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Should i do it again?
Ok....so im a 13 year old girl, and i went over my friends house a few days ago(she's a girl). Anway while we were on the floor watching tv about to go to sleep she reaches over and puts herhands down my shorts and starts fingering me... i sort of liked it, then she takes my hand and tells me to do it to her, so i did and the nxt day she said that she wants to do it again... what should i do?
ps:im not bi-sexual or lesbian
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Well, your only thirteen so it seems difficult to tell whether you actually bi or lesbian. If your friend fingered you and you liked it thats fine. You can carry on easy, because everybody goes through this stage anyway.
If you want to do it again, do it again. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. xx
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Almost every teen goes through a little experimental phase and playing "doctor" is quite normal. There's no way you can or should label yourself at such a young age. If she starts to pressure you into doing something you're not quite ready to do yet, you can have an honest talk with her about how you feel and I'm sure she'll respect your wishes. As long as you keep things between the two of you, I would do whatever makes you happy. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok. Well honestly i dont see a problem with it. I'm seventeen and i remember when i was your age, not to long ago. your just becoming a teenager and want to experiment as long as you know your not by or a lesbian then its ok just dont go to far in the stuff you doing. if you really liked it then do it again, trust me your not hurting nothing
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather. I hope the wisdom that comes with age and life experience will be helpful to you.
What you should do is entirely up to do, no one can tell you what to do in this situation. Neither should you let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do.
You are not a lesbian or bi-sexual. What happened between you and your friend is totally normal. It is called experimentation; learning about ones sexuality. Most teenagers start to learn about their sexuality by experimenting on themselves through masturbation or through same sex touching and feeling. This is what I believe has happened with your friend.
Puberty brings on a lot of changes within you and to your body. Some of these changes are going to bring on sexual urges. There are different ways to handle these urges, which start as you have just found out with your girlfriend.
The key here is to learn to control your urges and to act on them appropriately. There is nothing wrong or sinful about what has happened. As I said the decision as to do it again has to be yours and yours alone. Do not allow anyone ever to force you to do anything sexually that you do not want to. That is advice for know and the future.
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