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Heyyy; Im Keanna. Also known as KayChapman. I love too give advice. So; here i am on Advicenators :) Im 14 years of age and will be 15 on June 10. I may be young but give great advice and be sure to try my hardest on giving my best. Im very experienced. Not in a bad way but i have had sex, been fingered, etc. So whenever you need advice. Im here :) Thankks.

xxoo
-KayChapman

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does anyone know some exercises that helps you lose stomach fat and thigh fats?

Sit ups for your stomach. Then you can lay on your side, and lift you leg up and down for your thys. Let me know how it goes, hope I helped.
-KayChapman.

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13, female
So there's a guy... He's 16 and he doesn't have a girlfriend. I think he's really cute. We see eachother at parties and there was a party yesterday, and of course there was music, so we danced together to bachata. It was nice, but I guess I should've talked to him more while we were so close together. It could've been the perfect time to talk to him.(NOTE: he doesn't make fun of me or anything like that.) One thing I don't get is that he flirts with me once in a while even though he doesn't have feelings for me.

Anyways, I know he doesn't like me, but I really want to tell him that I like him, just so he knows and so I don't have to be so sneaky all the time. Should I tell him? How do I tell him?

Thank you to everyone who answers! Even if you think your answer won't help, please write it down there!

Girl, you'll NEVER know how he feels until you go for it and talk to him. Most guys like a girl who makes the first move. Just find a perfect time and go for it. Let me know how it goes, I hope I helped.
- KayChapman.

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Okay, so I downloaded the latest itunes. I have an account from before, I just got a new computer and its not letting me download songs now. Whenever I try, there is a message that says I need to allow the cookies to access my itunes. I've tried going to the control panel and through the "tools, internet options" but I still can't get it to allow cookies for itunes. I don't know what else I can do to allow cookies or if I need to do something different to fix this problem. My computer is a Windows 7. Please help!

You need an iTunes card. You have to buy everything now. I just got an iPod touch. Hope I helped.
-KayChapman.

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im 15 female my boyfriend is 16 and when we went to have sex both our first time he couldnt get his penis in it really hurt as he tried he did finger me but that hurts but we had to stop we tried again and the same thing happened i must be really tight his penis is about the average size im nervous to try again what do we do?

Well, Just try too let him eese his fingers in slowlyy. Blood may come out meaning yer cherry popped. & It shouldnt hurt as much after that. Let me know how it goes!


-KayyChapman.

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Hi! I'm having my Sweet 16 next month and I'm stuck. I want a party but I only have like 50 people in my guest list. What do you suggest I do for my party? I need ideas. Please help. I only turn sixteen once.:)

Thank you in advance!

Okay; Sweet 16?
You shouldnt let certain people in. Like hang fliers up at school so everybody will come & itll be the party of the year. As of fer yer partyy; It is a SWEET sixteen. So have tons & tons of sweets. & You can wear a bubble gum blue dress with a cotten candy pink waist tie. [Strapless] Or vise versa! Hope i helped. Let me know how it goes :)



-KayChapman.

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17/f
so ive never done anything further than making out before but my boyfriend fingered me for the first time last night. it felt alright at first but then it started to hurt. he told me if it hurt that bad, we prob shouldnt have sex but ive always heard that it hurts the first time. was this a bad sign or is it normal ?

It is normal for it too hurt the first time because nothngs ever been up there b4. So once the small hole is opened it will hurt. Usually its not long tho. Hop i helped! Let me know how it goes.




-KayChapman.

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i apologized to him about what happened and he said that it was ok and he laughed about it :)what else could i talk to him about? and when i talk to him how can i make myself not nervous around him

So sorry it took so long too respond. But talkk about yourselves; What you like, he likes, and lets see. Picture him as if you've known hem for years. Lke he's yer bestfrann. Maybe then you'll be more comfortable around him. Hope i helped!! Let me know.




-KayChapman.

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Everyone is always talking about the hymen or "cherry" but I don't have a clue where mine is! What is the location of the hymen exactly?

Thank you for making me feel less stupid. :)

It's located just inside around the opening. It's right across the very inside to cover it. I looked up a diagram for you. Hope i helped! Let me know how it goes!!





-KayChapman

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I am a slut. There is no denying it really. I am 18 years old and I have slept with five guys! The subject came up at a friend's party and out of 17 girls I had slept with the most guys. I just burst into tears and cried!

I used to believe the "everybody is doing it" thing but now I found out that all the girls around me were SAYING they did things to seem cool and I went and did them so I didn't feel left out or like I was missing out on something good. So now I am a slut to everyone I know. I so wish I hadn't been the first one to answer how many I had slept with.

So now I feel like no guy will ever want me again. No good guy that is. I mean I would never date a guy who slept with more women than anyone else he knew so why should a guy look past what I have done?

Has anyone else 18 or yournger actually had sex with 5 or more guys? Am I the only one? :'(

Help!

Okay yerr 18? Your definantly *NOT a slut hunn. Im about too turn yerr frown upside down. I promise. My friend. No names but her last name is Carter. Is only 14 & Has Gave head too 14 guys & Has had sex with like 10! I kid you not. Guys should look past it becuase its in yerr past. &That was then this is now. &Maybe try too make yerself not as easy. Hope i helped! Let me knoe how it goes!!


