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aha what should i do?
can you start to show signs of pregnancy 20 days after you have sex.. because i had unprotected sex with my ex and we recently broke up and the day after i had my period and it was 1 1/2 weeks early.. and lately ive been feeling really diffrent like i noticed one of my boobs looks diffrent from the other and ive been having to pee a lo.. ive been getting really bad headachs usually early in the morning and late at night and the other night i was looking on google for pregnancy symptoms and it said one of them was "having a feeling your pregnant" and i have that feeling but i cant buy a pregancy test.. i live in a real small town and i know people that work at our local pharmacy and they would tell my parents and im only 15..i really want to tell my ex that im scared and im affraid he will think that im just saying that to make him stay with me witch isnt true.. im just really scared.. should i tell him? what should i say? who should i tell? im not close to my mom at all..just help?
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I am going through the same exact thing right now,even the exact same time [about 20 days]and I have no idea what to do either.
I haven't taken a test yet because Im scared.
What other symptoms have you been having?
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It's possible that signs can be shown.Don't let fear get in the way to let your ex know,sooner or later he has to know if you really are pregnant.Tell him that something has come up,you didn't do it on purpose,that it's very hard for you to tell him but, it could be possible that you may be pregnant,be ready for how he will react,who knows he may be supportive,try to help,tell him if he can do you the favor to get you a pregnancy test so you can find out,get over the doubt that is really bothering you,that you want things to turn out right,that you don't have any bad intentions,that if you are it's his,explain why but,you need to know if the results are positive,that you would like for him to support you on a very difficult situation like this,and it's urgent that you get his help,and that this has nothing to do with forcing him to stay with you.Best of luck!
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Okay well if your ex brought you in this situation then he should help. you can either explain to him the situation and warn him that he helped bring you in this situation and he should help you out. or you could get a close friend and drive to a different pharmacy. or if you know someone older that you could trust ask them to get you one. im not sure if its possible to order one online at your age but you could try to check that out.
hope everything works out :]
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get a close cousin or someone to buy u a pregnancy test .. or haf a trusted friend drive you to a different pharmacy where you can buy one and check .. i dont know what else to tell you
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