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bestie problem
OK.... three months ago my bestie snapped and threw me against a wall in a park bathroom.... I havnt talked to her since then and mom thinks ive punished her enough.... I still dnt want to talk to her.... But i feel really bad..... What do i do? btw im 12 nd female.
LJB
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None of this is your fault. Stop looking at yourself as where all the blame lies for everything. You gotta live life with a sense of proportion, so relax, step back emotionally and analyze how you really feel about this without overthinking it. If you decide you still don't want to be friends with her again then, well, it's her loss. You can't live your life for the benefit of others at the sacrifice of your own. She isn't entitled to your friendship anyway.
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well friendships have problems but being made was natural its been a few days you should talk to her to see what was wrong maybe you can help her try to work it out thats your bestfriend! Goodluck
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To be honest, she sounds nothing like a decenct friend. You are only twelve, and if your mum thinks that, then she might not know what you have ACTUALLY been through. Tell her what she did isn't acceptable and you can't forgive her. Move on and make new friends, and if you become close again then maybe it will all work out.
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Hey(: to start out if she did that to you she isn't your bestfriend. Also she should be the one to feel bad not you she was the one being a jerk. I would show her you don't care and I would get new friends because you deserve better(: good luck I hope I helped!!! if you need anymore help on this or anything else visit my website/advice column at www.annatn.web.officelive.com
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Honestly, I believe if your friend would do such a thing in the first place they wouldn't be considered a friend. But you should also think about what may have caused her to snap. Try talking with her and explaining that you don't want a friend who will hurt you physically or emotionally. I say, try to give her one more chance, and if she blows it again there, then it was a friendship that was never meant to be.
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