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idk what i did to deserve this
13/f
ok so theres this guy i like named cody. were kind of friends but not really. i talk to him on myspace and aim sometimes. so one day i see hes on aim so i say hey to him. heres how it went..
me-hey
cody-what do you want now
me-umm i dont know
cody-then dont talk to me
--cody signs off--
im not exactly sure what i did to deserve that. my friends are saying maybe he was in a bad mood or hes under alot of pressure right now (he has me and my friend ashley chasing after him you could say. she asked him out and he said no and he also knows that i like him). anyway when i read that i almost cried. what should i do??
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Don't worry about it, he was probably in a bad mood. Plus your'e like 13 no need to get all flustered over this. Go read a book or something.
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That was rude of him to treat you like that. Even if he is not interested in you, that is no excuse to handle it that way. Sometimes, it freaks guys out if you give them too much attention. He may have been in a bad mood, but I would just ignore him from now on. There are other guys that would enjoy hanging out with you and chatting. Life is too short to worry over the ones that don't appreciate us. It hurts when someone rejects us, but the quickest way to end the pain is to move on. Consider it his loss and set your sights on the other guys who are your age at your school. If you talk to many guys, instead of concentrating on just one guy, then you are most likely to find some that are really cool.
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SAME WITH ME!
this is what's going on...
you NEED to ingnore HIM like he is to you for a while. It may be hard, but toughen up. After a while, call him. He'll act like nothings wrong. And if he doesnt confront the problem, you have to. Say, I dont know what's going on but I'm alittle confused about what you said to me that day, about me not talking to you, and then you just signed off? What's going on?
You'll straighten things out sooner or later
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Almost the same exact thing happened to me, only I NEVER EVER IM the boy , i just randomly did one day.
And i almost cried to , but the best thing to do is ignore him.
Not completly but enough for him to get the hint and make him feel bad for saying that.
Thats what I do ,
and it is starting to work,so when he says " hey"
just be like " hi"
and if he says "wats up"
say " nothing."
just like that and he will get the point that your a litte ticked off and maybe he'll ask about it!
Hope I helped!
--Kendra
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Your friends could be right saying that. But thinking about this logically, if he wasn't in the mood to talk to people, why would he be on aim?
Perhaps he's feeling the pressure of 2 girls lusting after him.
I know it must have hurt you to see him talk to you like that, but if i was in your shoes, I'd just say "sorry for annoying you" or something to that effect. and ask him if you've done anything. then leave it at that. (leave him a myspace message so he won't have to reply stright away if you're on aim) and let him reply in his own time. Maybe conversation will start flowing from there.
Best of luck.
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guys are dumb sometimes and like. their friends will be over and they`ll write like that.. and then the next day.. they`ll talk to you.. also.. it could have been one of his friends. especially in junior high... he`ll mature in about 3 or 4 years.. if that.
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or maybe he just doesn't like you?
just because talks to you on aim and myspace doesn't mean that he's gunna talk to you all the time.
it's just aim.
i mean.. if you don't really know him,
then for all you know, the boy could be a complete asshole.
i kind of had an ex boyfriend like that,
we barely ever talked in person, and i mean we went out for like.. 6 months.
but we barely talked in person.
it's not worth it.
i would much rather have someone i could talk to in person all the time.
boys are moody, no matter what.
they just kinda tend to have little mood swings, and believe it or not, there is something that's pretty much PMSing for men, it has to do with their testosterone [i probably spelled that wrong] levels.
basically, if i were you, don't worry about it, if you really wanna talk to him, then try to get to know him a little better, don't cling to him, don't be annoying, be cool, a little flirty, but not too much :)
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Your friends are right - he might've been in a bad mood, and he just might've been aggrivated over the fact you and your friend are chasing after him. It might be starting to get annoying on him, so just try backing off him for awhile ( i'm not saying this to be mean just sometimes girls don't realize how much they might be hounding the guy ). And then after awhile, just IM him and be like,"Hey, I just have a question to ask. What happened on (mon, whatever day) day. You were sort of rude to me and I want to know, is it something I did? Did I just catch you at a bad time?" And just talk to him about it, and I'm sure he'll be more than happy to explain it. There's so many different reasons he might've snapped, it might not even be because of you, just the wrong time, wrong place.
I hope I helped.
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