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I am 13, and I do not even have crushes, could you explain?
Hello, I am a 13 year-old girl, and I do not like guys. The feelings I have are only for my friends that are girls.(They are not love feelings; the feelings are just I do not want a guy to hurt you in anyway so please date me instead.-sounds weird coming from a girl I know!-)When I was younger I would date them, to hide from all of my friends what my emotions, are.
I do not even have the slightest attraction to them, but, the same goes with Women.
Also, I do not want a crush or a "love".
I would rather die, am I immature?
I do not think they have cuties it is just I...I actually do not know why.
(By the way I am a young-lady)
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Well honey, you are not immature. People go through different stages at different times in their lives. Sometimes you have a crush and you don't. Sounds to me that you are a bit confused.
The fact that you don't want guys to hurt your friends is a very noble, but wanting to date them might be an indication of something else. You also stated that you are not attracted guys or girls so that is also another indication of something.
In all honesty, saying that you don't want guys to hurt your friends sounds like you had a terrible experience with a guy(s) and since your friends (who are females) were kind to you, you are now gravitating towards them.
One thing is, you might be a lesbian. But since you say that you are not attracted to male and females then you might be what is called a-sexual. A-sexual people are people who are not attracted to the opposite and same sex. you might want to do more research on this and see for yourself. Another thing is you can have your hormone levels checked. If you are low on estrogen and other feminine hormones it can alter that way you feel about certain things and certain situation.
One thing that seemed to work is prayer (believe it or not). With GOD all things are possible!! Even sexual clarity. Trust in GOD,ask him for guidance and believe that he has worked it all out.
You are thirteen, you have your whole life ahead of you to have crushes and feelings. Give it sometime, with prayer and belief you might be surprised how things can turn around!!!!
I hope that this helps, if you have any other questions, just message me again. GOD Bless You!!!!
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