Member Since: September 27, 2006
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Last Update: November 27, 2009
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17/f
so ive never done anything further than making out before but my boyfriend fingered me for the first time last night. it felt alright at first but then it started to hurt. he told me if it hurt that bad, we prob shouldnt have sex but ive always heard that it hurts the first time. was this a bad sign or is it normal ? (link)
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It's perfectly normal.The first time being fingered is supposed to hurt because your vagina is being stretched out for the first time.It will hurt after he fingers you too,it's just how it is.After about a week or two it will start to feel good but I'd suggest waiting to have sex until you feel your not as tight so it won't hurt as much.
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i had sex august 21st and like i might take a doctors examination to see if i really am pregnant but i was wondering if i do get pregnant, i dont want the baby and im not having the baby, how much is abortion and can i have an abortion possibly now? (link)
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Wow,well no one is really answering your question here.
Abortions depend on how far into pregnancy you are.
And its usually split up in trimesters,since its 9 months.
So your still in your first trimester,so I'd think somewhere about 300 maybe?
I'm not positive though.
Honestly,abortion or not getting one is your choice.
I agree that if you want to get the abortion,get it.
It's honestly better to not have the kid if your unable to take care of it,compared to you having the kid and then struggling to take care of it or worrying if the adopting parents are doing the right thing.
Either way your going to regret it,think of it like that.
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can you start to show signs of pregnancy 20 days after you have sex.. because i had unprotected sex with my ex and we recently broke up and the day after i had my period and it was 1 1/2 weeks early.. and lately ive been feeling really diffrent like i noticed one of my boobs looks diffrent from the other and ive been having to pee a lo.. ive been getting really bad headachs usually early in the morning and late at night and the other night i was looking on google for pregnancy symptoms and it said one of them was "having a feeling your pregnant" and i have that feeling but i cant buy a pregancy test.. i live in a real small town and i know people that work at our local pharmacy and they would tell my parents and im only 15..i really want to tell my ex that im scared and im affraid he will think that im just saying that to make him stay with me witch isnt true.. im just really scared.. should i tell him? what should i say? who should i tell? im not close to my mom at all..just help? (link)
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I am going through the same exact thing right now,even the exact same time [about 20 days]and I have no idea what to do either.
I haven't taken a test yet because Im scared.
What other symptoms have you been having?
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Ok, well my name is Erin. And I need a new HOT AIM screen name. here is some stuff about me...
I have brown hair.
I play basketball and softball.
I love guys.
AND IM JUST UR AVERAGE GIRLY-GIRL, WITH A SPORTY SIDE.
Any ideas for a new screen name???
Thanks a bundle!
x0x0x0
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how about
"average erin"
or
"ey its erin"
something along those lines
putting numbers in , is kind of out of style
so if i were you, i wouldnt put numbers in :]
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14/f
theres a guy who i've been inlove with for about 2 years since we've went out then broken up. he totally ignored me for half a year and i was depressed pretty much. then we became friends with benifits. it was suppost to be secret but i told and some word got out, he basically hated me for 2 months. then he would tell me he wanted to be friends with benifits. this went on and off threw out april threw october in 2006. we had sex the first time over summer then he said he never should have because he loved someone else. he never had feelings for me just lust, but i had feelings for him (stupid i know).. i just cant say no to him. then when had amazing sex in october and he said we had to stop bc he was inlove with someone else. it hurt. for around 5 monthes i tried to forget about him. we never talked. then a week ago we started talking again and it seemed like we were normal friends. now we plan on having sex another time soon because we can't stop lusting over each other. i know he likes someone else and this little secrect hookup has to end sometime like before, i just don't know what i should do.. have sex with him or just keep putting it off and avioding him. i really don't know if i love him but i just feel a strong feeling towards him and its so intense. and when we'd hook up he seemed not even to care but then when we would finally talk about what we did he would admit a bunch of stuff. he can't show feelings at all. im so sorry this is confusing, but i just need comfort. i don't want to tell anyone else about this whole issue because its my responsiblity to make sure no one finds out. i mean if everone knows ive done it 3 times before i was even 14 they'd never stop talking about me. just please help (link)
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I may not be able to help you, but i have the exact same problem.
Literally the exact same problem and i dont know what to do either.
My advice is just get through each day by day ,and what happens,happens.
If you still like him, you can like him ,you cant stop feelings for someone.
You have to let it come naturally.
When people hear that ive had this problem ,they just start assuming things without even knowing the story.
Im the same age , and i always feel so awkward but things will all change within a year or two.Even though it feels like it will never end lol
Sorry I couldnt help, i was just surprised someone had the exact same problem as me haha
yeah same here
its not as easy as everyone thinks
they say "get over him"
but its really really hard
and every person i talk to says to get over him too, everythings so hard
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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you. (link)
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Im 13 years old
I go to physcology classes becuase I have the intelligance too.
Maybe one day in the near future Ill be your phychiatrist.
Im glad you wasted your time on critizing the site, honestly We like the site and If you dont like it , then honestly none of us care.
But i understand your point partially, but some teenagers get help from this site as do adults.
Hearing peoples opionions is good and when you dont have any one to talk to about things, this site helps alot.
