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guy advice...
I like a guy,who seems like he wants to hookup with me but as well be a really close friend.I want him to become interested in me and want to go out with me.What could I do to maybe be hard to get or make him want more than just a friendship/hookup?
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Haha! Same problem with me actually. Well hang out with him most often. Make him see that you are the person he wants to be with. Or...you could ask what type of girls he's into and try to be that person.
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The fastest way to drive a guy you like away is to have sex/hookup. Don't believe what you see on t.v. Most honest guys will tell you that once a girl gives it up the thrill is gone. I'm not telling you to "play hard to get", but I am saying that if you show that you have respect for yourself and you act like you're something worth waiting for, than decent guys will be attracted to that, and want to get to know you as a person before getting physical. If you are patient, you'll be rewarded with a great guy. If you try to take the "shortcuts", I think you'll be sorely disappointed with the consequences.
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Its good that he wants too be your friend because in a relationship; You first need a friendship. Not all guys like a girl who plays hard too get, But if he were too ask you out be like "Cant; Already have plans sorry" itll leave him thinkking "I wonder what she's doing or with who". Or stuff like that. See what i mean? I hope i helped. Let me know how it goes!
-KayChapman<3;
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