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should i tell him?
I have this friend and its been two years since we met of course at school he's actually a good guy with a humor personality which i love about him. and in the pass months i been feeling something special for him like more than friends and i dont know if he feels the same way for me? we always hanging together going to parties , chilling at the movies but should i tell him how i feel for him? i dont want to mess up our friendship too aw what should i do?
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i dunno. i say get more confirmation that he at least feels the same way as you. try subtle flirting or hints that you may feel a little spark between you both. just flirting goes a long way, even if he wasn't interested in the first place, he'll do a double take when you treat him a little differently. maybe start commenting on how smart he dresses, brush against him arm slightly when you guys are in the cinema. he'll take the hint. true, now there are more men who prefers the girls making the first moves. but it's still better to make sure first than to rashly confess and be sorely embarrassed. been there, done that.
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Well, if I had to guess I would say there is a very good chance he is in the same predicament you are! If he is choosing you to hang out with and go to movies and parties with then he obviously enjoys your company and it would seem he prefers it to going out and finding a girlfriend to do these things with. With a friend like this you should be able to ask him anything. Just say "Is there a girl in your life that you have special feelings for?" If he says yes then you can pretty well bet it's you since you seem to be the only girl he is hanging with. If he won't say it's you then ask "Is it me? Because I would be very happy if it is."That should remove all doubt.Good luck!
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