-KayChapman

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what happens if you have unprotected sex twice, with a guy a day after your menstrual cycle finishes but you have the implanon in your arm and have taken the morning after pill next day to avoid any pregnancys but you still havent had your periods in two months ? ive recently had a freind ask me this but can find the answer so was hoping for some advice for her ?

Okay. Taking that day after pill or having the shot will definantly mess with yerr period cycle. My friend doesnt have periods that often due toothe shot & The regular pill. She shouldnt worry. Its probably just the shot & pill. But just too be sure; She should take a pregnancy test. Hope i helped! Let me knoe how it goes!!


-KayChapman

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My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out?

If you still like him then it shouldnt matter what other people such as your friends; the catty girls; or his dad. Its how you two feel. No1 else matters in yerr guys relation ship. Give it another shot :) Hope i helped!. Let me knoe how it goes!!



-KayChapman

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what would you do if you liked your best freind a good while back and he told you he couldnt see you in that way because he was going out with another girl and now hes single you were out with him the other day sitting and he said he had flashbacks of when you used to like him and you asked if he meant it in a bad way but he replied no of course not what does this mean and what should you do if the feelings you had about him are starting to return ?? help would be grand thanks .

Hmm.. Maybe it means he's interested in you. You should difinantly go for the relationshipp!! You miss 100% of the shots you dont take. Hope i helped!. Let me knoe how it goes!!



-KayChapman

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My friend and I were fooling around and I got hit in the face with her elbow! Now I don't want to go to school and have everyone think my dad or my boyfriend beats me so how do you make a black eye go away as fast as possible?

Thank you!

You can try makeup. But the *BEST way is too push a ruler over it. Sounds painful. I knoe. I tried. It works. Just make sure too *NOT put ice on it. It just makes it worse and will make it heal slower. Hope i helped! Let me knoe how it goes!!



-KayChapman

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I know you are going to think I am stupid but i really want to work at subway. I used to eat there all the time when I was younger and since then i have ALWAYS wanted to be the one making the sandwiches. Now I am older but still afraid that I am not old enough so how old do you have to be to work at subway anyway? Does it change depending on what state you live in or anything?

Thank you!

Signed,

Make mine a footlong!

Dear Make mine a footlong;
Usually you have too be 15 or 16. But it varies from subway to subway. Id try going into the subway closest too you and asking and getting a form. Hope i helped! Let me knoe how it goes!!



-KayChapman

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19-f
when you have sex, especially in the missionary position do you have you bascially spread your legs?? like have your feet flat on the bed... kind of like your having a baby in a way?? haha. i mean usually you always have to have your legs spread though right?

Hahaha, When male is on top; Yes girls legs are usually spread like giving birth. & Feet are not always flat on bed :) Hope i helped!




-KayChapman

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We were fooling around and he got some on his hand then he fingered me. He told me not to worry because of well lemme just ask: Does sperm die when it hits oxygen? For real? Like you know this for a fact and would bet your life on it?

Thank you!

Yes, Sperm dies as soon as it hits air. I will definantly bet my life on it. Hope i helped!



-KayChapman

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I always thought a best friend was someone you tell everything too, someone you trust, someone you can be yourself with and goof around with and a lot more. Was I wrong for thinking that? Is that what everyone else thinks best friends are for? I'm asking because my "best friend" doesnt tell me everything. She gets mad at me and says that I don't even know her. She always talks about how she can really talk to whatever new guy she's talking to about everything even stuff she cant tell me. She gets mad at me so easily and calls me a b**ch quite frequently. I've tried to talk to her about it, cause I don't understand why we are "best friends" if she can't even tell me everything, and gets mad at me all the time and calls me a b**ch. Thank you in advance. Any advice is really appreciated.

Sorry; But thats not a bestfriend. My bestfriend[s] EVERYTHING and they tell me everything in return. Maybe theres something wrong with her like something really bothering her. As you said you've tried too talk too her so theres not really anythan else you can do. I hope i helped. Let me know how it goes!



-KayChapman

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I like a guy,who seems like he wants to hookup with me but as well be a really close friend.I want him to become interested in me and want to go out with me.What could I do to maybe be hard to get or make him want more than just a friendship/hookup?

Its good that he wants too be your friend because in a relationship; You first need a friendship. Not all guys like a girl who plays hard too get, But if he were too ask you out be like "Cant; Already have plans sorry" itll leave him thinkking "I wonder what she's doing or with who". Or stuff like that. See what i mean? I hope i helped. Let me know how it goes!



-KayChapman

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Im applying for my school's newspaper's website as a blogger. They want specific categories to always blog about though. (We can choose how often we'd update it.)

They said that other bloggers have only blogged about politics & music.

Are there any ideas I can blog about regularly for the rest of the school year? Thanks :D

Have an advice column. Anonymous ofcourse. But it would be great too help out others dont you thinkk? :) I love it. Let me know how it goes!



-KayChapman

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16 year old guy ive been seeing my gf for about 4 months and im a bit worried my penis is 4.5 inches long when erect is that an ok size?
what size do girls like?

It depends on what the girl likes. I dont mean too burst your bubble :( But i wouldnt like that. I know that probably not what you want too here. But im being 100 with you. Sorry :(



-KayChapman

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