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fingering=pain ?
17/f
so ive never done anything further than making out before but my boyfriend fingered me for the first time last night. it felt alright at first but then it started to hurt. he told me if it hurt that bad, we prob shouldnt have sex but ive always heard that it hurts the first time. was this a bad sign or is it normal ?
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lol your fine.. theres nothing to worry about :)
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It is normal for it too hurt the first time because nothngs ever been up there b4. So once the small hole is opened it will hurt. Usually its not long tho. Hop i helped! Let me know how it goes.
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Mhm, that's normal. In fact it hurt for me several times when my boyfriend started fingering me. Its the same thing when you have sex for the first time: Most likely it will hurt because your vagina is not used to be stretched like that. Of course with practice it will become looser and the pain will subside.
However, for your safety make sure your guy has short fingernails if he is fingering you. You don't want to get a scratch inside your vagina that could lead to an infection. Also, if he has a cut on his finger or hand .. hold off on the fingering. You don't want his open wounds near your private areas for both of yall's sake.
It just takes practice. Start with a less amount of fingers and work your way up until it feels right.
Good luck :)
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It's perfectly normal.The first time being fingered is supposed to hurt because your vagina is being stretched out for the first time.It will hurt after he fingers you too,it's just how it is.After about a week or two it will start to feel good but I'd suggest waiting to have sex until you feel your not as tight so it won't hurt as much.
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