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I have feelings for my step brother. How do I tell him?
i am a 17 year old girl who has feelings for my 21 year old step-brother and is it normal. i really need your help i dont know how i am going to tell him
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hannah
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It might be normal to develop a crush on a step-sibling, but that doesn’t mean its okay to act on those feelings. We often have feelings that are not okay to turn into actions.
You haven’t given many details here. Perhaps you haven't even known each other very long, but it's still not okay to pursue your step brother romantically.
It will cause a great deal of upset and discomfort for everyone involved. Mostly to him, as he will almost certainly have to turn you down, and then be very uncomfortable and awkward around you for a very long time.
Take a deep breath, and look for someone who is available to you. Your stepbrother may as well be married for all the good it does you. He's not an available man for you. Not at your age, or with your family connection.
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It could be normal, but I don't think it is. I think you might have your feelings a little mixed up! You might be feeling closer to him because he is now family, so don't worry. Just try to move on, it shouldn't be that hard. Don't tell your step-brother, because he is FAMILY, and you can not have that awkwardness.
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I personally do not find it normal behavior. Your stepbrother is now your family. Blood or not, He is still your family.
I'm adopted, Would it be normal if I were attracted to my sister? No. Move on and meet someone who is not in the family, No family needs that sort of drama anyway.
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