Think about people in other situations, and I actually have 2 advicenators accounts, and on my other one I have answered over 400 questions and 90 percent of them were given ratings of 5, so apparently im doing something right.
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my friend dylan is selfish and never cares about anybody or anything i say and he is mean what should i do still be friends with him or not and he is always mean (link)
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Ive had your problem
and still do
A tip... DONT GIVE IN!
He will take advantage!!
Im still looking upon an answer as you are.
Sorry if this didnt help =[
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13/F
This guy used to be my best friend. This was about 3 weeks ago but then he changed. Hes turned really hateful. The problem is I still Like like him. I have for over a month now. At first we used to flirt all the time, we always talked, and I trusted him with everything. Then everyone in school started to notice and bug us about it. As a cover up I lied to him saying I liked this guy that every girl likes because I didnt want to ruin our friendship. But then I felt really bad for lying and I in a way told him the truth. I told him how I didnt think I should like anyone because no one would like me then when he asked who I told my friend I like I told him that I said him because everyone thought so. That was about 2 weeks ago. Now we barely talk and when we do people try to make a big deal out of it. But I STILL like him no matter how much of a jerk he's been lately. I can't stop thinking about him and his actions have worried me so much my best friend is worried about me cause she says Im never myself at school anymore because usually im the girl we joke around with in the group whos always joking around and laughing and smiling while lately i cant stop thinking all the time about him. Anyone have any tricks on how to stop liking a guy? or even just some advice? (link)
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ive got your problem as we speak
so your not alone....
it sucks so much!
sorry i couldnt help, i just wanted to share that i have the same problem exactly
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Help!!.
What are some great boy toys i can get my 16 year old boyfriend for Christmas?
any ideas..
guys..
just list stuff you have..or want.. or would love your gf to get you.. detail please!! i don't have a very open mind when it comes to boy stuff haha
thanks so much~ (link)
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sex on the beach!
haha kidding.
He might like something you guys can do together like a date out to a fancy place for dinner or if he likes to skateboard then you might wanna get him like stuff from a skateboarding store
or a gift ceritificate is always nice :]
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so i was just wondering. what do you look for in the opposite sex? like, for guys, do yu like preppy or sporty grls, etc. and for grls, do you like jocks or nerdy-ish, etc. and describe yourself, too. i'm just curious what people look for. thx! (link)
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Me personally, I like the popular skater guys.
Whether they are short or tall.
I like the ones with pretty eyes and stuff,,and when they try and act manly and funny.
And im preppy, tall and blonde :]
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For my englihsh class we have to make 10 comparisons of celebrities.
An example: Will Ferrel is as tall as Vince Vaghun.
That basically means I need 20 celebrities, in pairs of what they have alike.
So far I have,
1. Marilyn Monroe is as talented as James Dean.
2. Jessica Simpson is as blonde as Christina Aguilera.
3. Jeff Corwin likes crocodiles as much as Steve Irwin.
4. Jim Carrey is as funny as Robin Williams.
Can anyone help me think of more pairs of celebrities that have things in common?? THANK YOU! :] (link)
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5. Paris Hilton has a perfume line, just like Brittney spears?
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I dont have a best friend, I never did, I am not in a clique, and I dont have many friends. Sounds fun, right? Yeah right. There is a major clique problem in my school-- I figure, If i cant fix it, find the clique I fit in. Idont fit in any clique. The popular kids rule the school. I'm friends with indivudual Pop ular kids but together, i'm a no one. Most kids in my school dont like me, dont ask me why but i really want more friends. I tried out for cheer. and kick. and didnt make it, I was dissapointed because I really wanted to be part of a team. And have those girls to sleepover with and have my 'group'. Help?
I rate high!
(13/f) (link)
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Hmm , Ive been in your positon before.
I'm glad your attempting to try and get involved, thats an excellent start but you cant MAKE THEM join you, so its not your fault you didnt make it.
I am in a popular group at my school, and what you have to do is let friends come to you.
If you wanna have friends its easy to make friends, whether they are popular or not.
Start off talking to people about casual stuff and build off of that.
If you wanna be more popular, dont hang around them until they get annoyed but talk to them about what they like talking about and friendships will build off that .
Good luck!
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13/f
ok so theres this guy i like named cody. were kind of friends but not really. i talk to him on myspace and aim sometimes. so one day i see hes on aim so i say hey to him. heres how it went..
me-hey
cody-what do you want now
me-umm i dont know
cody-then dont talk to me
--cody signs off--
im not exactly sure what i did to deserve that. my friends are saying maybe he was in a bad mood or hes under alot of pressure right now (he has me and my friend ashley chasing after him you could say. she asked him out and he said no and he also knows that i like him). anyway when i read that i almost cried. what should i do?? (link)
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Almost the same exact thing happened to me, only I NEVER EVER IM the boy , i just randomly did one day.
And i almost cried to , but the best thing to do is ignore him.
Not completly but enough for him to get the hint and make him feel bad for saying that.
Thats what I do ,
and it is starting to work,so when he says " hey"
just be like " hi"
and if he says "wats up"
say " nothing."
just like that and he will get the point that your a litte ticked off and maybe he'll ask about it!
Hope I helped!
--Kendra
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