Pre-ejaculate still contains some sperm, even though it's a lot less than a complete ejaculation. A full ejaculation contains as many as 100 million sperm at a time, and sperm within pre-ejaculate can be as many as a few million.
If semen got to the moistened area of the vagina then you could have been impregnated, very easily at that.
Sperm can "swim" through fabric even as long as it's moist. It doesn't even have to be "wet" for them to be able to travel through it. A little moisture is all they need to survive the journey. The moisture can come from the pre-ejaculate itself, your own moisture from your vagina, or even sweat that you two may release during the activity.
It only takes one sperm to fertilize one egg and create one baby. A few million sperm within one pre-ejaculate is a lot more than one. If conditions are right then the sperm that do travel into the vagina can survive anywhere between 5 to 7 days, and in absolutely perfect conditions they have been found still alive at 2 weeks!
If you are going to continue to engage in risky sexual activities like this and do not plan to become pregnant then please take the proper precautionary measures and use a condom. Condoms help to prevent pregnancies to about 88% with typical usage. If you are not willing to take oral contraceptives or any form of hormonal birth control then you are left with either condoms or risking pregnancy. You need to make a decision, together, on which is the best option. Creating another life simply because you wanted to have a little unprotected fun is not very bright and can cause a lot of problems in your future. Get your priorities straight before continuing these activities.
alisonmarie answered Tuesday July 21 2009, 5:47 am: This depends on what you mean by foreplay.
Pregnancy happens when semen comes into contact with the vagina. It is highly unlikely for it to happen when there are clothes in between, but it is better to be safe than sorry (plus, things can get messy!). [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
Mystique23 answered Wednesday July 15 2009, 12:11 am: Well by foreplay what do you mean? It depends on what you call foreplay.
If there is absolutely no genital to genital intercourse then the rough answer is no. But you have to be more specific. You can choose to keep the questions you ask me private if you like. [ Mystique23's advice column | Ask Mystique23 A Question ]
Kendra_Berri answered Tuesday July 14 2009, 12:44 am: No. You cannot get pregnant through touching, which is all you're really capable of if you're clothed. To get pregnant you have to have sexual intercourse. The only way this would not be true is if the male has ejaculated and one of you has for some reason and in some way taken the semen and rubbed it or inserted it into your vagina.
Sperm cannot travel through two sets of clothing. It dies very shortly after it leaves the body if not delivered into another body, as well. Once it dries, it's toast. It may seep a little through dude's underwear, but it's not going to seep through his pants and then your pants and then your underwear. Fat chance.
Again, you can only get pregnant if the semen comes into contact with your vagina, in which case it doesn't dry, doesn't die and it can swim to your uterus, where there may or may not be an egg to fertilize. [ Kendra_Berri's advice column | Ask Kendra_Berri A Question ]
BahaiMa22 answered Monday July 13 2009, 8:06 pm: NO, You cannot get pregnant if you two have clothes on. Only if the penis enteres the vagina that is how it happens.
Cux answered Monday July 13 2009, 7:30 pm: The only way to become pregnant is if sperm enters the vagina, by getting near it, or actually inside of it.
If that doesn't happen, then you can't get pregnant.
If he touches sperm and fingers you, or you do that, then you risk pregnancy.
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