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Can being fingered delay my period?

Question Posted Monday November 16 2009, 4:55 am

My bf fingered me 5 times this month. It was my first experience, I have never been fingered before. My period is due to in 1 day and I have no signs of it (i.e. sore breast).

My question is, can being fingered delay my period or miss it? I'm asking as I have never been fingered. Tell me pls.


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Mystique23 answered Monday November 30 2009, 12:06 pm:
Sorry for taking so long to answer. No fingering yourself cannot delay your period. Sex can and so can being on the pill.
Some times your body go through some changes, and your period may not come exactly when you expect it to come. i am sure by now it came.
Also for future reference, if you decide to let your boyfriend finger you, do not be afraid to tell him that it is too rough if it is.
I hope that this helps, GOD bless!!!!

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KayChapman answered Tuesday November 17 2009, 4:33 pm:
I was going to say doubtful, but I put some thought into it, and I can see that there may be something to it. If you're being sexually active, your body is thinking that mating will occur soon. If you're near your period, your body may slow down its cycle somewhat, trying to increase your fertile time as much as it can. However, even if this is possible, I don't see it pushing back your period more than several days, a week max. It certainly wouldn't stop your period completely. If that's the case, something else is going on. Hope i helped. Feedback is welcomed.


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Kendra_Berri answered Monday November 16 2009, 11:40 pm:
Being fingered will not affect your menstrual cycle in any way. Nor can oral sex, or french kissing, or dry humping, or any kind of non-intercourse sexual activity.

Things that can affect your period and make it heavier, lighter, early or late are:
Dietary changes
Very heavy exercise

Things that can regulate your period:
birth control pills
Nuva ring

A late period if you are not having sex (that is straight-up penis/vagina intercourse) is not a problem. Bodies are not always like clockwork.

Fingering is a safe activity. If his hands are clean and he has no cuts on his fingers, then you have every base covered. There is no chance of STDs or pregnancy. If anything about it is going to change your period, it would be stress. So make sure you feel ready to be fingered, and only do it if it feels good. If it doesn't feel good, give your boyfriend some instructions.

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crazytoad30 answered Monday November 16 2009, 7:00 pm:
it can't make it delay but it can make you start earlier. being more active and eating healthier somtimes can though.

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LOL_x0x answered Monday November 16 2009, 6:00 pm:
No, fingering doesn't mess up your period.

However, stress does. So stressing and thinking fingering can mess up your period, might actually be messing it up.

-Laura (17-f)

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christina answered Monday November 16 2009, 8:04 am:
As far as I know, it can't. Stress & worry delay your period and it seems like you're a little worried.

You're gonna get your period, it may just be a little late. You didn't give an age but I'm gonna assume you're young. If you just got your period a few years ago, it's going to be irregular. It'll regulate itself once you get older. No worries.

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