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How Can I Stop Liking him?
13/F
This guy used to be my best friend. This was about 3 weeks ago but then he changed. Hes turned really hateful. The problem is I still Like like him. I have for over a month now. At first we used to flirt all the time, we always talked, and I trusted him with everything. Then everyone in school started to notice and bug us about it. As a cover up I lied to him saying I liked this guy that every girl likes because I didnt want to ruin our friendship. But then I felt really bad for lying and I in a way told him the truth. I told him how I didnt think I should like anyone because no one would like me then when he asked who I told my friend I like I told him that I said him because everyone thought so. That was about 2 weeks ago. Now we barely talk and when we do people try to make a big deal out of it. But I STILL like him no matter how much of a jerk he's been lately. I can't stop thinking about him and his actions have worried me so much my best friend is worried about me cause she says Im never myself at school anymore because usually im the girl we joke around with in the group whos always joking around and laughing and smiling while lately i cant stop thinking all the time about him. Anyone have any tricks on how to stop liking a guy? or even just some advice?
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I don't think he's being a jerk on purpose, but he's probably uncomfortable around you because now he knows that you lied about who you liked & that you kinda told him that it was him you liked. He's still getting used to the fact that you like him & he doesn't know how to handle his feelings.
I'd talk to him about it. I know people are making a big deal about it, but if they've got anything to say to you about it, just tell them to fuck themselves. Your personal life with your friends, & who you like is none of their business, and if they think it is, they're pretty stupid. Just, talk to him about it & ask him straight out why he's being weird around you. If he says he's not, point out the things he does to prove it to him that he is, and tell him you won't be hurt if his answer is bad. You might be lying by saying you won't be hurt, but you deserve to know why he's being weird. And if he's your best friend, he at least owes you that much. But then again, you did lie to him, so maybe not.
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ive got your problem as we speak
so your not alone....
it sucks so much!
sorry i couldnt help, i just wanted to share that i have the same problem exactly
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