that they will. please dont miss out on all the good things to come just because your in pain right now. you have so much more left to experience it would be horrible to never even find out what you missed. please please please dont kill yourself.

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adviceman49 answered Friday May 11 2012, 9:24 am:
You don't. Suicide is not the answer. It is not even a solution. There are people and organizations who can help you. The following two hot lines can offer you the type of help you need and did not get from your parents. The first one is called RAINN. This stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network. They operate a 24/7 365 hotline answered by trained professionals who will talk with you and help you find people in your own neighborhood who can help you. Their number is: 1-800-656-HOPE.

The second hot line is for the National Suicide prevention Hotline. Their number is 1-800-273-Talk or CHAT. This hot line is also open 24/7 365 and they two will talk with you as long as you need to talk with them. They will also help you find professionals who will help you deal with the depression and anger that is causing you to have suicidal thoughts.

Most importantly is if you are feeling suicidal now pick up the phone and dial 911. Once you place the call your parents cannot cancel your call for help. A police officer and Fire Rescue will be sent to your home.

The Police Officer is there to protect you and see to it you are safe. The Fire Rescue to see to your Medical needs. If you need to go to the hospital for treatment your parents cannot refuse you from being taken their that is why the police officer is there to protect you. So have no fear of the police officer and if you need help now call 911. Tell the call taker you are felling suicidal then follow their instructions.

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